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Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 24, 2020 6:51 pm

by netzerkaiser

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Micropenis

I remember reading of this, that .06% - 1% of all males have a tiny tiny penis. My heart goes out to them. How on earth can you have any self-esteem in this ultra-sexualised age, with such. And remember, some of these guys will be tall handsome men - it must be soul destroying. I don't think I'd be able to ever contemplate a sexual relationship in that situation. And then others, rather than retreating from life, would become bitter & misogynistic - its a set of shoes I'd hate to have been predestined to wear, & I feel for these guys - its no laughing matter thats for sure.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2020 4:35 am

by shenmue

My Brother is just over 3 inches when hard, he is 37 and married with two kids but it was very difficult for him when he was a teen/early 20's, lack of condience after a few embarrassing sexual encounters really got to him and he became anti social and didn't even try to have sexual encounters or start a relationship with a woman again until he was 30.

He went into a depressed state and finally talked about his issues to me and a close friend, we encouraged him to start theapry and get some help, he got sent to a sex therapist later on who really helped him with self worth and sex advice, fingers, oral and toy usage were going to be important, he met a lovely woman online who wasn't very sexually experienced, also struggled with confidence but both of them had so much in common, art,swimming,football, films/tv and music and i was very happy he found happiness and confidence.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2020 7:39 am

by ZiziMinuscule

I'm 33. Never had a girlfriend. My all "close encounters" - very sparse - were with escorts and nearly all were very disappointing. All the girls were great and comprehensive, but - as mentioned above - this kind of handicap makes you very shy, permanently stressed and depressed. In consequence, I was basically unable to enjoy these encounters and still feel traumatised.

Psychotherapy and psychiatric drugs didn't work.

I don't believe anymore anything can change for better.

That being said, I encourage everyone with the same "problem" to contact a therapist / psychologist / psychiatrist and to try every opportunity. It's never too late to seek for help. And even if, at the end, You are going to loose any hope, just like me, please, do Your best because the worst thing is to surrender too early and to neglect possibilities of help.

I'm sorry for my poor English.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic: micropenis

Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2020 1:22 pm

by netzerkaiser

It was worth making this post for the two touching responses. Maybe a genre could be created to help give self-esteem to anyone affected? One that isn't based on shame & ridicule?

Guys, you are both very brave men. I salute you.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Oct 25, 2020 1:43 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:I'm 33. Never had a girlfriend. My all "close encounters" - very sparse - were with escorts and nearly all were very disappointing. All the girls were great and comprehensive, but - as mentioned above - this kind of handicap makes you very shy, permanently stressed and depressed. In consequence, I was basically unable to enjoy these encounters and still feel traumatised.

Psychotherapy and psychiatric drugs didn't work.

I don't believe anymore anything can change for better.

That being said, I encourage everyone with the same "problem" to contact a therapist / psychologist / psychiatrist and to try every opportunity. It's never too late to seek for help. And even if, at the end, You are going to loose any hope, just like me, please, do Your best because the worst thing is to surrender too early and to neglect possibilities of help.

I'm sorry for my poor English.

If its any consolation, I'm not tall & always when I've met girls who were taller than me, unless they were super thin or made a move on me, my instinct was to back off out of feeling insufficient. Or it can be at a time in your life where you've a poor job or if you were living in horrible bedsit. All these things can affect your confidence so much.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2020 7:09 am

by ZiziMinuscule

Thank You for Your contribution. I think I can feel Your pain. It's very kind of You to start such a discussion about such delicate topic and to share Your personal experience.

When it comes to me, my another "problem", putting aside my phallus dimensions, is the fact I'm obese (and short). You certainly get the cause-effect relationship:

tiny phallus -> no or bad experiences with girls -> poor self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> overeating -> obesity -> even worse experiences with girls -> even less self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> etc.

My self-confidence / self-esteem is inexistant, my life is ruined. I can't stop ruminating all that and don't believe I can change anything. I just don't want to disappoint my mother and to leave my two cats alone. Otherwise, I would probably kill myself.

Of course one can always argue that a man's existence should not get reduced to relationships with women, but 1) it still remains an important aspect of one's life ; 2) I never had any other goals nor ambitions to focus upon.

