Private sexual life

[ringstinger]

Had some fun with 'friends with benefits' for a while.. over a few hookups I sussed out her fantasies, she enjoyed watching porn, and slowly I introduced her to watch a few of the LegalPorno scenes and she seemed to enjoy watching it..

Our hookups went to a whole new level. She loved watching and fucking at the same time. We had a session and still remember her saying something along the lines 'I've got your cum dripping out of me.. don't even know from which hole??'.

She was a rare find.. I reckon most women would freak out watching the vids on this site?

[analwithyourgirl]

Yes, porn can help you explore new dimensions of sex and make you better. I just avoid "manhandling" and "rough". I want sex to be raw, naughty and even a bit nasty but not violent. There is nothing sexy with a torture chambre.

i think sex & violence together is so cool

Me too, the rougher the better (if the partners likes it of course).

[analwithyourgirl]

Had some fun with 'friends with benefits' for a while.. over a few hookups I sussed out her fantasies, she enjoyed watching porn, and slowly I introduced her to watch a few of the LegalPorno scenes and she seemed to enjoy watching it..

Our hookups went to a whole new level. She loved watching and fucking at the same time. We had a session and still remember her saying something along the lines 'I've got your cum dripping out of me.. don't even know from which hole??'.

She was a rare find.. I reckon most women would freak out watching the vids on this site?

You hit the jackpot. Girls liking LegalPorno scenes and willing to fuck like this are treasures. Congratulations!

[Sir Noel]

How do you rate your sexual life after watching all of this porn? Can you separate porn world and real life sex? How does porn affect your looking at your partners? For me porn has rather negative impact, as I want to go more and more hardcore in bed which not always suit my partners.

I am really really lucky as I can enjoy porn nowadays without sex with my wife being impacted.
Being honest, if I went back a few years it maybe DID negatively impact my sex life. My wife is pretty with a good body, but we are both nearly fifty so to be sure her looks and body are nice forther age but she is not the figure of perfection that you can see in porn. She also only occasionally let me fuck her ass, which is my lifetime sexual obsession.
Things are better now. She is no ypunger and we are both a bit thicker round the middle but she still gas a cuvyy figure with bit tits and a narrower waist sobhokds those pounds well. She has come round herself to understanding her sexuality better and she LOVES her pussy and even her ass stretching open. It must be two years now since we had sex that did not include my cock in her ass. She is even happy now to take me straight into her mouth from her ass, which she did of her own accord, getting used to it gradually, licking me after I came on her face
So my sex life is not as wild as the porn films but I have a wife who actually enjoys the things that turn me on, a wife that would complain if I did not fuck and finger stretch her asshole every time and so I am at a place where my porn enjoyment and sex life sit beautifully together.
So yeh, all good!

[analwithyourgirl]

Yes, porn can help you explore new dimensions of sex and make you better. I just avoid "manhandling" and "rough". I want sex to be raw, naughty and even a bit nasty but not violent. There is nothing sexy with a torture chambre.

i think sex & violence together is so cool

Indeed, sometimes girls are like ,,fuck me like you hate me" and it's super cool!

[dap-addict]

I tend to disagree with all that have been said for a simple reason: we do not share the same definition of porn
To me porn is close to action art a bit like movies: a drama may be fiction - a pure product of Phantasmagoria but still that doesn't stop some actors to live it as if it was their real life
Hence, I don't care about whether porn simulates the desire of having sex in a taxi or fucking the delivery guy or the secretary
All that matters to me is the performance of the actors and the intensity they are willing to invest even if it consumes them physically

House MD - I agree with ya. I also get slightly annoyed to when people say porn is strictly fake. If anything, it's both fake and real. The setup (consent/preparations/warmup/planning) behind the scenes/makeup/script/angles/etc. is all done to give the viewer a final product that is ultimately staged. The fucking is still real in the sense that an erect (most of the time) is still going into the orifices of an attractive woman that is naked.

So when I view porn, I'm mostly looking at a scene primarily due to it involving an attractive woman who is not only getting naked - but fucking as well. As far as the scene setup and premise goes, it's up to the viewer on whether the "Fantasy" is something they can temporarily believe. The fucking is still real (although not entirely truthful either). The orgasms, body language, vocal expressions, and chemistry during a scene is going to be hit or miss. You'll have people faking it (some really well), while some may be legit.

