isis666xxx wrote:
i personally consider the concept of cheating and infidelity to be stupid.
if i get a wife i would like to have sex with other people too apart from her
I think that it is very healthy to be married to a wife for many decades, but to have sex with other people too apart from her.
I once had a French partner, as well as a Thai partner, and a Chinese partner...each one of those said something similar too:
The French ex said, "It is normal for a man to have a mistress. As long as he comes home to his wife, and his family...it is quite healthy in a relationship/partnership. It seriously helps to keep things fresh".
The Thai ex said, "You can have mia noi(s) (additional wife), and even have children with them. But when you die, me and our children will get most of everything".
The Chinese ex said, "You can sleep around, and have many other mistresses, you can even have children with other women too. But as long as I do not know about it, and you do not tell me about it. Then that is okay with me".
I find the concept of monogamy in humans over the span of potentially 70+ years quite unrealistic.