That being said, as I stated in my previous post, I encourage everyone who is struggling with the same "problem" to seek for help. To surrender is the very last option to adopt.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2020 10:52 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:Thank You for Your contribution. I think I can feel Your pain. It's very kind of You to start such a discussion about such delicate topic and to share Your personal experience.

When it comes to me, my another "problem", putting aside my phallus dimensions, is the fact I'm obese (and short). You certainly get the cause-effect relationship:

tiny phallus -> no or bad experiences with girls -> poor self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> overeating -> obesity -> even worse experiences with girls -> even less self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> etc.

My self-confidence / self-esteem is inexistant, my life is ruined. I can't stop ruminating all that and don't believe I can change anything. I just don't want to disappoint my mother and to leave my two cats alone. Otherwise, I would probably kill myself.

Of course one can always argue that a man's existence should not get reduced to relationships with women, but 1) it still remains an important aspect of one's life ; 2) I never had any other goals nor ambitions to focus upon.

That being said, as I stated in my previous post, I encourage everyone who is struggling with the same "problem" to seek for help. To surrender is the very last option to adopt.

Brother, you are more of a man than most people I've ever encountered. You have to keep the faith. There will be a way, & you'll find it. It might be an idea to take up gentle sports, join a tennis club or something. Or a club that goes on gentle hikes. There are a hell of a lot of good people out there. Thanks for kind response, & wishing you all the best.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2020 11:39 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:Thank You for Your contribution. I think I can feel Your pain. It's very kind of You to start such a discussion about such delicate topic and to share Your personal experience.

When it comes to me, my another "problem", putting aside my phallus dimensions, is the fact I'm obese (and short). You certainly get the cause-effect relationship:

tiny phallus -> no or bad experiences with girls -> poor self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> overeating -> obesity -> even worse experiences with girls -> even less self-confidence -> a need to compensate -> etc.

My self-confidence / self-esteem is inexistant, my life is ruined. I can't stop ruminating all that and don't believe I can change anything. I just don't want to disappoint my mother and to leave my two cats alone. Otherwise, I would probably kill myself.

Of course one can always argue that a man's existence should not get reduced to relationships with women, but 1) it still remains an important aspect of one's life ; 2) I never had any other goals nor ambitions to focus upon.

That being said, as I stated in my previous post, I encourage everyone who is struggling with the same "problem" to seek for help. To surrender is the very last option to adopt.

If I might expand further, I'm 17 years older than you, & I did all that gig of looking after elderly parents (it always seems to fall on one member of family! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFqb1I-hiHE), & I too adopted litte helpless cats & dogs! I actually have a few lovely women interested in me now that I'm doin' well & at peace with myself - but 4 points - firstly when I was your age I was in exactly same position - your care for your mam & pets is honourable. Secondly, as the years roll by, none of it seems matter so much, you've got your eyes on the greater prize, which is what happens after this life - it mightn't be any harm to connect with your soul, look at the faith you were born into, in my case as Christian (people might ROTFL on site like this, I can understand that, but for me, the sheer beauty of St Johns Gospel is timeless). Also, all those standard "jocks" you envied when you were 19 - half of them are close to heart attack with job & family pressure, 3 kids running around, mortgage, & a demanding 18 stone wife they can no longer relate to! Maybe you don't have it so bad after all! Thirdly, what I've always valued about a loose interest in porn is that its stopped me getting all fixated & idealistic about women. It keeps it real that the lady on the bus who you might think has the secret of the universe in her soul, actually is just like you - to be crude, if she guzzles the same beer you do on a night out, she'll have the same digestive troubles as you in the morning, & suddenly your cock will be the least of both your worries! Lastly my probem now is only to contemplate, if starting relationship, the whole issue of finding room in the house for their kids, which is fair enough, few 35 year old women have anything less. Brother, you've been through the mill.. you'll be fine. Stay strong - & take care of yourself.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2020 6:26 pm

by dap-addict

Very brave and nice thread, netzerkaiser!
Difficult to add much, but many any porn girls and psychologists plus porn girl psychologists like Nicole Black for instance stress two things: 1) size doenst matter as much as character and emotions matter. 2) sex and RL mateing isn't the most important thing in life If you are able to create other goals for yourself. Referring to one Eurobabe, let me refer you to Ally Breelsen also.
And there is at least 10 more I could list, or also 100, just look and hear around!

