by BlueShadow » Mon Sep 20, 2021 12:57 pm
Nothing surprising:
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Once you speak up and set boundaries they (narcissists) try to manipulate you into feeling guilty or believing that you're the one being unreasonable...
Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding.
Narcissists sometimes help others and do favors because it gives them power over those whom they help. If someone helps you, you feel grateful and willing to help them in the future. ... This induces feelings of guilt in their target.
There are four types of people who narcissists tend to be attracted to, according to Arluck: People who are impressive in some way, either in their career, hobbies and talents, their friendship circles, or family. Someone who will make the narcissist feel good about themselves, through compliments or gestures.
Narcissists feed heavily on the admiration of others. Without other people, they are nothing. That's why one of the biggest fears for narcissists is the complete lack of admiration from others. ... Admiration from others is the source of a narcissist's power in their mind, and without it they are nothing.
Because narcissists have a very fragile self-esteem behind the mask of ultra-confidence, they become very jealous of anyone who has genuine confidence derived from real abilities. ... Because they need to surpass everybody else to feel superior, they become very jealous when someone else surpasses them at anything.
Narcissists also try to make others feel special to gain control; for example, they might compliment or flatter the individual to get them on their side. They then go on to play with difficult emotions like shock, awe, and guilt to maintain control over their victim.
A narcissist's pathological envy arises from their need to be the best, their excessive sense of entitlement to being the center of attention at all times, with the most fame, wealth, and status. Any threat to their grandiose delusions of grandeur will result in a narcissistic injury, and inevitably, narcissistic rage.
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) Aggression and sadism (towards self, others, or both) Paranoia.
The thing that drives a narcissist crazy is the lack of control and the lack of a fight. The less you fight back, the less power you can give them over you, the better,” she says. And because they never think they're wrong.
If you have to make a decision to stay away, make it clearly and boldly, and follow through.
Kiss Up Or Shut Up. If they're your boss or they have power over you, fighting makes it worse.
Know What You Want And Get Payment Up Front. Don't assume they'll play fair.
In a narcissistic pattern, the hypersexual person consciously seeks superiority to others by means of “beating” imagined competitors and “conquering” people of sexual/romantic interest.
Adult narcissists tend to display these immature, childish tendencies, of lack of empathy for others, sadistic streaks, a cruel immature sense of humour, and destructive tendencies to unwitting people. A two year old's world revolves around him. He is the most important person in the world.
They devalue their victims, purposefully seeking to make them feel worthless so that they may subjugate them to their will. The unrelenting mind games of the narcissist are incredibly damaging to those on the receiving end; they can lead to anxiety, depression, and a whole host of other psychological effects.
Don't give them ammunition. Narcissists need to feel superior. ...
Don't take them at face value. Image is everything to narcissists.
Don't try to beat them at their own game.
You don't feed their needs for drama or attention
because they never think they're wrong.
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it's just funny to see how all this is confirmed every time.
Before sending girls there agents should have them read this.
Just do the job, take his money, and go away. Or have nothing to do with him, like Zlata Shine and others.
Open your eyes, open your mind
don't pretend to be blind
-Now it's time to face your lies-
oops....
