justinwarren41 wrote:If those pics are from her [spam] I would say they need to come down since there's a paywall involved and sharing here cuts into her cashflow, and of course if it's a private social media too have to respect that too
If it is a IG or Twitter where she is promoting Ella the Pornstar then bring em on. Yea noticed the Sochi Olympic logo on her jacket
pain_and_pleasue wrote:There should be some kind of gentlemen's agreement to protect her privacy.
This +3.
Though I understand and fully support what you are getting it (pain and Pleasure), I don't think an appeal to the potential shared notion of 'gentlemen's agreements' is the mechanism. Even the term is outdated and suspect (has the feel of men negotiating between themselves about how much privacy women should be granted. It's an ugly patriarchal vestige).
And that besides, I've never met anyone who claimed to be a 'gentleman' who was one. On the contrary. Self-defining as a gentleman is usually the mark of the beast. Like people who constantly say 'trust me'. Red flag, right there!
But a little gentle tone-policing aside (no disrespect), I am absolutely with you on the sentiment.
Everyone deserves the right to compartmentalize (and Firewall, so to speak) their Professional Lives and a Private Lives, and to have those boundaries respected and observed. Ella too.
And you don't even need a bunch of ageing patriarchs smoking cigars around table after dinner 'Gentlemen' arguing over how much privacy and when, because Article 8 of the Human Rights Act sets it all out in black and white.
So Reason 1. Ella is entitled to her privacy, and the right to demarcate and separate out things she shares for public consumption, as a model and adult performer (among her many other non-xxx talents), and things for family and friends.
That's an easy one to understand and commit to observing, because we all want our private lives to be respected.
Reason 2. We've already seen a number of amazing models get doxxed, shamed and pressured out of the business entirely by knuckle-dragging 'Kinder, Küche, Kirche' nationalists in Russia (and that bullying macho sickness is not confined only to there). What you post here, they can see. This may well be a first stop for those in Russia on a doxxing mission, because there are so many new Russian models appearing each week. Don't make it easy for them.
Ella can block and control who gets to see what on her private/personal social media audience to a greater degree. She is also free to delete things she no longer wants to share, or lockdown/close her account is she decides she wants/needs to.
She doesn't have that option here, so she is reliant on members respecting her boundaries when reposting.
All we see and know of this is that their career here stops. But behind that and following that, doxxed models can be financially/sexually blackmailed, be pushed away by their families and friends, be forced to leave their job, even their town. Suicides may have been caused by it. It can be completely life destroying.
My own policy (everyone will form their own, but I am just disclosing mine for reference), is that unless a performer has posted something in their official promo professional xxx social media, it should be accepted as private and off-limits.
If you follow them on social media, ask their permission to repost and they say fine, then that's probably the only exception.