Porn Preferece Evolution/Desensitization

[Gooman422]

When I first watched porn, although I didnt start vanilla it was pretty tame to my preferences now.

1 on 1s never really did much for me unless they were first anals.

I initially enjoyed only BGG scenes with or without anal.

Soon I could do only anal BGG scenes.

I finally got over more than one penis scene and couldnt believe what I was missing out on: Aurora Snow, Ashley Blue, etc. Gangbangs.

This led to bukkake American gokkun, and cum play scenes in general.

In the past couple years I would even find scenes like prolapsing hot: I thought it was the hottest thing watching Monika Wild suck out all the cum out of Brittany Bardots prolapse.

When I first began watching porn, a scene with prolapses would weird me out. Now, I go out of my way to find videos of girls sucking each others prolapses.

The reason I thought about it is that I finally got into some Facial Abuse scenes (which I abhored just last year) and golden showers. I still cant stand the puking or the slappinng but who knows in the future.

I was curious if you guys had similar journeys where you initially disliked/indifferent certain genres but now have warmed up to it.

I am guessing this is a very common occurrence.

[CanadianCouple]

yes of course, probably the same for most of us

When you watch the same thing over and over it becomes normal or boring and so we all can seek more stimulus and more adventure. So , we seek out more interesting porn, when that becomes boring, we move it farther and farther.

I got all the way to super extreme and anything goes, and have now dialed back a bit and found a good spot for now. I am sure that will change again

Porn and sex is a lifetime journey and adventure. Tastes evolve and change over time .

[101mike101]

I think there is a limit to how extreme porn you can get to like. And this limit depends on your sympathy and empathy with the lady. Which is your ability to imagine yourself in another person's shoes, regardless of whether this person is a man or a woman.

My limit in how far I can get desensitized in porn is the lady's apparent discomfort or pain. Anything that looks like this I don't like. I've never liked it, when I started watching porn. This hasn't changed over time. And I don't think this will change in the future for me.

Because the pain and the discomfort, that the lady apparently feels, I also feel in imagination. And this feeling is so unpleasant for me, that I can't continue to watch it, when I see it.

[analwithyourgirl]

When I first started watching porn I was just only looking for some mainstream and basic clips. I never liked amateurs as the quality was so so bad and now when people learned how to do porn I started to like them. Starting with vanilla I was going further with more rough sex and more ,,deviant" actions. When I was a teen I would probably shake if someone told me to watch scene with pissing (squirting too (weird cause I LOVE both now)), gangbang, fisting and even puking maybe - now I watch these with joy. It depends on mood I think - sometimes I enjoy watching art-porn more or less rough, sometimes (especially with girlfriend as she likes it most) medium rough scenes with some faceslapping and basic anal, and sometimes I just want to see a hardcore clip where girl gets degraded and have all of her holes used as a cum dumpster. And it changes in the blink of an eye, for example today I was first watching LegalPorno orgy with lots of insults, pee and licking and when I finished I watched a softcore Nicole Aniston scene with just some basic BBC fuck. Maybe I just relaxed or maybe it's random.

[OKCTwister]

For me it's the other way out: I never get tired of rough multiple simultaneous penetrations with gapes, prolapses, double blowjobs, creampies, strong manhandling even if the same actress shooting under the same background
To me it's all about performance and impression made by actors... the screenplay, actress shot are superficial

[Jocke]

Yes, I want porn to evolve and become more advanced but for me that doesn't mean rougher. I think porn can become more advanced by going off in different directions. More violent is one direction in which i have no interest. I prefer to explore more cum play, piss play, lactation or slime and wet in general. Another direction is more open orifices. A third direction is more dialogue and more contrast like CFNM

[viewer2]

Yes, I want porn to evolve and become more advanced but for me that doesn't mean rougher. I think porn can become more advanced by going off in different directions. More violent is one direction in which i have no interest. I prefer to explore more cum play, piss play, lactation or slime and wet in general. Another direction is more open orifices. A third direction is more dialogue and more contrast like CFNM

I don't think that more dialogue will interest a lot of people. Or at least, not in Europe. They already do that in the US and I can't watch their porn.

In terms of sexual practices, I do agree with you. There's a point where you can't go rougher anymore.

