dap-addict wrote: But what I dont want as a user is watching girls obviously suffering all the way through their anal/DAP workout!
I see your point, however that's how many girls get into S&M in the first place, they go through a lot of pain, to the point of crying, but it is still consensual because they may not enjoy it physically, but emotionally and mentally they do.
I personally have known girls that like to cry as a hobbie, and actually schedule time to just feel sad and cry for no reason whatsoever other than it is something they like to experience regularly. It sounds crazy, but it is 100% true. They even think is healthy.
In the same way some girls just want to have those hard experiences, and it is not pleasurable or lustful in the same way other sexual acts are, but it is still something they seek, and feel satisfied experiencing.