Porn vs Marriage

[ajqqaj]

Hello all - just wondered if anyone else out there has to juggle married/long term relationship life with secret extreme porn addiction? It's like living a double life at times and I have to make use of every moment I get to myself! Just wondered how others cope in the situation. Thanks!

[xxxVIPERxxx]

Hello all - just wondered if anyone else out there has to juggle married/long term relationship life with secret extreme porn addiction? It's like living a double life at times and I have to make use of every moment I get to myself! Just wondered how others cope in the situation. Thanks!

You have to be open and honest, and marry a partner who shares your values.
I was very open after the first few dates about my sex life, porn, etc...yes you might get rebuffed by 7 out of 10 women...but by being honest. You are not messing about, and wasting time.

I am very thankful and grateful that my 2nd and 3rd wives enjoy watching porn with me.
However, I would like to state that my 1st wife could not, and was not into it at all.

[dap720]

My wife knows I like porn and masturbate a lot, we watch porn together even some gangbamgs and double anal. But she doesn't know how often I watch and masturbate or some of the more extreme things im into like trans and piss, or the 0 pussy all anal and rimming stuff. She likes some deepthroat but not the extreme gagging and puke type of stuff

[xxxVIPERxxx]

My wife knows I like porn and masturbate a lot, we watch porn together even some gangbamgs and double anal....She likes some deepthroat...

My advice to you, start small, and start from lighter sex acts...over time you can build her up to enjoy the rougher/more extreme stuff.

[Maxybee213]

I’m in the same position mate. Total porn addict.partner now works from home. I have been pull,ed up by him a couple of times saying I need help or therapy. I love porn and can’t stop watching. How do you cope mate?

[xxxVIPERxxx]

I’m in the same position mate. Total porn addict.partner now works from home. I have been pull,ed up by him a couple of times saying I need help or therapy. I love porn and can’t stop watching. How do you cope mate?

You sound like a man by the style of your writing, you refer to your partner as HIM, so is this a civil partnership you are referring to?

I am a man, and it was more easily done to convince my female partner.

Regardless, I think open and honest communication, starting with something softer and shorter, then building it up slowly over time will help. Good luck.

[dap720]

The real question is how do I get my wifes ass to be able to take my dick without hurting her. Its been years and only my finger feels good to her anything bigger or too much in and out movement just hurts or feels uncomfortable

[xxxVIPERxxx]

The real question is how do I get my wifes ass to be able to take my dick without hurting her. Its been years and only my finger feels good to her anything bigger or too much in and out movement just hurts or feels uncomfortable

She needs anal stretching practices and exercises. Start with anal toys, e.g. buttplugs, anal beads, dildoes...remember lots of anal prep for her.
Then lube, and lots of anal sex. The more experiences and training she has, the more used to anal sex she will be.

[dap720]

We have butt plugs but she only likes when its in she doesnt like it getting taken out or being put in. I want to be able to fuck her ass balls deep with full strokes but best I can do is get the tip in and slowly get almost halfway in with little to no movement

[xxxVIPERxxx]

We have butt plugs but she only likes when its in she doesnt like it getting taken out or being put in. I want to be able to fuck her ass balls deep with full strokes but best I can do is get the tip in and slowly get almost halfway in with little to no movement

Hmmm...I had a former lover who was like that at first, then she ended up loving anal sex.

My advice to you is to work with what she has agreed on. If she likes a butt plug inserted in to her ass, but does not like it being taken out and then put back in repeatedly as we might see in a porn scene...then here is a good starting strategy. Start with a medium sized butt plug, lube her asshole well. Stick it in her ass. Then as part of your foreplay, sex...leave the buttplug in for a while. After a couple of times, do the same but this time with a bigger butt plug. Then, after a few times, try it with an even bigger butt plug.

During anal sex, remember to rub/finger her pussy/clit as much as possible so she builds up an association with pleasure and anal sex.

[dap720]

Yes thats whay I've been trying to do associate it with pleasure so I only play with her ass really when im already sucking her tits or fingering her and shes using a vibrator on her clit. I just can't wait until I can at least when im going to cum get balls deep.in her tight butt and dump all my jizz in her ass. Im so envious of all the guys just fucking ass like I want to. I mean her pussy is great and feels amazing but I want that butthole.

[xxxVIPERxxx]

The asshole is a much tighter feeling on your penis (which is quite pleasurable). Make sure you are also well trained up, so you do not not start shooting your load after only a couple of minutes.

[dap720]

Yes thats kind of been a problem haha. I have to get so hard to get it in her ass that once its in at all I get close to cumming and then have to stop or slow down, and my dick gets softer and her tight butt pushes my cock out. Then we do it again until her ass hurts too much and I can only put the tip in to shoot my load