POLL: Compassion and true care for porn girls?

[xxxVIPERxxx]

The answer is simple and it is NEVER.

Nothing great is ever achieved by being extremely easy.
Anyone experienced in life and experienced in genuine leadership/management will know that.

[dap-addict]

I see the NEVER option is still at 56%!
Checked this tread again because I feel a shift last half year or so with me towards that long rejected poll option myself. For me it's probabely rooted in caring way too much, listening too much to porn girls playing on those feelings a bit maybe, but then rejecting their fans at a point. I'm talking about social media contacts mainly, but could be OFy or Cam as well, though me I never did pay for such offers.
Anyway, I remember a longer discussion I had with Mya Diamonds ex or somebody posing as her ex almost exactly 10years ago. That guy was very upset than about her Gonzo treatment by JomJon I think during her 1st DP. Mya had just returned to porn after some years of break and he obviously didnt approve of that. He first posed as Mya herself and complained bitterly, but during our discussion I cought him. The whole situation made me first wanna her to leave and them both just to be happy together... But then I realized I was manipulated and that guy just had problems, while Mya was way okay, and also open for harder porn sex basically.
Anyway, I remembered this today after some talk with a girl in vaginal pain after a classic anal porn shot she did perform but wasnt really agreed upon. A porngirl very dear to me and I conceded I'd wish sometimes she'd leave altogether if she isnt able to say no to pussy sex on set. But then again I do want her to carry on with her hot anal performance ofc. It's way of a no-way decision and maybe better just not to care and to vote NEVER!

[dap-addict]

Btw, I tried to buy a Mya Diamond DAP than in 2014, but eventually failed because she or both of them decided suddenly to ask more money, way beyond my red line. Have actually regretted that later because her DAPbreakin' would have been porn historic!

[xxxVIPERxxx]

True compassion, and true care for the porn girls is to support their work. Pay for their scenes, be positive and complimentary about their work.

They work hard to produce quality content. They should and need to be paid. Their confidence needs to be built up. That is the best form of compassion and care.

Wishing them to quit, what else would they turn to? How will they look after and support their kids, family, themselves?

Most girls who end up quitting porn, or doing reduced porn, or have internet trolls/negativity spreading about them end up having terrible, drastic things happen to them.
I want them to be happy, to enjoy their porn work, to grow in their job, and most importantly to be financially paid...that will keep everyone happy.

[dap-addict]

True compassion, and true care for the porn girls is to support their work. Pay for their scenes, be positive and complimentary about their work.

They work hard to produce quality content. They should and need to be paid. Their confidence needs to be built up. That is the best form of compassion and care.

Wishing them to quit, what else would they turn to?

Again, Viper, you make me really at least partly agree now and thus also question my 2015 OP post.
But then my experience is its better just to support them by silently buying their scenes but also keeping quiet. Because last time I insited on a porn girl being payed for her scenes in time and later again on the same level fee as before I got into sorta double fight with that girl as well as her main studio.

It basically seems to me today that most porn girls want their work supporters porn users and buyers of their scenes as well as their social media subscribers to get well past 20k on IGy etc but they want them silent or just blindly supportive with always the same repetitive phrases of how hot etc. It's way silly for me still, way of an empty non-com communication just to get the IGy algorithm fine or just to get OFy subscriptions.

[dap-addict]

Wishing them to quit, what else would they turn to? How will they look after and support their kids, family, themselves?

There is so many other options!
Basically ranging from Paris/Dubai to supermarket casher to lawyer.
But ofc every supportive porn fan wants his porn girls to stay in porn!

[bladblabla2019]

I only start to worry about them when they abuse their own bodies with messed up plastic surgery.

The truth is the most of porn is artificial. And when I call them sluts and whores, which turns me on, that is also a role play.

[Chimpy.677]

What care are they talking about? As if the girls didn't know what they were doing. Some people talk as if they knew women's bodies. If a girl agreed to do the scene it's because she knows what she's going to do, period.

If an 18-year-old girl agrees to do her first DAP in her first porn scene, I wouldn't have to have compassion or special care for her. They get paid to do that. If I hired her for a hardcore scene with DAP, it's obvious that the scene is going to be about hard sex. It's known beforehand, she knows what she came for.

[pornlover_holland]

What care are they talking about? As if the girls didn't know what they were doing. Some people talk as if they knew women's bodies. If a girl agreed to do the scene it's because she knows what she's going to do, period.

If an 18-year-old girl agrees to do her first DAP in her first porn scene, I wouldn't have to have compassion or special care for her. They get paid to do that. If I hired her for a hardcore scene with DAP, it's obvious that the scene is going to be about hard sex. It's known beforehand, she knows what she came for.

Exactly, when I watch anal I wanna see destroyed assholes. Groups of guys fucking a girl in the ass non-stop. If she can;t handle that she must not do that. But that is what is expected by many anal porn fans. Just find the right girls who can do that and don;t complain afterward because the scene was very rough.

[fister2]

Never. If they are in agreement what they do, everything (legal) is fine. Of course if there is some unethical pressure behind scenes, then I have full compassion for the actressess.

[misangrenegra2]

I don't understand why some users are understanding the compassion/care about what kind of stuff they do instead of the stigma or consequences that they could have for make porn.

I'm very grateful with all the women who decided be a pornstar.

I'm a person that consume porn since long time and i only have good words and admiration for the women who are willing to perform all those sexual acts that i love.

About the content, they are enough grow up to decide what shoot, is fine is a woman decides shoot more soft content or if she wants shoot hardcore. There are enough demand and public for both styles, i'm happy that there are a lot of women that decided shoot hardcore.

The best i can do is support their works, i enjoy all the great stuff that they do.

As someone who respect and admire their profession, i want that they can work without problems and in a comfortable and secure environment, also that they recieve a fair treat.

In the majority of cases, i would like that their profession would'n be the cause of recive negativity or some kind of stigmatitation.

Out of porn, that they can be happy with what they do and have a good life.