PornBox.com

Most of us really demand a lot of those porn performers every day here, and many of us use quite harsh language sometimes addressing them.
But I know a lot of porn fans despite their seemingly hard shell have some really weak spots for many of those girls.

True compassion gets into the way of mere customer demands as soon as we get to know them personally (not the case for most of porn fans, though), read about their real life troubles or see them really struggling on set performing for us.

Way too deep for this girl in a Twisted Tommy production, Budapest mid 2000.

For me there were situations in the past - not with LP though - I even wished them to quit porn alltogether!
I think this is probabely the utmost compassion and care for a girl you basically still just wanna watch performing porn for you, but seeing her struggle you get the true and honest wish she just quit that biz and went back to her previous normal day job as a shop assistant, hair dresser etc, or even just get a hb and kids.

I wonder wheter this ever happened to you while watching her fuck for the entertainment product you buy?
This discussion my help: viewtopic.php?f=96&t=9558


Disclaimer: I realize its really difficult to put this into a poll. I thus included two options. But best is you write down your examples and feelings. Ta!
------------------Please no anti-porner bullshit! Also no male performer bashing! Its about compassion and true tender feelings, not hate!----------------

Sorry, folks, I edited the poll dumping the inappropriate sex work option and reducing answers to 1 option again.
But now 2 votes are lost!

Can option "never" and option "softer porn work" of the the first 50 thread viewers vote again, please! Thanks!

Both of you voted again?
Just please confirm!

Hey folks, really surprised why never?
Cant believe you all just dont care for the girls providing you with all that joy!

It's happened to me on very rare occasions. Usually it's not something I think about as I have my mind on other matters when watching porn but there have been times when I have noticed visible distress and uncomfortable body language and have wished for a girl I like to find another career. I voted "1 or 2 times" in the poll as this is the closest to the truth.

Why I choose "never"

It's really hard for me to explain this one, but first, is very unhealthy to care about people who are not related to you in some meaningful way.
You might care about them enough to post something on the Internet, but to care, is to protect something or handle issues into you own hands. Will you do any of that? Do you really care then? or is it all BS.
Considering I don't know anything about these girls, in the "how they are as a person" department, It's really hard for me to REALLY like them, and therefore care about them. I mean, sure I find them sexually attractive because they are all very pretty, but to me, being pretty it's not good enough.

Second, a person who ONLY experiences pain during intercourse, has not learn how to like sex OR is a newbie at it. Remember the first time you ejaculated? yeah it was painful.
To that extent, porn actresses who genuinely feel a lot of pain during scenes probably hate their job and will never learn how to like it.

Finally, there has to be some pain during intercourse, that moment when self control is gone, and you don't care that it hurts, because ultimately, feels so good, it's the best.

So no, I don't care... one bit. Although, when I saw what happened to Christy Mack, I felt pretty bad, but that was more or less my empathy for another human being, it didn't happened during a porn set though. SO....

EDIT. I FORGOT TO MENTION HOW BEAUTIFUL, A PAIN ANAL FACE FROM A PRETTY GIRL, CAN BE.

"Yes, many times!"

when Pierre woodman raped tina blade, (very very very disturbing scene ... "no" means "NO !!!" ) JENNY SMART, (treated like shit) EVA BERGER, (beaten like a dog)

I have a lot of care and compassion for girls in porn but, honestly, my answer is still never! Could be that I'm just really insensitive I never watch Woodman, unless it's a girl I really like, so maybe that might change my mind

Baiken wrote:"Yes, many times!"
when Pierre woodman raped tina blade, (very very very disturbing scene ... "no" means "NO !!!" ) JENNY SMART, (treated like shit) EVA BERGER, (beaten like a dog)

Its not only Woodman, you know.
I've seen an older Italian amateur porn film where the girl started to bleed during anal.
And it wasnt even a hard workout... Worst is when you personally know the girl...not that one, but others. Oh well, I wish we all could be more empathic!

Hey please those who voted "yes, many times" and "never", could you explain why?
I cant believe we get so many extreme votes, like porn productions were hell and fans just suffering or not caring at all.
Lets not feed the anti-porner crowd!

dap-addict wrote:I've seen an older Italian amateur porn film where the girl started to bleed during anal.

