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Postby MollyJacobsen » Wed Oct 28, 2020 9:46 pm

I'm not here to argue, I like a specific type of porn.

I was a past subscriber to meatholes, facial abuse, and such.

I don't know why and I'm sure there's a psychological explanation for it, but its a big turn on for me to see other women being used for pleasure and degraded by groups of men, and LegalPorno does that very well and I appreciate it! I think I'm a bit jealous of them being in their 20s and prettier than me to be completely honest.

I am a woman myself in my late 30s now, and I admire pornstars, but I enjoy scenes that are very hard on the women. I like subtle winces of pain on their faces, I love seeing tears drip a bit as well. I enjoy watching for genuine facial reactions when doing DAP or something challenging.

Please recommend some if you have it.

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Postby Eloise » Thu Oct 29, 2020 3:03 am

Dude:

1. keep it real - you and we ALL know what I mean by that
2. there already is a thread like this, read a bit before you post will ya:

viewtopic.php?f=96&t=20603

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Postby 101mike101 » Thu Oct 29, 2020 2:54 pm

MollyJacobsen wrote:I'm not here to argue, I like a specific type of porn.

I was a past subscriber to meatholes, facial abuse, and such.

I don't know why and I'm sure there's a psychological explanation for it, but its a big turn on for me to see other women being used for pleasure and degraded by groups of men, and LegalPorno does that very well and I appreciate it! I think I'm a bit jealous of them being in their 20s and prettier than me to be completely honest.

I am a woman myself in my late 30s now, and I admire pornstars, but I enjoy scenes that are very hard on the women. I like subtle winces of pain on their faces, I love seeing tears drip a bit as well. I enjoy watching for genuine facial reactions when doing DAP or something challenging.

Please recommend some if you have it.

I remember my mother used to express some hostility towards other women, who she thought were sluts. And she expressed some satisfaction, when she heard that something bad happened to such women with guys. It was like divine punishment for these women.

I don't think my mother was sexually aroused by that. But what you say about yourself reminds me of the way my mother was in such matters. In my mother's thinking, these ladies were doing something bad, and they deserved their bad consequences.

Perhaps your feelings are like this too, except you also find some sexual enjoyment in this.

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Postby Eloise » Thu Oct 29, 2020 6:52 pm

101mike101 wrote:
MollyJacobsen wrote:I'm not here to argue, I like a specific type of porn.

I was a past subscriber to meatholes, facial abuse, and such.

I don't know why and I'm sure there's a psychological explanation for it, but its a big turn on for me to see other women being used for pleasure and degraded by groups of men, and LegalPorno does that very well and I appreciate it! I think I'm a bit jealous of them being in their 20s and prettier than me to be completely honest.

I am a woman myself in my late 30s now, and I admire pornstars, but I enjoy scenes that are very hard on the women. I like subtle winces of pain on their faces, I love seeing tears drip a bit as well. I enjoy watching for genuine facial reactions when doing DAP or something challenging.

Please recommend some if you have it.

I remember my mother used to express some hostility towards other women, who she thought were sluts. And she expressed some satisfaction, when she heard that something bad happened to such women with guys. It was like divine punishment for these women.

I don't think my mother was sexually aroused by that. But what you say about yourself reminds me of the way my mother was in such matters. In my mother's thinking, these ladies were doing something bad, and they deserved their bad consequences.

Perhaps your feelings are like this too, except you also find some sexual enjoyment in this.


I'm pretty sure "Molly Jacobsen" is able to get off on this information.

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Postby Iddaoeeok » Thu Oct 29, 2020 7:58 pm

101mike101 wrote:I remember my mother used to express some hostility towards other women, who she thought were sluts. And she expressed some satisfaction, when she heard that something bad happened to such women with guys. It was like divine punishment for these women.

I don't think my mother was sexually aroused by that. But what you say about yourself reminds me of the way my mother was in such matters. In my mother's thinking, these ladies were doing something bad, and they deserved their bad consequences.

Perhaps your feelings are like this too, except you also find some sexual enjoyment in this.


LOL like it's actually a woman you're replying to.

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Postby 101mike101 » Thu Oct 29, 2020 9:15 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:
LOL like it's actually a woman you're replying to.

