Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

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Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby 101mike101 » Tue Oct 05, 2021 3:21 pm

A recent research study has found that women playing hard with guys make themselves more desirable for guys. It just needs to be done in a certain way to make it work and to avoid discouraging guys.

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/06/200608192510.htm

Basically, the hot chick shouldn't totally reject the guy's dick. She should show some interest in him and flirt with him. But when he comes at her, then she should hold him at bay and not give in right away. The lady should make the guy wait or work for it and do some favors for her, before she finally spreads her cheeks and lets him have a ride.

The risk of playing hard to get is that the guy might see the lady as unavailable and lose his interest in her. And that's why the lady should play for a delay, and make the eager guy wait before the penetrate, rather than say 'No' to him or reject him in some way.

And the reason why it works is because people naturally value more the things that they want but are hard to get. And people also value more the things that they work for, which even includes money among other things. People who win a lottery usually squander all the money within a few years and end up poor again. But people who work for it and succeed in business usually stay rich, once they become rich. Because they don't squander their money.

So, the lesson from this for porn is that the hot lady should make the cocky guys wait, when they want to penetrate. This builds up the sexual tension and makes the hot lady look more desirable. And then these guys will really pound her, when she finally spreads her cheeks for their big dicks.

Or the lady should make the guys work for her ass by making them suck her pussy and clit first. This too will make her anal debauch hotter to watch.

And it's the lady who needs to delay the guys or make them work for it. Because this is her playing hard to get. It won't work if there is just some delay for no apparent reason. And it won't work, if the guys on their own proceed to suck the lady's pussy, before taking her ass.

One of the hottest scenes I've seen was where a hot lady was going to do anal with two guys, including a double-anal. So, after their preliminary foreplay, you can hear one of the guys say, "Alright. Let's take her ass now." And you can see the lady's nice ass. It's filling the screen. But the lady hearing this, yells at the guys in a loud voice, "Wait a minute! I'm not ready yet!" Then she repeated it again in a more quiet way, when she saw that these guys were holding back and weren't going to have their way. She then proceeded to play around with and rearrange her pussy lips with her ass towards the screen. And only after a minute of that, she started to take these anal guys inside her sexy butt.

Her yelling at the guys and holding them at bay made my day. Because she didn't really reject the guys. She just told them to wait, before the penetrate. Which really built the sexual tension and made her eventual anal debauch hotter to watch.

I think this kind of thing can work now well too. Perhaps it's easier for some ladies to yell at the guys, than for others. But with some practice, everybody can do it. And it's not about rejection. It's about making the guys wait to build up the sexual tension, before the lady finally spreads her cheeks for their big dicks. This kind of thing makes the whole debauch hotter to watch.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby 101mike101 » Tue Oct 05, 2021 4:06 pm

I think the principle behind playing hard to get is the build up of sexual tension, which is eventually released.

It works like a dam in a river. When you put a barrier in a river, then water builds up behind this barrier. Then this barrier breaks. And you get much more water flowing faster and harder than before.

The lady playing hard to get by making the guys wait is a lady who puts up a barrier in front of these guys' sexual desire and feelings. So, their sexual desire and feelings build up. And then they nail her harder, faster, and more once she lets them do it. Because their built up passions and desires are released and are more than before.

This analogy explains why the lady needs to delay, rather than reject. A rejection is like an impassable barrier that diverts the river into a different course, rather than builds up the water behind the barrier.

And this analogy also explains, why it's the lady who needs to yell at the guys and make them wait. You need to have a barrier to build up the feelings and the sexual tension. And the lady yelling at the guys provides this barrier. If the guys just wait on their own, then there is no apparent barrier and no build up of sexual feelings and tension. So, there is no flood to release, when they eventually start doing it.

