Would you marry a pornstar if you could? And who?

[zeusanalfreak299]

Let's assume you would be single, would you theoretically?

[netzerkaiser]

Its a question of maturity & expectation.

1 If you believe two souls destined only for one another like maybe we do in our younger days then absolutely not.

2 But older, then maybe yes. Just a soulmate, partner, who shops, & farts, & cooks, & has good & bad days, & loves you.

3 Then there are beta's who want to feel second best.

But I think the 2nd choice is by far the most gripping...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SHCsgqZvQM

[dap-addict]

I'd support her porn career, or at least be there for her when she returns tired from the set etc, but wouldn't wanna get involved deeper with her porn career. As to who, that's a BIG question, she would have to be a real soulmate for sure, given my age rather 30ty-ish I guess, but can't name names.

[ExtremePornFan]

I vote yes. I can't say who as I don't know any porn stars very well. My decision to marry would have little to do with her being a porn star, but I would be fine with her career choice. She would have to fight my girlfriend for my hand in marriage. I will sell tickets for the match.

[squirtjunkie]

no question, yes!!!! still active!!!

never say " marry you if you change..."

if she doesnt fit how she is, or what she does, don't marry her.


Names? Well we only can see how she looks and how she acts...what can we say how she is in private live?????


over all: a quite stupid question...


if you ask:
Would you hate if your beloved girlfriend, you want to mary, confesses she does porn?

I would say : no, not at all.Obvious this girlfriend ist beauty enough to be able to sell her body and freeminded enough to do this.I m a lucky bastard to get loved by such a girl!!!

[dap-addict]

Names? Well we only can see how she looks and how she acts...what can we say how she is in private live?????

I think this is very realistic!
To answer such a question we'd have to be at least after 1-2 private meetings, otherwise its just very theoretically.
I for me would say I did meet porngirls in private I could imagine to marry, but I think such marriage would be difficult for sure, not because of their job but because their life has usually been much rougher and more complicated than a lot of our porn fans life. Its so easy to watch porn in your leisure time, but its a completely other thing to actually start doing professional porn (not talking about the amateur couple circus!), to constantly travel constantly test, constantly look beautiful, constantly marketing yourself for OF/Sheer/Cam etc. Its a pressure we fans can't imagine, really!

[zeusanalfreak299]

Guys. Let's keep it simple. Of course I didn't consider many factors for a successful marriage. Let's not make an empirical study out of it.

Let's simply assume that the woman you like as a porn model would have the mindset, character, interests and talents that you are looking for.

[zeusanalfreak299]

Its a pressure we fans can't imagine, really!

For me, that would be the only major critical point. I would never have certainty about whether and how intense possible late effects or psychological damage could occur.

[dap-addict]

...late effects or psychological damage could occur.

I think if the girl is a true professional she can put up with this, but it would ofc influence marriage. But than if you have a work stress even if in a completely other field it also has negative effects for marriage.
I think we really have to take a step back and realize that its just a job, although a really very demanding one. Other influence are upbringing, background, childhood etc, but here as well many people have very hard experiences and mental scars. Just that in my feeling, growing up in 'saturated' Western Europe, as in my case, makes a difference. Thus I'd really try to learn about the girls place of origin etc, I'd also learn her mother tongue, just to really understand her better. But at the end of the day its a matter or respect and only that, respect and love!

[YuriyProneBone]

Guys. Let's keep it simple. Of course I didn't consider many factors for a successful marriage. Let's not make an empirical study out of it.

Let's simply assume that the woman you like as a porn model would have the mindset, character, interests and talents that you are looking for.

That's the issue, marriage is not something you do just for looks, you do it for love. If it was based on just looks alone there are countless girls on the site that would do the job nicely; Nicole Black, Timea Bella, Helena Moeller, but looks are not important when it comes to marriage, it is the connection you have with each other.

[dap-addict]

That's the issue, marriage is not something you do just for looks, you do it for love. If it was based on just looks alone there are countless girls on the site that would do the job nicely; Nicole Black, Timea Bella, Helena Moeller...

Now that you mention her, with Nicole Black I think one could get on pretty fine, she's a very intelligent person, very kind behind a very hard shell, if you'd manage to get behind that... just an idea.

[zeusanalfreak299]

Guys. Let's keep it simple. Of course I didn't consider many factors for a successful marriage. Let's not make an empirical study out of it.

Let's simply assume that the woman you like as a porn model would have the mindset, character, interests and talents that you are looking for.

That's the issue, marriage is not something you do just for looks, you do it for love. If it was based on just looks alone there are countless girls on the site that would do the job nicely; Nicole Black, Timea Bella, Helena Moeller, but looks are not important when it comes to marriage, it is the connection you have with each other.

I'm married for 7 years, I know what it is. But again, assume there would be love, she would be your soulmate, etc...

Helena Moeller is in my Top10 too. And Jenna McCarthy.

[YuriyProneBone]

I'm married for 7 years, I know what it is. But again, assume there would be love, she would be your soulmate, etc...

Well, if it is about looks, I already mentioned a brunette, a redhead, and a blonde.