There are plenty of women, who feel some hostility towards other women, especially sex-worker women. Most of the violence against women is committed by men. But it's female voters together with male, who often defeat any attempt to legalize prostitution and make it safer for women.

So, I can't tell just from the attitude whether the poster is male or female.

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Postby MollyJacobsen » Fri Oct 30, 2020 1:10 am

101mike101 wrote:
Iddaoeeok wrote:
LOL like it's actually a woman you're replying to.

There are plenty of women, who feel some hostility towards other women, especially sex-worker women. Most of the violence against women is committed by men. But it's female voters together with male, who often defeat any attempt to legalize prostitution and make it safer for women.

So, I can't tell just from the attitude whether the poster is male or female.


I'm not going to ask anyone for money or anything, so no reason to play pretend. I like porn, and I can't just discuss it in a group chat with my friends.

And yeah, I kind of feel like how your mom does to be completely honest. Just some of these 20 year olds are so pretty/naive and you know they've been favored in life because of it, and my life hasn't been that easy. It turns me on to see them taken down a notch on camera.

The harder the act, the more I like it, because I know later on some of them may regret it, and the more hardcore the footage thats forever on the internet, the more of an effect it'll have on them. I think of how ashamed she'll be of the footage later, and it seriously turns me on.

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Postby Eloise » Fri Oct 30, 2020 2:13 am

So what?
We're going to write on and on and on about it until page 99?

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Postby TheVulture » Sat Oct 31, 2020 12:56 am

MollyJacobsen wrote:I'm not going to ask anyone for money or anything, so no reason to play pretend. I like porn, and I can't just discuss it in a group chat with my friends.

And yeah, I kind of feel like how your mom does to be completely honest. Just some of these 20 year olds are so pretty/naive and you know they've been favored in life because of it, and my life hasn't been that easy. It turns me on to see them taken down a notch on camera.

The harder the act, the more I like it, because I know later on some of them may regret it, and the more hardcore the footage thats forever on the internet, the more of an effect it'll have on them. I think of how ashamed she'll be of the footage later, and it seriously turns me on.


I'm going to try not to get too drawn into this as I've done that kind of thing before here and it doesn't generally end well. I'm at the completely opposite end of the scale as I'm a bloke who is only turned on by strong women so is turned off by even faint manhandle type stuff in porn and is pretty much repulsed by anything stronger. I won't buy any scene that has the arm twist across the back, for example, which means that I'm struggling to even spend my new allocation of tickets, although there are a few of the newer GGG ones I like and I can probably find some good old scenes (this was basically the plan in allowing the roll over, which I doubt will be repeated next month or beyond, although I have said that before ha ha ha). So we're miles apart porn taste wise.

I'm also not saying what I'm saying to sound superior or "virtue signal" or whatever. It is what it is.

I have a genuine question though so will shout up with that and feel that it probably needed the wider context as per my opening section. Everything you have said has been about the women in these hard kind of porn scenes. I wonder how you feel about the men involved though (not just the actors but the director, who is most likely also male). Do you feel that they share any blame for any on set or subsequent distress to these girls? Or is it purely down to the girls? Is there any degree of on set male behaviour that might make you feel anatagonistic towards a guy and/or sympathetic towards a girl? Or are there really no boundaries as to what the guys can do on a porn set?

Like I say, a genuine question. I'm genuinely interested and not trying to judge. I would say that in a broad sense you are very much in the right place on LP and I am at least pretty much in the wrong place (something I have known really for quite some time), which again is what it is.
More non-manhandle scenes please. Hands away from face/neck/shoulders. Keep the girls loose, free and expressive. Don't overpower them - let them sizzle! Keep the heels on. More panties pulled to one side. More skirts/tight dresses. More 0% pussy scenes.

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Postby MollyJacobsen » Sat Oct 31, 2020 3:01 am

The more aggressive a man is, the more I like him in the porn I watch. The more distress, the better it is.

Im indifferent about the men, but I enjoy seeing a 19 y/o moan in discomfort from double anal.

I just like seeing them struggle, and its a bonus that the footage will probably haunt them. It'll be a secret from your husband, hard to get a job, embarassing for your family.