[Mr_Bondi]

Depending on my mood I can get off to playboy style photos or DAP gangbangs...it would be tough to go back to the Sears catalog I suppose.

[DPraved]

My preferred direction for porn in the future would be the return of story porn, like it was done in the 90s. There are much more opportunities for interesting scenarios and contrast plays with actual characters for the girls to play. Needless to say, these stories and scenarios would set up young, innocent teenagers to end up getting gangbanged at the end of a series of accompanying scenes. I'm thinking of Blondie in Kruger Park or Marushka and Gaby Marceau in Bitches 1&2, but with more guys and better action of course. It's a shame we don't get to see those things any more with proper image quality.

[101mike101]

My preferred direction for porn in the future would be the return of story porn, like it was done in the 90s. There are much more opportunities for interesting scenarios and contrast plays with actual characters for the girls to play. Needless to say, these stories and scenarios would set up young, innocent teenagers to end up getting gangbanged at the end of a series of accompanying scenes. I'm thinking of Blondie in Kruger Park or Marushka and Gaby Marceau in Bitches 1&2, but with more guys and better action of course. It's a shame we don't get to see those things any more with proper image quality.

Today's incest porn is a kind of storyline that works with today's porn-fans. But this storyline immediately starts with instant attraction and cocky action.

The lady shows her cleavage right away. And the guy gets an erection going for her. They undress and fuck. Which is a bit more interesting, than Gonzo porn, where everybody starts out naked, and they just fuck right away, after some foreplay.

I think roleplaying makes it more interesting, because it gives you a chance to fall for the chick with some of your feelings and not just your cock. And it doesn't have to be an incest kind of storyline. Any storyline that starts with the hot fully dressed lady showing her cleavage at first and then ending up with a bunch of guys in a good fuck would work just as well. It just needs to start with sexual titillation right away, without any delay, just like incest porn does.

[misangrenegra2]

A big yes and is very common i guess.

Personally i started watching classic porn: BG with only pussy sex (surely like a lot of people), later in some movies or scenes i watched new things that catched my attention.

Have been a progression, when i watched something new i searched more content of that to compare different styles of the same content.

Finally i understood that some fetishes can take my attention more if are shooted with an specific style and content, being mostly the preference when i decide watch that fetish. In the same way i understood that some content or fetish is not for me.

At the end i have been discart some kind of content forever because i consider is bored and soft.

Currently i believe that i have established the core and limits about what i want watch in porn, but never could be know it...."Maybe" if i make a new step in anal porn could be TS porn but is not sure if it will be something new to enjoy at all

[Jocke]

Depending on my mood I can get off to playboy style photos or DAP gangbangs...it would be tough to go back to the Sears catalog I suppose.

Lol!
I saw a story about a guy in the US Army WW2 time who made beautiful pin up drawings and got paid a lot. If needed, your imagination will make up the rest. I actually think a bit of desensitization help us control our feelings when the girls show to much tush.

[Jocke]

I think a script or a story could be drafted in two ways. Either the actors play roles as different characters or they are themselves but they interact around a theme. I prefer the second for several reasons. One reason is that few performers are good enough in acting to pull it off without being pathetic. The second is that if the theme is around sex instead of a plumber fixing the zink we can learn more about the performers in a sincere way.
Below scene has a great theme even if it isn't believable.
She Does Anal
"Jessa Rhodes Coaches her Friend to Anal Sex with some Role Playing"
You have to search for it yourself.

[bdsmpretty]

Depending on my mood I can get off to playboy style photos or DAP gangbangs...it would be tough to go back to the Sears catalog I suppose.

Lol!
I saw a story about a guy in the US Army WW2 time who made beautiful pin up drawings and got paid a lot. If needed, your imagination will make up the rest. I actually think a bit of desensitization help us control our feelings when the girls show to much tush.

I am crazy for that whole pinup aesthetic. I keep trying to gently hint, nudge producers and models to work more of that look into the styling of scenes. From pinups to the broader femme fatale thing of the 1940s/1950s. The mix of ultra high-maintenance glamour and 'moral/amoral wickness'.
The women were sensual, seductive and erotic when it pleased them, but tough and taking no BS when under pressure. A great period in the evolution of modern femininity I think.
So I am all for that image and attitude being brought into any scenes.