[ExtremePornFan]

I think this is very realistic!
To answer such a question we'd have to be at least after 1-2 private meetings, otherwise its just very theoretically.

I usually wait till the third date to propose marriage.

[xxxVIPERxxx]

I wouldn't rule out marrying someone because of their job or vocation.
In fact, when I was single and very young, I specifically would have aimed to marry a porn star or sex worker....I very nearly did up end up marrying an Eastern European sex worker.
We are still in touch by email nowadays (although our busy lives mean it is only 1 or 2 emails a year), and we are on friendly terms.

Based on my life experiences now, my criteria is sexual compatibility and sexual match for me. A good temper, attitude, work ethic...one thing I have come to despise is laziness.
So all in all, I would definitely marry a porn star...they just have to fit a very narrow set of requirements for me. I can imagine that a lot of girls would fall into my list. However, I doubt I would fall into any of theirs LOL!

[dap-addict]

You misunderstood me probably, EPF.
I didnt write about proposing, but about pretty theoretical question of OP since most porn fans never meet their porngirls in person - and only after 1-2 such face-to-face meetings you can say imho if marriage could be an option even theoretically at all.
But maybe I put threshold for mariage too hight!

[TomHardick]

A 100% yes!!!. Pornstars are humans, they have feelings, just an unusual job. If i could make it happen, i would marry Jolee Love, without hesitation. The most beautiful girl in the world, great personality, i could watch that sweet laughing like forever.

[misangrenegra2]

I voted yes, i would be a fucking hypocrite if i reject a woman that was/is/wants to be a pornstar when i'm a porn watcher / customer.

As other users said. Her job would'nt be obviously the main reason to be with a person or decide to marry in the future. There are a lot of more important things to have in mind to take an very important decission like that than her job.

Personally i want take this question seriously and with respect to them because surely some pornstars had, even some of them have problems in their relationships for be what they are.

[pastaga]

Sure I would.
Sadly most of the porn crushes of my age are retired now (Linda Sweet, Anya Akulova...).
But if I was younger I would happily make my life with Silvia Soprano or Nicole Black...

[dap-addict]

Personally i want take this question seriously and with respect to them because surely some pornstars had, even some of them have problems in their relationships for be what they are.

For me this could be one side-motivation even: Not only some but quite a lot of them do have problems with stable relationships while doing this line of work. Marrying one of them would show her that there are ppl out there fully accepting her they way she wanna be.
But of course basis for this would have to be something else, like matching character, deep affection, deep attraction on multiple layers, feeling good living together and sharing a household etc.

[gamecockalum2005]

It's a "no" for me because I'm a fan of their work and feel most don't want to work at home.

[dap-addict]

It's a "no" for me because I'm a fan of their work and feel most don't want to work at home.

How about you doing the tidying up at home in this case?

[ringstinger]

Interesting question. Unlike others above, in my younger naive years where I thought marriage was sacred etc. I would never have thought to be able to 'share' the wife.

But now after years of marriage.. experience, etc. I'd happily marry a pornstar. Hahaha...

Although my next question for others.. how would everyone feel knowing your wife has had a hard days work, where she's been potentially gang banged in all her holes by monster cocks stretching her to the limit. Would you be able to ignore or get over the potential feelings of jealousy etc.?

Would you be able to 'review' her current work and previous work? It's an interesting topic.

[ringstinger]

And for who it would be .. just by looks, and only guessing what their personality would be like from their performances... Kristy Black, Cindy Shine, or Lina Luxa. From other sites and territories .. have a thing for Gianna Dior. They all seem like fun and confident girls.

[dap-addict]

Btw, here I asked a porn girl about her marriage with a civilian (non-biz insider, non-porn stud) and what it means to her: viewtopic.php?f=104&t=26964&start=40#p375963 (Interview with Alexa Black, Sept/Okt 2020) - might be interesting POV in terms of OP.

[pastaga]

Interesting question. Unlike others above, in my younger naive years where I thought marriage was sacred etc. I would never have thought to be able to 'share' the wife.

But now after years of marriage.. experience, etc. I'd happily marry a pornstar. Hahaha...

Although my next question for others.. how would everyone feel knowing your wife has had a hard days work, where she's been potentially gang banged in all her holes by monster cocks stretching her to the limit. Would you be able to ignore or get over the potential feelings of jealousy etc.?

Would you be able to 'review' her current work and previous work? It's an interesting topic.

I'd give her a massage and a warm bed then I'd go fap to her work
Would also love to star as a cuckold in a scene or two.

[CocosNucifera]

I'm not sure if Pastaga is serious, but it's exactly what I would do.

No chance to be in couple with a "regular" girls, and even less chance with a pornstar whatsoever, if the "relationship" would be meant to be "balanced".

My only chance would be to be her friend, driver, (ass) cleaner and butler.

Don't think I could even pretend to sleep with her.

Would it be frustrating? Yes.

Would I be happy? Yes, as well. As long as she would accept me in her life, it would be great.

By the way, same applies for "regular" girls.

In my eyes it would be better to feel accepted (I don't even imagine to feel loved or desired, it science-fiction) and live this kind of servitued-themed life than to live alone.