It's just a lifetime of problems for them and they deserve it. After the double anal is over is when the pain starts since the footage is out there. The thought of that turns me on.

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Postby Eloise » Sat Oct 31, 2020 12:25 pm

Jesus fuckin' Christ what a bunch of bullshit and you lot buying all that.

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Postby Iddaoeeok » Sat Oct 31, 2020 1:31 pm

:D

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Postby Eloise » Sat Oct 31, 2020 2:07 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote::D


You know I really think it's sad all those true believers here reacting "oh... great ... this might be true...." and you're one of the few seeing all that crap as is it.

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Postby greenfunk727 » Sat Oct 31, 2020 3:44 pm

Molly Jacobsen is such a great name too. Eloise has called bullshit and I think it's time to let this thread die.

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Postby TheVulture » Sat Oct 31, 2020 5:08 pm

The last answer from the OP is quite extreme and not quite what I was expecting but I'm confused as to why there are people here who don't think that it is genuine. There's already a long-running thread where people post scenes and moments within them where girls appear to be in pain/discomfort for the purposes of consuming said scenes for sexual pleasure so how is this radically different to that? It's a little more blunt and honest is all, which in some ways I have more respect for.

If there are people here who think that LP's content is somehow a million miles away from this OP's fantasies or that it doesn't actively encourage this type of porn consumer to visit the site then I am very much confused as to why they would think that. Even the mildest scenes on LP always encourage a degree of physical male superiority over the girls, which hasn't in any way been a prerequisite of porn since its inception. This thread is what it is and we are where we are with porn in 2020. I have no problem with believing the OP whatsoever.

There probably isn't really a place for me in this thread any more except around a general discussion of the LP ethos on these issues, although to be honest I feel that I have done that to death and am more inclined to take my medicine than expect any real change (or even variety) from the producers of LP content. I don't like this stuff, the OP does and LP will do what it will. But I don't understand not engaging with the issue generally. It's a very interesting one, if nothing else, and these kind of consumers are very definitely out there.
More non-manhandle scenes please. Hands away from face/neck/shoulders. Keep the girls loose, free and expressive. Don't overpower them - let them sizzle! Keep the heels on. More panties pulled to one side. More skirts/tight dresses. More 0% pussy scenes.

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Postby Iddaoeeok » Sat Oct 31, 2020 5:14 pm

These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.

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Postby Eloise » Sat Oct 31, 2020 6:11 pm

It's a guy jackin' off to the comments of these "true believers".

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Postby Gagandrim » Sun Nov 01, 2020 2:55 am

TheVulture wrote:The last answer from the OP is quite extreme and not quite what I was expecting but I'm confused as to why there are people here who don't think that it is genuine.

Because the OP says she is a woman, and for some reason people want to talk about that more than the actual topic of the thread.

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Postby Eloise » Sun Nov 01, 2020 1:18 pm

It's a guy jackin' off to the comments of these "true believers".

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Postby TheVulture » Sun Nov 01, 2020 5:21 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.


How do you know this?
More non-manhandle scenes please. Hands away from face/neck/shoulders. Keep the girls loose, free and expressive. Don't overpower them - let them sizzle! Keep the heels on. More panties pulled to one side. More skirts/tight dresses. More 0% pussy scenes.

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Postby netzerkaiser » Sun Nov 01, 2020 5:52 pm

There probably isn't really a place for me in this thread any more except around a general discussion of the LP ethos on these issues, although to be honest I feel that I have done that to death and am more inclined to take my medicine than expect any real change (or even variety) from the producers of LP content. I don't like this stuff, the OP does and LP will do what it will. But I don't understand not engaging with the issue generally. It's a very interesting one, if nothing else, and these kind of consumers are very definitely out there.[/quote]

I'm with you, Vulture. Only reason I'm member is that I want to finish off collecting all the great Sineplex / NRFTA stuff from 10-7 years ago, I just never seem to find the time. The coronavirus stuff has affected LP like I assume everyone else terribly. I understand that. I agree with you though. I was confused bysome of the posts here that assumed automatically that Molly was a man. I'd be more inclined to advise Molly to get herself sorted out & not be so bitter & badwilled.