It still boggles my mind porn isn't as transparent as it can be after all these years. (...)

I went off on a tangent, but to answer the OPs question - I don't personally use Porn as a benchmark with my sex life, doing so would set up some impossible to meet standards and expectations (including disappointments). (...)

That's a very good post!
And just to answer a question I get frequently asked here: I never even wished to try DAP in real life! LOL! Its really pure porn fantasy for me. This said its nice to have girls I want it to try do that for me on a porn set. But this is a third dimension of OP questions I guess.

[Pineapples Studio]

I am glad that most of you have fairly healthy attitudes about sex.

You cannot control other people. You can’t even really control yourself. Control is an illusion - like freedom. The best you can do is define your standards and live by them.

[BlueShadow]

porn made me forget about the pussy. Now it's anal my passion but unfortunately porn is not reality; not all women accept anal sex. If I lived in the USA or Europe I would have flirted with a Tgirl and have her as a partner. I believe that I am heteroflexible

Same here man, porn made me anal freak. First thought when I meet new girls for fucking is what can I do with their gapeholes. On the other hand I still love the feel of pussy but more like in a fingering toy.

Poor girls XD I mean, asshole and pussy/clit are more connected than you think... Never forget the pussy during anal sex, better feeling. But it seems that you care more about your feelings than the girl's. At least from what I read eh.

[BlueShadow]

Bustylady, you’re an idiot.

It’s true, you don’t have to ask for anything in life. You ask out of respect for the free choice of the other person. In fact, if you can’t get what you want by asking, you are the real failure, because it means you’ve either picked a bad partner or failed to make her want to please you.

Asking is not the same as groveling. “Would you please let me do this next time we have sex?” No, you don’t want to do that. I didn’t say that. You “ask” by presenting your partner with a choice. You can think of it more like an instruction to submit, but you can’t make the choice for her. That is called rape, my friend.

busty "lady" is a known troll. Don't fall for it friend.

He must be a troll for sure. Can't believe he is serious, looks like absolute provocation of 2inch dick manlet from his mother's basement.

LOL

[analwithyourgirl]

Poor girls XD I mean, asshole and pussy/clit are more connected than you think... Never forget the pussy during anal sex, better feeling. But it seems that you care more about your feelings than the girl's. At least from what I read eh.

Not really, playing with pussy is really important and I never said I care more about myself. I just prefer dirty minded girls with almost pornographic attitude than others

[trueEroskaven]

Everyone has different tastes about sex, and a lot of people doesnt really know them, porn can be a mind opener in this matter, obviously if is watched in a mature manner.

I love porn and i have been watching it for decades, and my tastes are pretty clear for me, luckily my wife understand them and now i can say that my sexual life is very satisfying, even if she hate porn. I think the most important thing is just to understand each other in your sexual life, give and receive and respect each other tastes, even if these are extreme, like manhandling or whatever. Now if yor partner or you doesnt have this understanding or just doesnt wanna undestand each other, then maybe its time for moving away.

[DoubleOrNothing]

Double penetration was not invented by modern porn.

[analwithyourgirl]

Double penetration was not invented by modern porn.

Of course not and it shouldn’t even be a surprise tho. Like literally sex in ancient civilizations like chinese or greek when you had higher status was wild. Imagine how their orgies looked like in these palaces. They had literal sex slaves so...

[Pineapples Studio]

Of course. How else do you think “Greek” became a euphemism for anal sex?

[analwithyourgirl]

Of course. How else do you think “Greek” became a euphemism for anal sex?

It is actually related to gay intercourses between hoplits.

[Pineapples Studio]

Correct, but gay sex = anal sex, and it evolved from there.

(*Hoplites. Sorry, couldn’t restrain myself. I studied classics in college, among other things.)

[DoubleOrNothing]

Double penetration was not invented by modern porn.

Of course not and it shouldn’t even be a surprise tho. Like literally sex in ancient civilizations like chinese or greek when you had higher status was wild. Imagine how their orgies looked like in these palaces. They had literal sex slaves so...

DP is also really, really obvious.

[analwithyourgirl]

Correct, but gay sex = anal sex, and it evolved from there.

(*Hoplites. Sorry, couldn’t restrain myself. I studied classics in college, among other things.)

My bad