Especially if the female in question would appreciate it.

Because I believe there are females who on one side would accept to be treated like princesses, but who, on the other, would appreciate and respect the individual who is their servant.

Of course there are also females who would despise this person. But it works also for males who can act as assholes if they feel a woman is ready or even is willing to enter an unbalanced relationship.

Pornstars are normal persons with some flaws for sure, but also with much positive aspects, at least for some of them.

I would love to marry Nika Star, Sarah Lollypop or Miss Olivia.

[davebowman]

Sure, totally. I'd be super proud of my girl if she was getting her ass fucked on camera, knowing thousands of guys are jerking off watching her. Positives - give her a lift to the studio, help with the anal prep, hang out on set and watch the scene, help her shoot amateur and OF style content etc.

Only potential downside would be if she's getting so much dick at work, she doesn't want to get sodomised at home - that would be a real downer.

Otherwise count me in!

[dap-addict]

Only potential downside would be if she's getting so much dick at work, she doesn't want to get sodomised at home - that would be a real downer.

Btw, here is what Kitty Doll just said about that aspect, but also others concerning marriage in my most recent interview - might be interesting read for you: viewtopic.php?f=96&t=25243&hilit=Interviews#p314583 (scroll down to Q27)

[zeusanalfreak299]

...how would everyone feel knowing your wife has had a hard days work, where she's been potentially gang banged in all her holes by monster cocks stretching her to the limit. Would you be able to ignore or get over the potential feelings of jealousy etc.?

Would you be able to 'review' her current work and previous work? It's an interesting topic.

These are also good questions.

I'm in my 30s and somewhat ambivalent about my current thinking. Somehow I am currently in the middle of:

- Yes, even if she were active
and
- No



I think that will change over the years. Even if (can always happen) it comes to a divorce of the currently happy marriage.
In the past it would be clearly no.
But if I would face such a decision again in the future, I would very likely say "Yes, even if it would be active".

One becomes more and more perverted and filthy with the years. And cares less and less about ethics, principles, traditions, etc.. I think I would be in a second marriage just for fun and excitement. With a porn actress at the side it would have its charm. I think she could best understand my addiction and would have total understanding of all porn genres.

I, on the other hand, will certainly consolidate the character in the future that I would have no problem if she comes home after a hard gangbang and makes this noticeable. I think it would even turn me on. I don't think I could ever hold her hand on set like a cuckold, but the thought of her being capable of extremely hard sex and watching her from different camera angles would be awesome.

The only relationship killers would be:
- if the work on the set is inhumane and not professional and it comes to situations that have not been agreed upon.
- if she does not feel like having sex in her "free time".

I think I will eventually be so dirty that I would even watch a hard gangbang of her, together with her, while I fuck her from behind.

But this is of course hypothetical, if the character would fit, the love would be there and you would actually find your soulmate with a porn actor.
BTW, for me, there is currently no difference between being with a porn actor who is active or not, because her works are online forever and ever. You would always be confronted with it.

I would love to have someone like:

Alice Miller - https://pornbox.com/application/model/2455


Jenna McCarthy - https://pornbox.com/application/model/3033


Natasha - (but 5 years younger) https://pornbox.com/application/model/567


Alysa - (but 5 years younger) - https://pornbox.com/application/model/78


Leyla - https://pornbox.com/application/model/2898


Vitoria Vonteese - https://pornbox.com/application/model/100113


Anita Henger - https://pornbox.com/application/model/2659


Mila Yul - https://pornbox.com/application/model/2682

[misangrenegra2]

...how would everyone feel knowing your wife has had a hard days work, where she's been potentially gang banged in all her holes by monster cocks stretching her to the limit. Would you be able to ignore or get over the potential feelings of jealousy etc.?

Would you be able to 'review' her current work and previous work? It's an interesting topic.

I would glad and be proud of her whatever she shooted, i wouldn't have prejudgements about what kind of scene does, first at all respect for her and her professionality

About review her scenes? As i said, being currently a porn customer/watcher, if i would have a relationship with one pornstar i would support every scene of her and the idea of watch the result is quite exciting and interesting for me.

[dap-addict]

The only relationship killers would be:
(...)
- if she does not feel like having sex in her "free time".

I am in favor of marrying a pornstar, but also afraid that could be a main problem.
I'd therefore prefer living somewhere else than porn production spots and her to go on her porn work trips alone. When she'd come back after 1-2 weeks she'd be only with me than. I think with such an arrangement I could live. Not sure I could/would stay faithful all the time she's away porn working, but could workout actually.

[Seraph0257]

Marriage is such an antiquated practice, been there done that. I'd rather have a partner who loves as I do without the need of a court document.

[fredflehoux]

Yes i would marry a pornstar and be a very supportive husband who make sure she has all the training she need to make the best scene in the world.

Emily Pink would be my choice for sure, apart from having an almost perfect body and pussy, which look so good while squirting and it's a big fetish of mine... which i could have a belly full of her juice, She seem pretty stable as a person in real life, simple girl with values, a little timid which i find cute and she's quite elegant and seem to have principles but hey! i don't know how she is in real life, just the impression i have of her.