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Postby netzerkaiser » Sun Nov 01, 2020 6:10 pm

I tried looking on youtube but its gone. I remember seeing, with the Merkel refugee crisis, & indeed Merkel ould be a prime contender herself, where all these crazy 60 year old feminists were taking one or two handsome young Afghan or Syrian men into their houses, blackmailing all opposition, goin' crazy on TV... "den barnen! den barnen!" (the children! the children!) & getting dp'd left right & centre every night, whilst makng out they were doing good, with the most culturally mysogynst peoples on earth! Maybe Molly IS real & IS one of these!

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Postby Iddaoeeok » Sun Nov 01, 2020 6:27 pm

TheVulture wrote:
Iddaoeeok wrote:These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.


How do you know this?


Past experience of trolls on this forum and elsewhere but especially on this forum, I can spot them a mile off.

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Postby netzerkaiser » Sun Nov 01, 2020 6:31 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:
TheVulture wrote:
Iddaoeeok wrote:These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.


How do you know this?


Past experience of trolls on this forum and elsewhere but especially on this forum, I can spot them a mile off.


I'm glad you answered this, 'cos I like you, though you do remind me a bit about my mother... always scolding... but usually right! :cool:

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Postby TheVulture » Sun Nov 01, 2020 6:33 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:Past experience of trolls on this forum and elsewhere but especially on this forum, I can spot them a mile off.


You might be right but in many ways with regard to the topic at hand, it's really a moot point. If the OP is actually male then in some ways that's more of an indictment of LP that they are attracting that kind of male consumer to the site (which we basically know that they do and essentially encourage with the tone and nature of their content).

If it is actually a female poster, well that is slightly more odd. But it doesn't really change anything. Certainly I'm prepared to take the OP at face value but really I'm more concerned as to why modern porn is so openly catering for this kind of consumer. It isn't a good place for it to be.
More non-manhandle scenes please. Hands away from face/neck/shoulders. Keep the girls loose, free and expressive. Don't overpower them - let them sizzle! Keep the heels on. More panties pulled to one side. More skirts/tight dresses. More 0% pussy scenes.

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Postby Destroyherass » Mon Nov 02, 2020 7:34 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.
This.

Obvious troll is obvious.
Throwaway account.

I love seeing hot girls getting their ass destroyed and pushed to their anal limits.
And huge, wide gapes off course.

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Postby Pineapples Studio » Mon Nov 02, 2020 8:01 pm

Do we really need two threads for this, especially when this one has gone so far off-topic already?

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Postby Eloise » Mon Nov 02, 2020 8:32 pm

Destroyherass wrote:
Iddaoeeok wrote:These kinds of conumers are indeed out there but a woman called Molly Jacobsen isn't one of them because the OP is not called Molly Jacobsen and is not a woman.
This.

Obvious troll is obvious.


Obvious?
There's many here just wanting this to be true.
Time and again.
Hornypaki was a GREAT example.
Wait for the next one and you'll see.

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Postby 101mike101 » Wed Nov 04, 2020 11:04 am

MollyJacobsen wrote:The more aggressive a man is, the more I like him in the porn I watch. The more distress, the better it is.

Im indifferent about the men, but I enjoy seeing a 19 y/o moan in discomfort from double anal.

I just like seeing them struggle, and its a bonus that the footage will probably haunt them. It'll be a secret from your husband, hard to get a job, embarassing for your family.

It's just a lifetime of problems for them and they deserve it. After the double anal is over is when the pain starts since the footage is out there. The thought of that turns me on.

I know some women who used to be sex-workers in the past. And some of them are living reasonably good lives, without any fear of being discovered. Because they fell in love with and married guys, who used to be their customers and who used to do it for money with them.

They didn't need to hide their past from their husbands, because their husbands were participants in their past and were intimately acquainted with it. And they didn't have much problem with finding an alternative career, because their husbands had the financial means to support them.

Not every sex-worker's life turns out this well. Many sex-workers end up having all kinds of problems with employment and acceptance in the community, when they get older. But plenty of ordinary people also end up being long-term unemployed and having all kinds of problems in their older lives. You don't need to be a former sex-worker to end up with problems like that. You can do everything by the book in your life and still end up with such problems. Because people in society often discriminate against older people, regardless of what they've done in their younger lives.