Now porn is an entertainment option mainly. It sure helps lots of ppl to get at terms with their wishes and needs, and thats the big plus with porn. Minus is ppl tend to believe they have to look and behave like actors and actresses do in these fantasy entertainment films. For instance shoooting porn of course they need big dicks studs and studs being 99,9% reliable in all circumstances - and they need girls spreading their legs always upon directors on-set wish and being always ready.
RL is different ofc.
But porn stays still fun to watch!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2020 7:28 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

netzerkaiser wrote:Brother, you are more of a man than most people I've ever encountered. You have to keep the faith. There will be a way, & you'll find it. It might be an idea to take up gentle sports, join a tennis club or something. Or a club that goes on gentle hikes. There are a hell of a lot of good people out there. Thanks for kind response, & wishing you all the best.

Thank You for Your kind words and for Your advice. Time will tell.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2020 10:44 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:Brother, you are more of a man than most people I've ever encountered. You have to keep the faith. There will be a way, & you'll find it. It might be an idea to take up gentle sports, join a tennis club or something. Or a club that goes on gentle hikes. There are a hell of a lot of good people out there. Thanks for kind response, & wishing you all the best.

Thank You for Your kind words and for Your advice. Time will tell.

Thanks DAPAddict, always great time for you & respect... & for the main man ZiziMiniscule, respect isn't big enough a word. Guys, when I posted last night, I'd been out working & driving for 15 hours, was jaded, & had just eaten & polished off seveal beers before hitting the sack & repeating whole procedure again this morning.

I was a bit afraid I'd come home tonight & see lots of 'rolling eyes' derogatory posts - "this guy is a fu*king loony" etc (I should have realised by now how most people here are non-judgemental cool & understanding guys). But I also cared enough for your predicament & thought something else Zizi, 3 things in fact.

1. What if you got in shape? What if you got little volunteer work with homeless or vulnerable etc? Your great humanity & dignity would light up their lives, & get you out of beating yourself up.

2. Because I was a bit drunk, my bringing in the 'jock' your age, with the 3 kids, the wife he no longer relates to, the crushing mortgage... that poor guy has had his time in the sun... you have never been in the sun. You are a virgin to the brighter side of life, & it'll come if you stay strong & the years bring a little more perspective. And how you'll appreciate it all the more. Its just I could've put that a bit better phrased as to what I meant. You've no baggage brother - many guys your age would give right hand for that, alone.

3. Lastly, I know this woman, shes lovely looking in a weird way, but shes a social 'outcast' because she has what I've just reearched is a condition called phocomelia. It means her arm is malformed, withered, if you want to be blunt. I'll bet shes never been kissed though otherwise shes perfect, apart from lacking experience with men, so shes naturally slow to trust. I've thought a few times "Would I?" but to be honest, I've been not a brave enough soul to pursue anything: "What would my friends say behind my back", or else, "Would I be using her? if so, I'm pathetic" . Or it could be a lady with a bad stammer or an unfortunate birthmark etc. Brother, you need start with someone who has a nullifying factor to equal what is in your mind, your own nullifying facor - so this rids you of your feelings of unworthiness. And you won't be using her, it could be love (particularly since you've both learned what it is to suffer), or at very least it could give you both confidence to realise theres nothing in this world you should be afraid of, & you're BOTH as good as anyone else.

Best wishes.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0EakQ-BcNQ

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Wed Oct 28, 2020 2:10 am

by ZiziMinuscule

Don’t worry. This topic is one of the most serious and interesting topics I’ve ever seen on an internet forum, IMHO. And I don’t say it only beacause I feel personally concerned. You started a serious discussion on a serious problem that is likely to concern many more porn consumers. Last but not least, it’s always interesting to speak about some uncomfortable and difficult subjects – porn or not porn related. One can always learn something new.

