justinwarren41 wrote:Good point of the double standard. I can't really answer this question since I admire the girls for having the ability get gangbanged in front of camera. So I see it a great personal trait to do this stuff not a negative
ryukenmaster666 wrote:I think the main difference I see is that it is easy for a woman. Before they hit the wall, a woman can enter a bar and get out with 3 guys in 5 min if she wants. For a man, unless you're to top 0.000000001%, it is impossible. I think it is the main point. It is easy for women, and people don't like when it is easy (that's why people don't feel it is coureagous for a 2 meters 120kg guy to hit a 1m60 45 kg man). If a man can sleep with thousands of amazing women in his life he must be exceptional (porn actors don't count).
Also I heard a theory that SDTs are way more vicious for women than men, that explain guys prefer "clean".
Now I don't say those reasons are good, but I think they could explain why there is that difference in judgment
I think if men were more selective and not ready to fuck anything that says yes to them, I think the double standard will probably vanish
Answering both of you.
RyuKen, the situation that you explained is something obvious.
A man is less selective and say "yes" if see something that take him attention.
Definetly an average woman well dressed and with a good make up can make magic in a bar or in a disco, this have been always in this way.
But i don't think that this is a part of the reasons about the main discussion.
Justin and Ryuken, the bad perception of a lust woman and of a sex worker is something ingrained in our culture.
I will try to make a summary but the first instances where the society considered these things bad behaviours come from the origin of the religions, even before.
A man could have several wifes and concubines, this wasn't considered something bad but if a woman was a prostitute, had an affair, sex before marriage, divorced..was considered blasphemious, even with several punishments, repudiated, mutilated or even worst.
We must think that all these acts, for luckyly, quite diluited in time are gone in the majority of the societies but the bad perception of do these things by a woman still remain, don't forget that until the 80s, even a little more, the society was more conservative yet, is crazy but it's hasn't been long yet to remove that perception.
A lot of men haven't good opinion of woman that had a lot of sex with different men, still remain the idea of a "pure" woman.
As i said, this can be more explained but i think can be useful to understand why, outside of the industry, the majority will think that a lady that make this content or even is a lust woman that has a lot of sex out of a relationship still being considered whores or devaluated women.