All women become less attractive and suffer some loss of social status, when they get older. But this change is bigger and more disappointing for the more beautiful and more attractive women. Porn women tend to be more attractive than the average. So, indeed they suffer some disappointment in their older lives. But they would suffer this disappointment anyway, even if they don't do porn.

So, there is no such thing as Karma for women in porn. Some of them do well after they end their porn careers and some don't. Their sex-work might contribute to their problems. But their sex-work might also help them get acquainted with the right kind of guys and be happy with them.

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Postby Eloise » Wed Nov 04, 2020 2:16 pm

101mike101 wrote:
MollyJacobsen wrote:The more aggressive a man is, the more I like him in the porn I watch. The more distress, the better it is.

Im indifferent about the men, but I enjoy seeing a 19 y/o moan in discomfort from double anal.

I just like seeing them struggle, and its a bonus that the footage will probably haunt them. It'll be a secret from your husband, hard to get a job, embarassing for your family.

It's just a lifetime of problems for them and they deserve it. After the double anal is over is when the pain starts since the footage is out there. The thought of that turns me on.

I know some women who used to be sex-workers in the past. And some of them are living reasonably good lives, without any fear of being discovered. Because they fell in love with and married guys, who used to be their customers and who used to do it for money with them.

They didn't need to hide their past from their husbands, because their husbands were participants in their past and were intimately acquainted with it. And they didn't have much problem with finding an alternative career, because their husbands had the financial means to support them.

Not every sex-worker's life turns out this well. Many sex-workers end up having all kinds of problems with employment and acceptance in the community, when they get older. But plenty of ordinary people also end up being long-term unemployed and having all kinds of problems in their older lives. You don't need to be a former sex-worker to end up with problems like that. You can do everything by the book in your life and still end up with such problems. Because people in society often discriminate against older people, regardless of what they've done in their younger lives.

All women become less attractive and suffer some loss of social status, when they get older. But this change is bigger and more disappointing for the more beautiful and more attractive women. Porn women tend to be more attractive than the average. So, indeed they suffer some disappointment in their older lives. But they would suffer this disappointment anyway, even if they don't do porn.

So, there is no such thing as Karma for women in porn. Some of them do well after they end their porn careers and some don't. Their sex-work might contribute to their problems. But their sex-work might also help them get acquainted with the right kind of guys and be happy with them.


And you're feeding this troll why exactly?

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Postby 101mike101 » Wed Nov 04, 2020 5:20 pm

Eloise wrote:And you're feeding this troll why exactly?


I like to give people the benefit of my doubt. I assume that people are innocent, until proven guilty. Because this is the way I want to be treated by others, when they don't know me.

The problem with assuming that people are guilty and having them prove their innocence to you is that many people will probably respond in the same way towards you. Distrust becomes mutual in such a situation, and you often don't get anywhere with people.

I try to follow the Golden Rule. Which is do unto others, as you would have others do unto you. I used to go to a church, and this where I've learned this kind of stuff. This is what Christ said in the past, among other things. I'm not a religious person now, but I still believe in this rule. Because I know from my own experience that people tend to treat you the same way that you treat them. So, you can improve your experience with people by being nice with them.

It's possible to be taken advantage of. But you just need to be reasonable about it and not distrust people, when you don't have much to lose.

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Postby grey00owl » Wed Nov 04, 2020 5:49 pm

101mike101 wrote:
Eloise wrote:And you're feeding this troll why exactly?


I like to give people the benefit of my doubt. I assume that people are innocent, until proven guilty. Because this is the way I want to be treated by others, when they don't know me.

The problem with assuming that people are guilty and having them prove their innocence to you is that many people will probably respond in the same way towards you. Distrust becomes mutual in such a situation, and you often don't get anywhere with people.

I try to follow the Golden Rule. Which is do unto others, as you would have others do unto you. I used to go to a church, and this where I've learned this kind of stuff. This is what Christ said in the past, among other things. I'm not a religious person now, but I still believe in this rule. Because I know from my own experience that people tend to treat you the same way that you treat them. So, you can improve your experience with people by being nice with them.

It's possible to be taken advantage of. But you just need to be reasonable about it and not distrust people, when you don't have much to lose.

