Why do we like MILF's?

[Jocke]

Is it naughtier when the woman is a experienced and know what it is all about compared to a naïve teenager?
Do we have a mother or mother's friends crush?
Do we think a mature woman has a sexier body?
Are we looking for women our own age?
...or something else?

[Celticwarrior]

MILFs have more experience and age like a fine wine,not to mention they are well oiled fuck machines which don't miss a beat with younger girls

[xxxVIPERxxx]

From our close baby and child connection to our mum? When we were just born, we spent the majority of our time with mums and suckled on their breasts. Could that be an explanation for a lot of men's strong affiliation to MILFs?

[bake0213]

I don't like MILFS more than younger women, but one thing that does attract me is the idea that they are older, less naive, and yet still choose to get into porn.

[dap-addict]

I generally dont like MILFs.
But some of them perform just really good and still look fine.
Some of the very popular ones I never bought but waited 2y to get their DAPs for free. And no, waiting 2 years was not difficult for me! Wont name names, though. But generally I am much much more into 18-21yo than over 28yo. porn actresses.

[101mike101]

Is it naughtier when the woman is a experienced and know what it is all about compared to a naïve teenager?
Do we have a mother or mother's friends crush?
Do we think a mature woman has a sexier body?
Are we looking for women our own age?
...or something else?

In my experience, older women are a lot easier to understand and relate to for men, than younger women are.

Because most older women are experienced enough with men to know that men want sex. Which makes them much more understandable and predictable for guys. When an older woman shows some interest in you, then chances are good that she sees you as a potential stud, and she'd like to have some hanky-panky with you. Her behavior and her intentions are clear enough that you don't need to think too much about this stuff. She wants to have some fun, and so do you. Which makes you just right for each other, without any issues.

But when a younger woman shows some interest in you, then quite often she wants some commitment from you, some benefits, and financial support. Sex might be the last thing on her mind among her priorities. This isn't always the case. But chances are that this lady wants something different from what you want. And you can't be too sure about what she is thinking and what her intentions are. So, you often end up second-guessing yourself and not being sure about what to say and what to do with such a lady.

Older women, who are sexually active, often see sex the same way as guys do. Which is to have fun and enjoy it. And this makes such women a pleasure for guys to be friends and fuck-buddies with. While younger women often bring a lot of baggage with them. And you often don't even know where you stand with them in terms of feelings and sex.

So, your sex with an older woman often ends up being a lot more pleasant and good, than with a younger woman. Because an older woman makes you relax and have fun. While a younger woman often confuses you and makes you think about so much stuff, that you often don't have much fun with her.

[Celticwarrior]

Excellent observation and I agree what you say mike

[Starrio]

I don't like MILFs unless they are very good looking, but luckily there is a surprising number of very attractive milfs.

Something that helps is if they remind me of an innocent wife that has been loyal her whole life and has been taking care of the kids, and doing house work, or having a relaxed office job, then that's a major turn on because they still look vulnerable.

If a woman looks vulnerable that's always hot because it gives her a sense of innocence that you feel temptation to corrupt.

Another thing is that what I consider milf is usually a lot older than what others consider milfs. For some guys, women in their 30s are already milfs, and for me they need to be at least 42 to be considered a milf.

Technically milf means a mother you like to fuck, and women can become mothers since they are teenagers. So it is a relative term.

[ToryLaneRulez]

women can be gorgeous from there 20s onwards, there bodies will be tighter and more pert but sexiness comes from age, women of 30+ years will always out sexy a woman in her 20s, IMO

[xxxVIPERxxx]

Another reason that we like MILFs, could it be that they are less temperamental, immature, inexperienced than a 18-24 year old girl with no life experiences and still an obsession with their Barbie dolls?

[dap-addict]

So, your sex with an older woman often ends up being a lot more pleasant and good, than with a younger woman. Because an older woman makes you relax and have fun. While a younger woman often confuses you and makes you think about so much stuff, that you often don't have much fun with her.

Again we have to distinguish between RL sex and porn fantasy ofc.
What did OP ask about?
I thought it was porn.

[Starrio]

I actually don't know which girls are moms. The only ones I know that have had kids already are Kate Rich and Black Angel.

[101mike101]

So, your sex with an older woman often ends up being a lot more pleasant and good, than with a younger woman. Because an older woman makes you relax and have fun. While a younger woman often confuses you and makes you think about so much stuff, that you often don't have much fun with her.

Again we have to distinguish between RL sex and porn fantasy ofc.
What did OP ask about?
I thought it was porn.

I prefer porn to be as real as it can be, rather than just a fantasy. That's why I want to see real women get really nailed, without any faking, acting, or pretending.

Fantasy is what you see in mainstream movies. Because there, everything is acting, pretending, and faking with every means possible. Almost nothing is real in mainstream movies. Everything is fiction and a deception.

And mainstream porn is the opposite of a fantasy. It tries to be as real as much as possible. That's why hot porn women are really hot. That's why these women really spread their cheeks for anal dicks. And that's why cocky guys really go inside for the anal ride. Everything is real, including the gaping. And there is no deception at all about the guys not having any relationship with the girl. Everybody knows that the hot lady is sex-working, when her guys are porking. And this is actually a part of the charm and the attraction of porn. A hot lady, who is sex-working with guys, puts out more and better than a lady who is doing it for her own pleasure. Because she tries to please the guys and works with them in terms of what they want.

Not everything is real and true in porn. But the sluts and their studs are real, and so is their spectacular sex with each other. And it's this reality that makes it hot. Porn wouldn't be nearly as hot, if it was just as fake as mainstream movies usually are. Because all the penetrations would be fake. The ladies wouldn't really get nailed. And the gaping would be visual effects, rather than something that really happened.

I suppose it depends on how you want to use porn. If you want to use is as an escape from reality, then you might be okay with unrealistic fantasies and everything being fake. Because the further away it is from reality, the more of an escape it is from reality.

But porn can also be used to as an aide to and an enhancement of reality. So, you can watch a porn scene to arouse and excite yourself before you go on a hot sex-date with some lady you like. And this is where the lady's age makes a big difference, both in porn and in reality. Because with a younger woman, you often can't be sure if you are going to have sex or not. But with an older woman, you often can be sure. And when you are sure like this, then you need to watch a MILF porn scene to prepare yourself for the older lady.

I suppose, it's up to you if want to use porn as an escape from reality or as an aide and an enhancement of reality. But I think escaping from reality gets frustrating and unsatisfying after a while. Sooner or later you will want to do the real thing. And doing the real thing won't work so well, if all of your fantasies have been unrealistic. Because it will mean re-doing your fantasies and your mind to be able to enjoy the real thing. That's why it's better to have realistic porn and realistic fantasies that prepare you for what's possible and what often happens in real life.

So, if you are surrounded by hot older chicks, some of whom might see you as a stud, then you need to watch some MILF porn and prepare yourself for them.