Bodum wrote:....
I consistently chased the wrong women. Now i'm in my mid-thirties trying to find someone remotely as good as the girls i passed up on in my 20s.
The thing a lot of younger people don't realize is that women of their age don't stay available forever. Over time, young women find boyfriends and husbands, and they have kids.
So, if you don't find someone in your teens or early 20s, then later finding someone becomes a lot harder. You have fewer women to choose from. And those that are available might have kids or some problems.
It would be nice for young people to know this, while they are still young. But unfortunately nobody tells them this. And they find out for themselves, only when they get older and realize that their situation has changed.