dirty garden girl is horrifying but she is an outlier. Not many women go to that extreme, for most its more of an actual "rose" than some complete explosion of your guts to the point you will need a diaper when you leave the house.
I never liked prolapsing but I happened to watch a Monica Fox scene today (a 7 on 1), and she did quite a bit of buttrose and I have to admit it looked absolutely gorgeous. Maybe its just the way she does it.
I still prefer the large gaping hole. Gapes are for me:)