1. I had lost 30 kg twice in my life, but it had changed nothing – still zero self-esteem, still no interest from girls. Perhaps I should had lost even more weight.
When it comes to helping vulnerable, I prefer not to go into details, but apart from supporting financially three animal welfare organisations, I took under my wings a vulnerable young person, former sex worker and drug addict, who can always count on my help (economic and psychological). To avoid any misunderstandings, there is no sex involved in this relationship. The person I’m talking about is for me like a younger sister. If we had private messages, perhaps I would say You a bit more about it, but I prefer not to go into details on the open forum.

2. No problem, I think I understood well the content of Your message. It’s true, I’ve no baggage and I’m free from many relationship- or even marriage-related problems and difficulties. That being said, I’ve never wanted to marry. I just wanted to have someone to share my life with. And of course I’m still relatively young. However, for different reasons, I don’t think any female can seriously consider me as a potential partner. I just need to deal with it.

3. I see. Thank You for sharing this episode from Your life. I experienced a similar situation. I’ve been „dating” a disabled girl for several weeks. I liked her a lot and was ready to share my life with her. Her disability wasn’t any problem for me. But after three or four meetings (coffee, cinema etc.) she told me she „wasn’t ready for such a relationship”. What can I say ? I was devastated. I even told myself that „even disabled girls don’t want me” (today I understand that using the word „even” was very mean as it supposed that disabled girls are „worse” than others – and that’s certainly not my opinion).

Thank You very much for this learning and meaningful correspondance.

PS Just to „lighten” a bit our discussion, may I ask You a question about Your nickname ? Are You a Günter Netzer's fan ?

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Wed Oct 28, 2020 7:11 am

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:Don’t worry. This topic is one of the most serious and interesting topics I’ve ever seen on an internet forum, IMHO. And I don’t say it only beacause I feel personally concerned. You started a serious discussion on a serious problem that is likely to concern many more porn consumers. Last but not least, it’s always interesting to speak about some uncomfortable and difficult subjects – porn or not porn related. One can always learn something new.

1. I had lost 30 kg twice in my life, but it had changed nothing – still zero self-esteem, still no interest from girls. Perhaps I should had lost even more weight.
When it comes to helping vulnerable, I prefer not to go into details, but apart from supporting financially three animal welfare organisations, I took under my wings a vulnerable young person, former sex worker and drug addict, who can always count on my help (economic and psychological). To avoid any misunderstandings, there is no sex involved in this relationship. The person I’m talking about is for me like a younger sister. If we had private messages, perhaps I would say You a bit more about it, but I prefer not to go into details on the open forum.

2. No problem, I think I understood well the content of Your message. It’s true, I’ve no baggage and I’m free from many relationship- or even marriage-related problems and difficulties. That being said, I’ve never wanted to marry. I just wanted to have someone to share my life with. And of course I’m still relatively young. However, for different reasons, I don’t think any female can seriously consider me as a potential partner. I just need to deal with it.

3. I see. Thank You for sharing this episode from Your life. I experienced a similar situation. I’ve been „dating” a disabled girl for several weeks. I liked her a lot and was ready to share my life with her. Her disability wasn’t any problem for me. But after three or four meetings (coffee, cinema etc.) she told me she „wasn’t ready for such a relationship”. What can I say ? I was devastated. I even told myself that „even disabled girls don’t want me” (today I understand that using the word „even” was very mean as it supposed that disabled girls are „worse” than others – and that’s certainly not my opinion).

Thank You very much for this learning and meaningful correspondance.

PS Just to „lighten” a bit our discussion, may I ask You a question about Your nickname ? Are You a Günter Netzer's fan ?

He was a supreme passer of the ball! Great spot!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Wed Oct 28, 2020 3:53 pm

by dap-addict

netzerkaiser wrote:Brother, you need start with someone who has a nullifying factor to equal what is in your mind, your own nullifying facor - so this rids you of your feelings of unworthiness.

It would be better to dump your feelings of unworthiness because both you and Zizi come along as emotionally even and compassionate guys and there are enough women looking for such men no matter how you look or how old you are. It will maybe not be the esthetic girl of your dreams, but she'll be a lovely person still and a point from where a lot can evolve, as much as both of you want.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Wed Oct 28, 2020 11:02 pm

by netzerkaiser

If we had private messages, perhaps I would say You a bit more about it, but I prefer not to go into details on the open forum.