So I agree with you about that it is worth people going back to those images and moods to re-sensitize jaded perspectives, and to relearn to appreciate the less graphic and more sensual world of eroticism beyond the purely gynecological 'old in-out' (Anthony Burgess).

As for desensitization, I suppose everyone goes through that curiosity period, where you want each new scene to be more extreme than the last, just for the sake of seeing something more extreme than the last. But ultimately, I think everyone hits a point where they come to recognize that what they are seeking is not even genuine eroticism or sensuality anymore, it's just spectacle for the sake of spectacle.

At which point I suspect many (I include myself among them) roll back to that point where you feel you kind of forked in the road away from sensuality and into spectacle.

For me it's all about the particular unique qualities of the performer; her personality, how she styles herself, how she moves around while she's 'doing it'. It's actually not about any particular acts in-and-of-themselves. To that extent, I almost never watch DAP or pee. It generally slows scenes down and gets in the way.
For example, my favourite scene this year is Sharlotte Thorne's one-on-one debut. Last year (2020 plague year) I can't exactly remember my favourite, but very probably another beautifully intense one-on-one debut. Lelya Mult or Sofia possibly.

So I think many go through the wall of 'extreme for its own sake' (pure curiosity and idleness), and then feel something is missing and roll back to recalibrate their sensitivities as boredom and jadedness remind them that they are in a rut.

[dap-addict]

I initially enjoyed only BGG scenes with or without anal.

Soon I could do only anal BGG scenes.

I finally got over more than one penis scene and couldnt believe what I was missing out on: Aurora Snow, Ashley Blue, etc. Gangbangs.

This led to bukkake American gokkun, and cum play scenes in general.

I had exactly this one in the 90ties as well.
Than around 2000 I reached a point I would always hunt down DAP and when I found LP in 2013/14 I wouldnt go below DAP anymore.

Yo yes, you may call it evolution. But since 2013 I stand at 1 point basically. Ok, I developed a wet tolerance and I start actually to enjoy wet just over last few months, but it doenst go as far as I would search it out really. Price difference here is just so small usually, that I prefer to get more footage incl. wet over less footage (= dry).

Desensitization I wouldnt agree, because I still can derive lots of fun also with simple intros, just the porn girl I fancy walking into studio for instance.
Maybe it helps I know she's getting DAP-ed later, but to have first fun I dont need to watch her getting DAP-ed. Its just that I'd rather not watch her at all if she wasnt DAP-ed at least in some of her LP/AV films.

[101mike101]

I initially enjoyed only BGG scenes with or without anal.

Soon I could do only anal BGG scenes.

I finally got over more than one penis scene and couldnt believe what I was missing out on: Aurora Snow, Ashley Blue, etc. Gangbangs.

This led to bukkake American gokkun, and cum play scenes in general.

I had exactly this one in the 90ties as well.
Than around 2000 I reached a point I would always hunt down DAP and when I found LP in 2013/14 I wouldnt go below DAP anymore.

Yo yes, you may call it evolution. But since 2013 I stand at 1 point basically. Ok, I developed a wet tolerance and I start actually to enjoy wet just over last few months, but it doenst go as far as I would search it out really. Price difference here is just so small usually, that I prefer to get more footage incl. wet over less footage (= dry).

Desensitization I wouldnt agree, because I still can derive lots of fun also with simple intros, just the porn girl I fancy walking into studio for instance.
Maybe it helps I know she's getting DAP-ed later, but to have first fun I dont need to watch her getting DAP-ed. Its just that I'd rather not watch her at all if she wasnt DAP-ed at least in some of her LP/AV films.

I'd say that the words 'Evolution' and 'Desensitization' have somewhat contradictory and opposite meanings. Because 'Evolution' is advancement and increase in complexity and sophistication. While 'Desensitization' is a negative word that means a loss of some ability to sense. Which is a kind of degeneration, rather than evolution.

I think what we call here 'Desensitization' should be called 'Sensitization' instead. Because you acquire a new taste for anal and for other such things that you didn't have a taste for before.

It's true that you lose some of your taste and desire for pussy-porn, once you acquire a taste for anal. But this is more like a change of sexual orientation, than desensitization. Because this is a change in the kind of porn you like, rather than an increase in intensity and amount of the same kind of porn.