It's basically the lady putting up a temporary barrier to build the guys' sexual feelings and tension and then removing this barrier to release their sexual feelings, desires, and lust. Without a barrier, there is no build up. But the barrier needs to be weak enough to work only temporarily, so that a flood of passion and lust is eventually released.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby magizi87 » Fri Oct 08, 2021 2:06 am

I think there are many factors to consider,
where I live, there are considerably more women than men,
and in my experience, "hard to get" ain't a thing that happens over here. lol

that being said, I wouldn't mind some role-playing.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby dpconnoisseur1 » Fri Oct 08, 2021 6:54 am

101mike101 wrote:I think the principle behind playing hard to get is the build up of sexual tension, which is eventually released.


I like short stories and would love to see this in some scenes. I'm tired of women showing up to bunch a men hanging around naked and then she lets herself get ravaged or model getting herself off and bunch of naked men just show up and ravage her. Is this all the creativity Gonzo and Giorgio studios have? We all know the sex action is great already nothing has to change there.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby Starrio » Fri Oct 08, 2021 6:53 pm

Meh, I like it the way it is now when it is done properly. The girl is there and boom she has cocks in her ass seconds later. It's always the hottest thing because it looks like she didn't see it coming.

It is more effective if there is no blowjob, no handjob, and no toys in the beginning, also if the girl is standing because it looks like she couldn't get away and all of the sudden her ass is getting a train.

Roleplays of rape work perfectly to get anyone hard like that Kriss The Fox scene where Nick enters. That stuff is obviously great, but for the volume of videos Giorgio Grandi shoots nowadays I feel it's easy for them to be lazy about it, in which case the alternative of just instant anal penetration works well too.

Instant anal penetration works well because it is real. The girl is on set to get banged as a porn actress, and when she feels the cock in her ass all of the sudden she immediately is facing the reality that her butthole is going to be used for pleasure for the next hour or so by a bunch of guys, and that's always super hot to see.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby 101mike101 » Mon Oct 11, 2021 2:49 pm

Starrio wrote:Meh, I like it the way it is now when it is done properly. The girl is there and boom she has cocks in her ass seconds later. It's always the hottest thing because it looks like she didn't see it coming.

It is more effective if there is no blowjob, no handjob, and no toys in the beginning, also if the girl is standing because it looks like she couldn't get away and all of the sudden her ass is getting a train.

Roleplays of rape work perfectly to get anyone hard like that Kriss The Fox scene where Nick enters. That stuff is obviously great, but for the volume of videos Giorgio Grandi shoots nowadays I feel it's easy for them to be lazy about it, in which case the alternative of just instant anal penetration works well too.

Instant anal penetration works well because it is real. The girl is on set to get banged as a porn actress, and when she feels the cock in her ass all of the sudden she immediately is facing the reality that her butthole is going to be used for pleasure for the next hour or so by a bunch of guys, and that's always super hot to see.


There is no such thing as an instant penetration. There is always some foreplay and some delay. But it's just inadvertent delay that happens on its own. And it doesn't do anything for the movie and the viewer in terms of making it more hot. It's a wasted opportunity to make the movie more hot.

Basically, you can have the same short delay as before, but make it look like the lady is the one who deliberately delays the guys and tells them to wait, before they penetrate. And this will make the scene more hot. Because when the lady puts up a temporary barrier and makes you and the guys wait, then this barrier causes an accumulation of lust and expectation. And then you have a pleasant and a satisfying release, when the lady finally spreads her cheeks and takes on the dicks.

You can have the same amount of delay, but just do it in a different way, and the scene will be more hot just for this reason alone.

Just for the sake of variety it would be nice to have something like this. Because doing it the same way in every scene makes every scene look and feel the same. Which gets boring after a while. Even the hottest action repeated over and over again for a long time gets boring after a while. So, variation in itself is necessary and hot.

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Re: Ladies playing hard to get to make their porn more hot

Postby Starrio » Tue Oct 12, 2021 10:24 am

101mike101 wrote:
There is no such thing as an instant penetration. There is always some foreplay and some delay.


Delay? Do you mean lag? It could be your TV settings.


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