If that comes back Brother, I'll be sure to PM you. I seldom forget people. In meantime wish you all the best! Lovely to have made your acquaintance! I'll leave you with a couple of youtube montages... of Netzer... & Rivelinho, another genius!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7uPXMZNEU0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoiOH3sCemw

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2020 4:10 am

by dap-addict

Why dont you contact each other via a mail address?
Just an idea... Since xxx wants LP fans not able to contact each other anymore here, they have to find ways around, and there are such ways!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 12:59 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

netzerkaiser wrote:If we had private messages, perhaps I would say You a bit more about it, but I prefer not to go into details on the open forum.

If that comes back Brother, I'll be sure to PM you. I seldom forget people. In meantime wish you all the best! Lovely to have made your acquaintance! I'll leave you with a couple of youtube montages... of Netzer... & Rivelinho, another genius!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7uPXMZNEU0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoiOH3sCemw

@netzerkaiser
Thank You very much. Me too, I'm happy to have made Your acquaintance.

Great compilations. I've always been a football fan, but in recent years my interest for current high-level football had radically declined. I'm especially bored with Champions League. I'm much more focused on feminine and amateur football as well as on nostalgia football. I'm really thankfull You shared these videos with me. I'm too young to remember Netzer, Rivelinho and other legendary players (it's on purpose that I don't call them "stars") from that time, so it's a genuine pleasure to watch a selection of their exploits. When I see Netzer playing, he reminds me a bit my fellow countryman Kazimierz Deyna, one of the greatest Polish players of all time and certainly one of the best midfielders of his time.

@dap-addict
Thank You for your contributions and ideas. While we are at it, I feel the need to apologize You for having critized You several times on the forum. While I don't share Your DAP addiction and Your style of writing sometimes makes me mad (that's because You appear to know more than an ordinary porn fan and Your posts are often a bit engimatic, what makes me angry [and jealous

]), but it was very mean to post about it. I could have shared my feelings with You in a private message or, even better, leave them for me as it was absolutely unconstructive and, what's even worse, rude to speak about it openly.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 1:39 pm

by netzerkaiser

@Zizu: what a GREAT GUY you are! & have you any idea how close Poland came to WC glory in '74? Below post should make your day! I played football with many great Polish lads... everytime they miss the goal.. "Napier dolej [sic]"!

https://www.fifa.com/worldcup/news/brei ... 974-513646

And I agree on what you say of current game, Messi would be ordinary "great" player, if he was in 1980's or even 1990's.. heavier ball, gruesome tackles... I could give scores of examples of beautiful players of even that time, but I pick two randomly - the great Baggio & Dejan Savejevic (to represent glorious Yugoslavian football pedigree). I don't watch todays football, its shite to me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-7KMkza-8o

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2CWdYifres

At its best, what I loved about playing, was battling with comrades & showing / giving respect to opponents. At its best, there was something manly & noble about it.

So sad Denya died so young.

To answer the excellent Dapaddicts suggestion... we don't need open up private channel. Kid, you're going to be just fine! Keep the faith!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 1:55 pm

by netzerkaiser

Lets throw in this genius too, while we're at it, Van Basten!:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H7YpIZvjmp0

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 2:29 pm

by netzerkaiser

https://pornbox.com/application/watch-page/156293

Alexa Black: Some guys will say, these guys are lame... these are ordinary Joe 5' 8' cocks... refreshing to see IMO.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:02 pm

by dap-addict

Better hard and small than big and limp.
Or working only after 2-3 injections for each fuck!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:07 pm

by netzerkaiser

dap-addict wrote:Better hard and small than big and limp.
Or working only after 2-3 injections for each fuck!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:13 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

Thank You for the great Paul Breitner’s interview. It looks like he is a man of a very good taste. It’s true, in 1974, Poland had a stellar team. It’s still a very common opinion in Poland that if the “water match” against West Germany in the second round had been played in “normal” weather conditions, the White and Reds would be very likely to win the game and advance to the final. That being said, the conditions are always identical for both squads…

I suppose Your Polish pitch-mates were shouting “Ja pierdolę” (literally: I do fuck it !) to show their disappointment

I agree with You. Messi or even CR7, in spite of his athletic body, would be just “ordinary” great players in the past. Different balls, different pitches, different style of play, but also different media coverage and fans attitude. If “stardom” had indeed already existed, it had not been so exaggerated as it is today.

