When a woman plays hot & cold: Strategy

[netzerkaiser]

When a woman plays hot & cold: Strategy... particularly if she's married or has genuinely complicated situation.

My advice from experience... if you know her through social or work | communal situation you both attend...

Is avoid her totally...

Particularly if you'll likely meet her sometime over following 3 - 6 months, downtown or something.

The new canvas presents a new beginning...

& she knows then you're not be taken lightly, but respected.

But you have to know you'll likely meet her again outside of original comfort | regular zones.

You have her respect. She knows you were strong enough to drag yourself away, & you felt enough respect for her to do it...

Then if you can encounter her with genuine affectionate feeling in new surrounding...

It can work.

[xxxVIPERxxx]

Are you implying you want to strike up some kind of affair with a married woman?

[netzerkaiser]

Are you implying you want to strike up some kind of affair with a married woman?

Sorry, I edited that, my point was mitigating circumstances that could cause the 'hot' & 'cold'.

[xxxVIPERxxx]

That is women in general for you, they are hot and cold/black and white every day!

Best advice is just to do your own thing, no need to play it cool and purposefully ignore her or anything like that.
I have always believed that there are many hot girls out there in this world.
If they like you for you, great...if not - no need to try so hard to be friends and/or intimate with her.

[netzerkaiser]

That is women in general for you, they are hot and cold/black and white every day!

Best advice is just to do your own thing, no need to play it cool and purposefully ignore her or anything like that.
I have always believed that there are many hot girls out there in this world.
If they like you for you, great...if not - no need to try so hard to be friends and/or intimate with her.

No, I disagree. If someones playing hot & cold with you, for whatever reasons, withdraw from situation completley, no bullshit, the evidence is in your actions.

Of course, you have to know she'll turn up again later, in separate scenario...

But she'll know then; your strength of willpower; your willingness to put her confusion issues as first priority above your own impulse to see her...

If nothing else, her admiration for your self-respect is enough to make it worth it.

This is a man.

Once she knows that, its enough.

[netzerkaiser]

I was right.

It worked.

But I'm not going to break up a marriage, a mortgage, 2 beautiful children's family, unless that relatoinship is doomed anyway...

But I was right... it worked.

[dap-addict]

But I was right... it worked.

If she looks for sb else that relationship is doomed.
Od do you think she wants to fix it with you?

[netzerkaiser]

But I was right... it worked.

If she looks for sb else that relationship is doomed.
Od do you think she wants to fix it with you?

We'll see.

Thanks for interest DAPAddict.

It just makes you realise how complicated womens lives are.

Their first priorioty has to be their children.

But the point of my posting peronal situation here is yes...

Pulling back from situation shows strength, character & committment.

Thats my point.

[netzerkaiser]

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