Desensitization would be an appropriate word to use, if you just want more extreme pussy-porn, rather than a total switch from pussy to ass porn.

[Starrio]

You don't realize how far you are until you compare yourself to other people. For example I don't know anyone that likes anal, and I mean just the basic kind, so it kind of makes me feel weird that I do love that kind of stuff.

Then when it comes to gangbangs it is even less people, most guys can't even look at stuff like that, so it does play with your head that for you it is actually hot to see a girl getting fucked in the ass by multiple guys.

Guys in general just want to see pussy fucking with one guy, and they can't watch more than 5 minutes because porn for them is strictly for masturbation.

They can't just sit there and enjoy the facial mannerisms and gestures of a girl getting her rectum stuffed with cocks for an hour. They can't appreciate that, and to me they are missing something beautiful.

[101mike101]

You don't realize how far you are until you compare yourself to other people. For example I don't know anyone that likes anal, and I mean just the basic kind, so it kind of makes me feel weird that I do love that kind of stuff.

Then when it comes to gangbangs it is even less people, most guys can't even look at stuff like that, so it does play with your head that for you it is actually hot to see a girl getting fucked in the ass by multiple guys.

Guys in general just want to see pussy fucking with one guy, and they can't watch more than 5 minutes because porn for them is strictly for masturbation.

They can't just sit there and enjoy the facial mannerisms and gestures of a girl getting her rectum stuffed with cocks for an hour. They can't appreciate that, and to me they are missing something beautiful.

People usually watch their porn in private. So, you can only guess about the kind of porn other guys like.

And although some guys might share some porn pictures with each other, they probably behave differently in public, than they do in private. So, they might restrict themselves to pussy-porn and softcore porn in public, but enjoy anal porn in private.

The only people who know your and other people's true taste in porn are those who have access to your Internet surfing data. Which includes your Internet Service Provider, the Google company, and US government agencies, who can compel these companies to reveal to them your data even without a warrant from a judge.

And these private companies also sell their data to other companies that do background checks for a fee. So, your employer and the companies you apply to for a job can probably find out about the kind of porn you watch. And even private people, who are willing to spend some money, can probably dig up this kind of dirt on you for their own purposes, such as to gain some advantage in divorce proceeding for example.

[fighthardin321]

Idk here in America I have YET to find ANYONE that watches LP content...

They are always like whats that?

And Im in the LS and talk to a lot of people about what they watch...

It's always.. Oh we just watch some dvd porn

But ya I agree with most on here...You watch something extreme..get bored of it and onto the next extreme thing...

But I have yet to get tired of DAP content though...Even after 6 years watching it...

Still cant get enough

[dap-addict]

But I have yet to get tired of DAP content though...Even after 6 years watching it...

Still cant get enough

I think DAP is addictive!
For me its 26 years this year and still not bored at all!
Maybe "piss" is addictive, too. I test this in 2021 extensively now, but I do have my doubts.

[fighthardin321]

But I have yet to get tired of DAP content though...Even after 6 years watching it...

Still cant get enough

I think DAP is addictive!
For me its 26 years this year and still not bored at all!
Maybe "piss" is addictive, too. I test this in 2021 extensively now, but I do have my doubts.

Ya true...

Always thought I would get bored of watching DAP honestly...

But don't seem to...

Helps that I don't just watch it...But actively do it with the wife as well

We just starting into doing some wet stuff.

She seems to like it...At least when she's drunk

[Starrio]

Now that you guys mention that, something very curious to me is that all the women I have been trustful enough to share my hard porn with have all say one way or another something very similar that got me thinking, which is that they can enjoy watching hard stuff like that because they enjoy seeing other women having a hard time.

What gets me about this is that all of them have said something along those lines, which to me only shows the rivalry women have over other women even if they haven't met.

I work as a photographer so these women I work with that sometimes I get close with, are all beautiful and very good looking, and you would think that because of that advantage they would be confident enough to not be that way, but that's not the case.

It shocks me because even the porn actresses themselves aren't that mean. I say this because I noticed that when women penetrate other women on film they are very gentle and cautious to enter her with ease, and I really doubt these girls I'm close with would be that gentle if they had that opportunity.