When it comes to me, I must admit I’m a big fan of “Italian”-style defensive tactics while my favourite players has always been goalkeepers and defenders. If I don’t really appreciate the Polish golden-era goalkeeper Jan Tomaszewski (not an outstanding player at all and a very mean person who supports current Polish government), I can only bow my head to legends like Lev Yashin, Ivo Viktor, Dino Zoff or Sepp Maier. My first goalkeeping “crush” was Gianluca Pagliuca (the Italian goalkeeper during 1994 WC).

The Alexa Black scene You are reffering to is a pure joy. Putting aside Mike Chapman, who is my all time favourite BBC, I appreciate Russian (Russia-based studios) or Czecho-Slovakian (Gio) studs much more than Gonzo Southern-European monster-cock males. I’ve nothing against Chris Diamond, Potro, Christian Clay, Luca Ferrero and others – not at all – but I just feel some kind of special sympathy for medium/average-dicked guys of Slavic origin

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:42 pm

by netzerkaiser

The Alexa Black scene You are reffering to is a pure joy. Putting aside Mike Chapman, who is my all time favourite BBC, I appreciate Russian (Russia-based studios) or Czecho-Slovakian (Gio) studs much more than Gonzo Southern-European monster-cock males. I’ve nothing against Chris Diamond, Potro, Christian Clay, Luca Ferrero and others – not at all – but I just feel some kind of special sympathy for medium/average-dicked guys of Slavic origin

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Theres no need for them to be such sadistic assholes, though, especially what was once affectionally known as "the hogg" 'or 'mr anderson' or especially this fucking Nikolas. Sad guy. Sad sad fucking guy. Ok, guys, you've little dicks. Embrace it, come to terms with it, but don't take your shortcomings out on poor models trying to make ends meet FFS.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 9:36 pm

by netzerkaiser

netzerkaiser wrote:The Alexa Black scene You are reffering to is a pure joy. Putting aside Mike Chapman, who is my all time favourite BBC, I appreciate Russian (Russia-based studios) or Czecho-Slovakian (Gio) studs much more than Gonzo Southern-European monster-cock males. I’ve nothing against Chris Diamond, Potro, Christian Clay, Luca Ferrero and others – not at all – but I just feel some kind of special sympathy for medium/average-dicked guys of Slavic origin

Theres no need for them to be such sadistic assholes, though, especially what was once affectionally known as "the hogg" 'or 'mr anderson' or especially this fucking Nikolas. Sad guy. Sad sad fucking guy. Ok, guys, you've little dicks. Embrace it, come to terms with it, but don't take your shortcomings out on poor models trying to make ends meet FFS.[/quote]

One has met the odd Polish lad I didn't like in my country... I'm Irish... but 98% of the Poles I've met in my country have been gems. & I've met SO MANY, Viva Poland, viva Chopin!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRYjGSwdWws

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 10:09 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

netzerkaiser wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:The Alexa Black scene You are reffering to is a pure joy. Putting aside Mike Chapman, who is my all time favourite BBC, I appreciate Russian (Russia-based studios) or Czecho-Slovakian (Gio) studs much more than Gonzo Southern-European monster-cock males. I’ve nothing against Chris Diamond, Potro, Christian Clay, Luca Ferrero and others – not at all – but I just feel some kind of special sympathy for medium/average-dicked guys of Slavic origin

Theres no need for them to be such sadistic assholes, though, especially what was once affectionally known as "the hogg" 'or 'mr anderson' or especially this fucking Nikolas. Sad guy. Sad sad fucking guy. Ok, guys, you've little dicks. Embrace it, come to terms with it, but don't take your shortcomings out on poor models trying to make ends meet FFS.