My philosophy and attitude as well.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby Iddaoeeok » Wed Nov 04, 2020 6:09 pm

101mike101 wrote:The problem with assuming that people are guilty and having them prove their innocence to you is that many people will probably respond in the same way towards you. Distrust becomes mutual in such a situation, and you often don't get anywhere with people.


I don't know about you but I don't particularly want to 'get anywhere' with some dude who gets off on pretending to be a woman on a porn forum. Maybe I'm just a bad bad person.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby 101mike101 » Wed Nov 04, 2020 6:46 pm

Iddaoeeok wrote:
101mike101 wrote:The problem with assuming that people are guilty and having them prove their innocence to you is that many people will probably respond in the same way towards you. Distrust becomes mutual in such a situation, and you often don't get anywhere with people.


I don't know about you but I don't particularly want to 'get anywhere' with some dude who gets off on pretending to be a woman on a porn forum. Maybe I'm just a bad bad person.


This is the kind of thing everybody says, when they don't trust other people. They assume the worst. And they think that this is the truth. So, they behave according to this 'truth'. And then the other person responds in a similar way. Which confirms their so-called 'truth'. Their assumption becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, because they make it look true with their own behavior.

From your point of view, it's all logical, and it makes sense. But logic can lead you to false conclusions, when your initial assumption is false. So, being logical and consistent and everything falling into place the way you expect it to be doesn't necessarily mean that you are right. You could be just making a false assumption and making it look true with your own behavior.

I don't believe in being completely sure about anything. Because being sure makes it hard to see your mistakes and learn from them. Being completely sure, without even an ounce of doubt, is the same as being close-minded.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby Iddaoeeok » Wed Nov 04, 2020 7:36 pm

101mike101 wrote:This is the kind of thing everybody says, when they don't trust other people. They assume the worst. And they think that this is the truth. So, they behave according to this 'truth'. And then the other person responds in a similar way. Which confirms their so-called 'truth'. Their assumption becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, because they make it look true with their own behavior.

From your point of view, it's all logical, and it makes sense. But logic can lead you to false conclusions, when your initial assumption is false. So, being logical and consistent and everything falling into place the way you expect it to be doesn't necessarily mean that you are right. You could be just making a false assumption and making it look true with your own behavior.

I don't believe in being completely sure about anything. Because being sure makes it hard to see your mistakes and learn from them. Being completely sure, without even an ounce of doubt, is the same as being close-minded.


Thanks for the sermon. Completely irrelevant though it was. Still, if it makes you feel better, that's something.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby 101mike101 » Thu Nov 05, 2020 2:03 am

Iddaoeeok wrote:Thanks for the sermon. Completely irrelevant though it was. Still, if it makes you feel better, that's something.

If this is a sermon, then I was preaching to myself. Because some people, including you, have criticized my open and tolerant attitude here. So, I am explaining myself and my behavior, rather than preaching to somebody and trying to convert someone.

My impression is that you are trying to convert me and change my behavior. So, you are the one who is preaching to me. I'm only responding to what you've said.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby Iddaoeeok » Thu Nov 05, 2020 2:23 am

101mike101 wrote:
Iddaoeeok wrote:Thanks for the sermon. Completely irrelevant though it was. Still, if it makes you feel better, that's something.

If this is a sermon, then I was preaching to myself. Because some people, including you, have criticized my open and tolerant attitude here. So, I am explaining myself and my behavior, rather than preaching to somebody and trying to convert someone.

My impression is that you are trying to convert me and change my behavior. So, you are the one who is preaching to me. I'm only responding to what you've said.


Here we have a textbook example of projection here. I've responded fairly brief and not very seriously to two of your comments: you, on the other hand, decided to sit me down and give me a little homily on open-mindedness and tolerance like I'm some naughty schoolboy. I can only assume you're confusing me with someone else if you think I was preaching to you - read back what I actually said. As for converting anyone, I think you'd better lay off the religious imagery for a while.

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Re: Scenes where the woman is subtly in pain/struggling?

Postby Eloise » Thu Nov 05, 2020 10:34 pm

Okay let's consider "this one" ridden out and let's wait for the next bullshit troll for you all to go after.

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