by Limala » Wed Aug 29, 2018 4:06 pm
My best go-to toy is the Jopen Vanity VR7 but I also like the Ina 2 and the Black Label Jack Rabbit. Several glass toys I have are great too.
But honestly, different toys work for different people. You need one that reaches it well, without overshooting it, and from there you need to figure out what type of stimulation works for you. Some people like vibrations, some like rotation, some like both. Some people prefer thrusting, either gentle thrusting with a toy that is rigid like a glass dildo, or maybe more vigorous thrusting with something that has more flexibility.
What worked for me to help me figure it all out was having my partner help, so I could just relax and feel the feelings. Try a firm silicone vibe with a G-spot curve, and have your partner (if possible) first find the spot, then try gentle thrusting without the vibration on. Sometimes the vibration can be overpowering and keep you from feeling what you need to feel to figure it out. When it works, your eyes will pop open and you'll say "OH!" (if you're like me), and my knees always start to shake when mine is stimulated just right. My first Aha! moment was during sex with my husband when we first started sleeping together - his penis fits me just right and rubs that spot, and I wasn't sure what THAT! was, but I sure liked it! Once I had that feeling, it was much easier to find it and do the right things to stimulate it. It might take patience and trial-and-error, but it's fun to practice anyway, and once you have that feeling you'll be glad you did!
I'm no expert, but that is my experience. There are probably articles on Sexis that will help, and hopefully you can find out what worked for other people too. Good luck!
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