One has met the odd Polish lad I didn't like in my country... I'm Irish... but 98% of the Poles I've met in my country have been gems. & I've met SO MANY, Viva Poland, viva Chopin!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRYjGSwdWws[/quote]

I see Your point when You reproach to Mr. Anderson and Nik Rock their rude attitude towards the girls, but let's don't forget 1) that all that is staged/acted and 2) that the main responsability goes to the audience who is keen on this kind of "rough" porn - if there was no demand, there would not by any supply on the market. That being said, I don't caution their aggressive approach, but I would lie if I would say that I don't enjoy their scenes.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2020 10:12 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

When it comes to the music, one of the greatest hits of Polish rock music is entitled "Kocham Cię jak Irlandię" (I love You as much as I love Ireland). It is performed by the band Kobranocka.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSroh2XP-0&ab_channel=badmalicious

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 11:03 am

by netzerkaiser

I see Your point when You reproach to Mr. Anderson and Nik Rock their rude attitude towards the girls, but let's don't forget 1) that all that is staged/acted and 2) that the main responsability goes to the audience who is keen on this kind of "rough" porn - if there was no demand, there would not by any supply on the market. That being said, I don't caution their aggressive approach, but I would lie if I would say that I don't enjoy their scenes.[/quote]

Yeah, I went too far alright, but I feel awful that teenagers will grow up on this sadistic side of things, & become normalised to it.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 1:20 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:When it comes to the music, one of the greatest hits of Polish rock music is entitled "Kocham Cię jak Irlandię" (I love You as much as I love Ireland). It is performed by the band Kobranocka.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gSroh2XP-0&ab_channel=badmalicious

This is actually a lovely song with nice vignette of lyrics. Thanks!

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 6:34 pm

by dap-addict

netzerkaiser wrote:or especially this fucking Nikolas. Sad guy. Sad sad fucking guy.

Is it your quote, netzer or Ziti's?

Sb of you or both of you have a quoting problem here.
Anyway, as Zizi rightly points its staged. This said there is this private story of Nik with one of the LP faves which is quite disturbing actually. The girl finally wind herself out of that relationship but before she fought for many years and was quite obviously emotionally and physically abused for many years. If couples split there is never black-white only, but I strongly tend to believe that girl and that makes it difficult for me actually to watch and enjoy Nik as actor of GLab often now.

And btw, I doubt it has so much to so with his dick size, its rather a much deeper problem, also a bt rooted in Russian patriarchic culture, russian drinking (and eating) habits as well.

Luckily GLab is offering other studio options to the girls and those caring more for themselves are rather performing for the other 3 directors. But still a lot depends on chance who they met first when they are looking to enter this biz.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 7:45 pm

by netzerkaiser

dap-addict wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:or especially this fucking Nikolas. Sad guy. Sad sad fucking guy.

Is it your quote, netzer or Ziti's?

It was me, yep I went too far, but like I said, the worst part of this is the influence this kind of thing is having on 14 year old boys everywhere who are seeing free clips of this kind of sex. Just to show where its going, I saw clip about 2 years ago of young punk with Zazie Skym, it was her first anal I think, & young punks first instinct (it wasn't LP, & he can't have been older than 18 or 19 himself), instead of enjoying the moment, was to choke her. Something a bit messed up there.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2020 8:26 pm

by netzerkaiser

also a bt rooted in Russian patriarchic culture, russian drinking (and eating) habits as well.

You're so right about this. The last time I was in love was 14 years ago, with the most beautiful Russian girl - & she loved me, but her 'social circle' were all ex-USSR, & the drinking parties etc were all based on dominance & subjugation. These guys were so fucking insecure. The 'head-honcho' of this pack was a fat bin-man... I can understand now the siege mentality many of these had (thankfully now, its largely gone), coming to western country & having to work low-status jobs with the lower class indigenous, when they could speak 3 or 4 languages & I can understand their painting everyone of that country with same brush. But I wasn't having it. I gave her ultimatum, come with me or stay with them. She hadn't strength at that time to pull herself away from that whole vodka party club, so I gave her up & my job, & went to Czech Rep for many months to clear my head. Never looked back.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:11 pm

by netzerkaiser

netzerkaiser wrote:also a bt rooted in Russian patriarchic culture, russian drinking (and eating) habits as well.

