gapefan wrote:I see you conveniently omitted this part
slut_lover wrote:Maybe Arwen would enjoy it if the LP scenes were to be a bit rougher..Lots of face slapping..
slut_lover wrote:I'm all about giving the girls more enjoyment not pain
Philogynist? My ass
I guess you don't understand the word "maybe". I'll explain. It means that it if she was given the choice she might choose to have the scene rougher because that's what turns her on. I took that thought from images posted of her at the link to subspaceland. Did you look at the link? If you didn't then there is no point in continuing. I said "maybe" after looking at subspaceland. Got it?
It is clear from your post that what she did at subspaceland is outside your comfort zone. In contrast I see it as just one more part of the Arwen Gold personality and have no problem with it, instead saying that maybe - sorry, it's that word again that you have difficulty with - she would enjoy exploring that side of herself at LP. Whether she would or not, clearly you wouldn't. So I know enough.
Your reaction shows that you certainly don't understand what philogynist means. It means respecting and admiring women, including the things that turn a woman on, whatever those things might be.
There's a huge difference between forcing a woman to do something she doesn't enjoy and giving her the opportunity to do something she does enjoy, even if the things she enjoys may seem extreme to some.
I don't moralize and I don't judge. I enjoy and respect women just as they are, and I like to see them able to do what they enjoy.
I can understand how a woman who is submissive can get pleasure from having vanilla sex while being constrained, which as far as I can tell is what Arwen experienced at subspaceland. It's giving up control to somebody else that creates the added excitement. Face slapping and ass spanking is not there just to create pain, but done just hard enough along with pleasurable stimulation to send the person into what is called in the BDSM world, subspace.
"During the scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasure trigger a sympathetic nervous system response, which causes a release of epinephrine from the suprarenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins. " comes from this link below.
http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/subspace/ There may be those on this forum that will understand what I said and there will be those that won't. It's outside this thread for me to start explaining the BDSM world to those that are unfamiliar with it. However it seems clear that if all forum members are like gapefan then it is likely that even light bondage and slapping would not be understood by Legal Porno members so probably should be avoided by Arwen in LP shoots.
I think that I have said enough to stimulate discussion, so I don't intend adding anything more on this particular subject.
A philogynist.