Almost normal thing, or at least expected. Some studios does not cut it, for example I remember original Rafaella (Eva Popperz here) dap scene for norestfortheass.com.

Of course it happens...
The question is how you feel watching a girl really hurt that way? Will you still say "I never wished she just did anyother job instead"?.

It's obvious that porn is pretty far from first choice of job for many girls. So I voted yes. Simple reason and I prefer not to explain it more.

Bleeding is another issue, not strange thing even in real life. Unpleasant in many ways, but that's how things work.

VBT, I think w both ar realstic enough about porn work. Some may hate us as we bust some fatasies, but I can live with that.
Rafaella you refered to just wanted to do it and we dont need to go into details why. Besides as many Russian girls she really can treat her body the hard way. But other girls clearly do suffer quite a lot on some porn sets. You would still generally say "yes, never!" than?

As I said:

VBT wrote:It's obvious that porn is pretty far from first choice of job for many girls. So I voted yes. Simple reason and I prefer not to explain it more.

dap-addict wrote:You would still generally say "yes, never!" than?

I do not understand "yes, never" option. Just example, I suppose, but Rafaella is not my example on topic theme.

You say you voted "Never" for my poll question: "Did you ever wish a porn girl to quit that biz because performing on set seemed too hard for her?"
Or did I get you wrong?



Btw, its not about first choice jobs. LOL!

I voted yes ("Yes, many times!"). Many... well, more than 1 or 2 times as in second option.

VBT wrote:It's obvious that porn is pretty far from first choice of job for many girls. So I voted yes. Simple reason and I prefer not to explain it more.

Sorry, I got you wrong than!
No need to explain anything, btw. I just try to understand the two extreme options of that poll.
Me, I never wished for any Russian girl to stop it yet...I tell you just because you refered to that Rafaella aka Eva Poppers scene...Its their way of life believe me!

Oh, I see poll results are getting more balanced!

I care sometimes, because they dont belong there. But most of them are "whores" who can take it and you dont need to care about them, they know what they are doing.
Sorry, but in the end, the harder and more painful they get fucked, they more i enjoy it.

Flumi wrote:I care sometimes, because there dont belong there. But most of them are "whores" who can take it and you dont need to care about them, they know what they are doing.
Sorry, but in the end, the harder and more painful they get fucked, they more i enjoy it.

Pretty much this, but sometimes they take it too far. But rarely. I don't want the girl to quit. There is a deepthroat site that takes it far, and they took it to far with an amazing girl. I always wondered if she would shoot more if they didnt completely destroy, damage and degrade her. Not all girls can handle too much aggression but some like it.

t-unit wrote:Pretty much this, but sometimes they take it too far.

Yes exactly, some production want to produce hard stuff, but they are going to far and then it it is shit.

Look, the girls know whom they are going to work for, no?!
Also they can always say "stop! it!" And pro studio like LP asks them all the time if its still ok. Dont know that deepthroat site but I doubt they dont do the same.

Thanks to everybody for steering away from anti-porn bs so far!
Please carry on voteing - and if you feels so explain why!
Ta!

I voted for the porn girl to get into softer stuff. No reason for her to complety quit. Just stop doing scenes that are too much. I think a lot of dudes voted never because likely they enjoy seeing the girl unconfortable. They really don't give two cents about the girl. A lot of them get off on seeing the girl in pain and humiliated. Hence why the piss was so popular.

I hope you are not right, ElJab!
Humiliation has nothing to do with discomfort because its staged anyway. Piss is either a red line for a girl or it isnt. Once she agrees on it I dont see a problem. There was this one Arwen scene when it looked she regretted being there on set but since she returned so many times for hard anal stuff, which shows its not easy to judge based just on one scene.

I want to add that my opinion would be different (I voted never) if I were frequenting sites that are too extreme for me.
IMO both participants need to be enjoying the sex act to a degree for me to like it, but if one of them, especially the female, is having a bad day, and just a bad day. Then I won't support it.
But at the end of the day, they are all getting paid. And I doubt girls walk into the studio without at least seeing some trailers of their previous work.

