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I am getting married next month

Any suggestion or tips given to me

How about recruiting the bestman for TAP and remember to drink a lot before the the good old golden shower for the bride?

finch212 wrote:I am getting married next month

Any suggestion or tips given to me

Don't get married, back out now before it's too late...

That is the best advice to you.

finch212 wrote:I am getting married next month

Any suggestion or tips given to me

in view of the 'quality' of the comments posted so far, i would suggest you may do better to keep your private realtionship between you and your partner, and not open it up for discussion on a public anal porn forum

and all the best to you in advance of your big day and i hope it's only the first step in a lifetime of happiness together

finally, if you love them enough to want to get married, don't betray their loyalty and run around behind their back... or you will be found out. as clever as you think you are, the proverb 'the wheels of justice (and karma) grind slow, but oh so fine' applies eternally

and if you don't love them enough to stay loyal to them (be absolutely honest with yourself), then accept marriage is not for you and don't waste your own time, and your partner's, time by playing at it

but that's between you and your partner to decide, and not this forum

good luck!

finch212 wrote:I am getting married next month

Any suggestion or tips given to me

finch, I see you joined only 5 days ago and you ID yourself as from India.
Now as far as I know most marriages are set up by parents in India and not choice of those actually marrying. Tell me if I am wrong here!

Anyway, if you cant choose and just have to marry, than I'd suggest you to try first to love your wife and dont run to porn straight away. If you cant get over it, over having been forced to marry somebody you didnt want to marry, than porn might actually safe you and that marriage even.

But please try first without porn just to get accustomed and love your wife!

Get a prenup.

Dogfase wrote:Get a prenup.

Yes, I concur. If you had to marry. Make sure you sign a prenup.

latina-girls-yes wrote:finally, if you love them enough to want to get married, don't betray their loyalty and run around behind their back... or you will be found out. as clever as you think you are, the proverb 'the wheels of justice (and karma) grind slow, but oh so fine' applies eternally

and if you don't love them enough to stay loyal to them (be absolutely honest with yourself), then accept marriage is not for you and don't waste your own time, and your partner's, time by playing at it

you mean fucking other girls????

cheating is bs

you should be able to marry someone and fuck other people too

for example nacho vidal said if i remember that it turned him on to see his wife franceska jaimes fucked in porn by other men

my mom 'cheated' on my dad when i was small and they kept fighting about it for years
stupid
all that negativity & fights and negative emotions for their stupid beliefs about boring monogamy

i think 'karma' if it exists, is generated by emotions, as a force
negative emotions caused by stupid beliefs are bad karma

xxxVIPERxxx wrote:

Dogfase wrote:Get a prenup.

Yes, I concur. If you had to marry. Make sure you sign a prenup.

What is a prenup?

isis666xxx wrote:

latina-girls-yes wrote:finally, if you love them enough to want to get married, don't betray their loyalty and run around behind their back... or you will be found out. as clever as you think you are, the proverb 'the wheels of justice (and karma) grind slow, but oh so fine' applies eternally

and if you don't love them enough to stay loyal to them (be absolutely honest with yourself), then accept marriage is not for you and don't waste your own time, and your partner's, time by playing at it

you mean fucking other girls????

cheating is bs

you should be able to marry someone and fuck other people too

for example nacho vidal said if i remember that it turned him on to see his wife franceska jaimes fucked in porn by other men

my mom 'cheated' on my dad when i was small and they kept fighting about it for years
stupid
all that negativity & fights and negative emotions for their stupid beliefs about boring monogamy

i think 'karma' if it exists, is generated by emotions, as a force
negative emotions caused by stupid beliefs are bad karma

every couple get to set their own terms and their own boundaries, according to their own feelings and beliefs. and relationships rely on each to respect and observe the terms of the other in order for it to continue. that will usually require compromise and cooperation both sides.
'should' is a term from outside the relationship, and so irrelevant to the terms set within it.

terms are agreed, each party does their best to keep up their side of the contract as agreed, and one party breaking the agreed terms represents a breach of trust and grounds on which a contract can be terminated

written out it may sound very soulless and transactional (every relationship is transactional because two parties are interacting), but the reality is that within those terms wonderful life-changing things can happen; a great lovelife, children - later grandchildren, building a family 'home', extended families coming together at celebrations. a very rich life in human (not financial) terms

and many (if not most) people feel any sacrifices they may have had to make in order to maintain the realtionship (eg monogamy, if those were the terms agreed) are more than compensated for by so many things being made possible within that stable union that could never happened outside of it.

in short, not everyone wants to live their life like a porn star (as difficult as that may be for many here to imagine!)

as to your personal history, i'm sorry things were not great between your parents. but if your mother and father agreed terms and your mother broke those terms then it's a breach of trust (a betrayal), and your father had a right to feel hurt. no one suffers their trust being betrayed gladly (well cucks maybe, but if you want to call your father a cuck to his face, then let us all know how you get on with that - from your hospital bed)

other kinds of relationship are available to the example i gave, but the format will be the same. parties agree terms and then each does their best to respect them and live up to them

and if you don't like that idea. stay single. fun when you are young and surrouded by many other young and available potential partners, but as you age and that pool of available partners reduces, singledom can lose its appeal and the wisdom behind long-term commitment become apparent

anyway, if finch212 has decided that a serious longterm relationship is for them, i can only congratulate them and wish them all the happiness and human riches that can come with that

Do not cheat on her. If you want another bitch just get an escort or a hooker. It's cheaper and less stressful than hiding a side bitch. Keep a change of clothes in your car for when you visit a bitch you will not take home the smell of another bedroom; women can smell the difference. Embed your porn in hollywood movies. She'll open the file and see it's a regular movie and then close the file. If you can afford it, get a second phone. Something that is cheap enough to just send textmessages and always keep it on silent.

Bodum wrote:Do not cheat on her. If you want another bitch just get an escort or a hooker. It's cheaper and less stressful than hiding a side bitch. Keep a change of clothes in your car for when you visit a bitch you will not take home the smell of another bedroom; women can smell the difference. Embed your porn in hollywood movies. She'll open the file and see it's a regular movie and then close the file. If you can afford it, get a second phone. Something that is cheap enough to just send textmessages and always keep it on silent.

Wow, it sounds like you are spot on and very experienced in that subject matter ))

Try your absolute best not to have affairs and side relationships. As suggested, if you really need something else...get a hooker/escort.

The advice about a change of clothes in your car is good. Embedding your porn files in folders with lots of Hollywood movies is also a great piece of advice. Apart from my current (third) wife...almost all other partners and the two previous partners were not that in to porn.

Getting a second, pay as you go phone is good for contacting hookers/escorts for your hook-ups.

Bodum really sounds like an expert in this field