dap-addict wrote:hyapet wrote:And in terms of finding out who and where these girls are that shot all that porn through all the ages of the Internet ... is becoming as simple as a few button clicks.
Just sayin'.
It's not really affecting the mental state of such girls during their active porn years, though, which is the main concern of this tread.
I think it's pretty clear to all girls starting with porn now in 2025 that internet will not forget. Hope is society will change, become less hypocrite and more tolerant. But even if the opposite is the case, with all backlashes we have nowadays, its still mental health during actual porn work periods we should be mainly concerned with, also in view of all those sad suicide attempts and losses he had in 2025.
This said I really dont see much difference in mental health of porn girls with any other entertainment workers. It's just a high pressure work!
I'm going to very simply use your own words to prove to you that porn is an absolutely destructive force against girls and women - and causes/acerbates the very mental illnesses that lead to so many of those suicides.
Some girls/women are "mentally built for porn." In that, they can sleep with a thousand dudes, and they just don't care. Or, they can be looked down upon by the rest of society, and they likewise don't care. Those women are the absolute exception, though. And most likely are able to process and handle such circumstances because of their socio/psycho-pathic tendencies.
Girls don't just go through porn, dap-addict, absolutely perfectly fine with what they're doing, and then once they leave porn, society surrounds them and makes the feel bad, and so therefore they develop mental illnesses. That's not how that works.
Sex is inherently a sacred thing. It is also based on survival as well. In the old days - being monogamous meant being afforded the protection and security that a man would bring. That's how women survived. And that survival technique was passed down because not only did it work - but it also produced the most stable and enjoyable outcomes for life itself.
So, inherent to the experience of pretty much all women (or the vast, vast, vast (non defunct) ones), is the desire to find the most optimal survival strategy, which has been hard-coded into their DNA as finding a stable mate, and procreating with them.
I'm saying this because that "winning strategy" has embedded itself not only into the "physical" portion of women's bodies, but into their "mental" portion as well. And much like the body doesn't like it when you start slamming a rock against your hand - it sends pain signals because your chances of survival are decreasing - the mind doesn't like it when you start sleeping with a bunch of random dudes - it too sends pain signals because the chances for survival/happiness are decreasing by doing that.
Think of your body/mind like a spaceship. Now, the there are two things that your soul finds true. You want to be happy. And you
really hate Heavy Metal Music. Now - when you start doing dumb shit that will cause the spaceship you're on to potentially blow up - it sends a warning. It starts playing Heavy Metal Music. Your soul might want to be happy - it might love doing the dangerous shit it's doing - but as long as it's doing that dangerous shit - the Spaceship is going to keep playing Heavy Metal Music. And soon - no matter what you do - you're not happy anymore. And seeing as you've put your Spaceship into such a shitty spot - it won't stop playing the Heavy Metal Music.
So, rather than thinking of things with
absolutely fucking moronic monikers like "liberal" or "conservative" - think of it more in terms of "survival." Much like I don't like the feeling of exploding pain in my hand when I smash it with a rock - a woman doesn't like the feeling of intense depression she gets when she whores herself out - and severely decreases her chances of having a stable partner/children.
You might think that a "stable partner" or "children" is some passe desire that's reflective of 50 years ago, but up until about the last ten seconds of the entirety of human life on this planet, it was the absolute norm, and essential drive to have essentially "won the game." And that reflects reality enough - the idea that life isn't supposed to fizzle out and just disappear - that the very basis for how a woman's body/mind is built, is to guarantee that outcome.
And if they stray from that - or perform a whole series of maneuvers that severely cripple their chances of reaching that goal - the body and mind have those Heavy Metal Music safety-triggers to make sure that the woman, even if she's an absolute idiot, will still recognize the feeling of terribleness that her choices have made.
And make no mistake - girls and women very often feel these things as well while or right after they've done the acts. Just that, they don't go up to the producer of the scene and start crying. No, everything is smiles, and middle fingers, and laughs. It's only when they get home, when they're trying to fall asleep at night, that the pangs of regret start to kick in.
And that's also where the roads down all sorts of bad things (like alcohol, drugs, self-harm, sleep-deprivation, anorexia, and a deterioration of friendships/connection with family) come in as well. They're a response to those feelings.
This isn't me being some stuffy conservative saying this shit. This is me just laying out how life works.
The porn industry is absolutely vicious. But not openly. All the damage happens behind the scenes, once the lights are out, and everyone is on their own. The guys? They're all high-fiving and having a chuckle. But the women? They don't respond the same way.
Lest
all of those suicides just happen to be one of the biggest fucking coincidences ever.