If she gets booked through an agency this may well happen.
It doenst change the fact she can always call "stop!", however.

Sometimes, when I see construction workers fixing the road I drive on in 90 degree (f) heat, I feel awfully sad, and sorry for them, As I drive to my air conditioned nightmare of a job I feel blessed that my brain isn't deficent to the point of having to work a job that isn't the 'easiest out there'.

Ya, I'm going to feel sorry for a girl who is doing the most natural thing in the world, having sex, because she might not like the guy shes fucking very much while she gets paid more per second then 90 percent of everyone else, because why?

IF a girl says "fuck this, i'm out" I respect her as much as the girl who says "fuck these holes, and face, and then, I'm out".

ITS A FUCKING JOB.

Mordecai35 wrote: ITS A FUCKING JOB.

That's the minimum requirement, yes.

Mordecai35 wrote:Ya, I'm going to feel sorry for a girl who is doing the most natural thing in the world, having sex, because she might not like the guy shes fucking very much while she gets paid more per second then 90 percent of everyone else, because why?

Its not about feeling sorry!
Its about likeing a girl so much, feeling so much empathy and compassion for her, that you start to think she might better do another work.
Its easier if you know her personally or at least have talked to her via Skype or Chat about her porn involvement. If you just watch her scenes its more abstract.

When you talk to them in Skype, what are the top 3 things you want to know?

dap-addict wrote:

Mordecai35 wrote:Ya, I'm going to feel sorry for a girl who is doing the most natural thing in the world, having sex, because she might not like the guy shes fucking very much while she gets paid more per second then 90 percent of everyone else, because why?

Its not about feeling sorry!
Its about likeing a girl so much, feeling so much empathy and compassion for her, that you start to think she might better do another work.
Its easier if you know her personally or at least have talked to her via Skype or Chat about her porn involvement. If you just watch her scenes its more abstract.

"It's not about feeling sorry", but it is for you.... That's what you typed. Honestly, seeing as how both my girl and I watch this stuff together, I think you're a bit lost on these concepts. Sex is fun, and can be profitable if you look nice. End of story. On top of that, if you are making shitloads of money during a scene, you may expect to do things that are.... of challenge.

I rather think you are lost.
Sex is fun, ok, sure. But doing porn is not just haveing sex with your gf. Now you once write its just natural and fun, and than you write its just a job, work and often challanging work. Payment to sum it up at the end is not the same in Europe as in US. But I agree its still a lot especially if a girl lives in Czech, Hungary or Russia.

What I get from your post is a concept of looking down on people less educated than you and your girl, a disturbing social coldness.
As I said I think you never ever met a porn actress, its all just abstract entertainment for you.

magizi87 wrote:When you talk to them in Skype, what are the top 3 things you want to know?

Whats your favorite colour?
Do you like flowers?
Will you marry me?

You can't be serious?!

Sure I am!

ElJab78 wrote:They really don't give two cents about the girl. A lot of them get off on seeing the girl in pain and humiliated.

Didnt I state it clear enough that I dont want anti-porn statements here, ElJab?

dap-addict wrote:

Baiken wrote:"Yes, many times!"
when Pierre woodman raped tina blade, (very very very disturbing scene ... "no" means "NO !!!" ) JENNY SMART, (treated like shit) EVA BERGER, (beaten like a dog)

Its not only Woodman, you know.
I've seen an older Italian amateur porn film where the girl started to bleed during anal.
And it wasnt even a hard workout... Worst is when you personally know the girl...not that one, but others. Oh well, I wish we all could be more empathic!

But also at LP bleed at least 2 I saw at a few scenes now, Jarushka Ross and Billie Star.
I know a lot who retired, different productions it was but mostly the same after an girls stopped.
Too hard is too hard but some just want have cheap exclsuive content,maybe thi
s is why they shoot hard anal scenes with anal newbies or also with soem who´ve experience.

Thanks or your vote, GL, but I think its a thin line you walk again when calling upon LP by name but not others.
Lets better truely think of the girls giving us so much pleasure at a high personal price sometimes!