You're so right about this. The last time I was in love was 14 years ago, with the most beautiful Russian girl - & she loved me, but her 'social circle' were all ex-USSR, & the drinking parties etc were all based on dominance & subjugation. These guys were so fucking insecure. The 'head-honcho' of this pack was a fat bin-man... I can understand now the siege mentality many of these had (thankfully now, its largely gone), coming to western country & having to work low-status jobs with the lower class indigenous, when they could speak 3 or 4 languages & I can understand their painting everyone of that country with same brush. But I wasn't having it. I gave her ultimatum, come with me or stay with them. She hadn't strength at that time to pull herself away from that whole vodka party club, so I gave her up & my job, & went to Czech Rep for many months to clear my head. Never looked back.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fk-4lXLM34g

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:19 pm

by ZiziMinuscule

netzerkaiser wrote:Yeah, I went too far alright, but I feel awful that teenagers will grow up on this sadistic side of things, & become normalised to it.

This is an accurate reproach that, however, could be adressed to every form of violence in every kind of artistic production, especially in modern cinema. The porn is just one among many artistic reflections of modern society.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 7:27 pm

by netzerkaiser

ZiziMinuscule wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:Yeah, I went too far alright, but I feel awful that teenagers will grow up on this sadistic side of things, & become normalised to it.

This is an accurate reproach that, however, could be adressed to every form of violence in every kind of artistic production, especially in modern cinema. The porn is just one among many artistic reflections of modern society.

Brother, I'll back you up, without even digesting what've you've said. Why? Cos you're worth it.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 9:15 pm

by netzerkaiser

netzerkaiser wrote:
ZiziMinuscule wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:Yeah, I went too far alright, but I feel awful that teenagers will grow up on this sadistic side of things, & become normalised to it.

This is an accurate reproach that, however, could be adressed to every form of violence in every kind of artistic production, especially in modern cinema. The porn is just one among many artistic reflections of modern society.

Brother, I'll back you up, without even digesting what've you've said. Why? Cos you're worth it.

This is something that always pissed me off about adulation for both Scorcesse & Tarrantino, 2 physiological freaks, & neither as bright or courageous as they imagined themselves to be. The last great hero movie-wise was Passolini or maybe your countryman Werner Herzog... these guys didn't give a shit.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2020 9:56 pm

by dap-addict

netzerkaiser wrote:The last time I was in love was 14 years ago, with the most beautiful Russian girl - & she loved me, but her 'social circle' were all ex-USSR, & the drinking parties etc were all based on dominance & subjugation. (...) I gave her ultimatum, come with me or stay with them. She hadn't strength at that time to pull herself away from that whole vodka party club, so I gave her up & my job, & went to Czech Rep for many months to clear my head. Never looked back.

Sounds traumatic!

This said, story sound sure oversimplifying, because moving to another country is always difficult, the more if a girl is dependent on her BF/hb there. Anyway, I am glad you liked it more in Czech.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2020 2:56 am

by netzerkaiser

dap-addict wrote:
netzerkaiser wrote:The last time I was in love was 14 years ago, with the most beautiful Russian girl - & she loved me, but her 'social circle' were all ex-USSR, & the drinking parties etc were all based on dominance & subjugation. (...) I gave her ultimatum, come with me or stay with them. She hadn't strength at that time to pull herself away from that whole vodka party club, so I gave her up & my job, & went to Czech Rep for many months to clear my head. Never looked back.

Sounds traumatic!
This said, story sound sure oversimplifying, because moving to another country is always difficult, the more if a girl is dependent on her BF/hb there. Anyway, I am glad you liked it more in Czech.

Wasn't oversimplifying - thanks for compliment. Sometimes you have to take extreme measures for sake of sanity. It worked for me. She moved on too & has good husband & children, so winners all around.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2020 3:59 am

by bake0213

Getting back to the original posts, not every women prefers a large dick. I am above average in size, and have had sex with 15 women. I would say that slightly more than half preferred a larger cock with the rest preferring either average, small, or were totally indifferent. Even most of the women who have said they like a big dick, many could not take the hard pounding that most porn actresses appear to enjoy.

So do not get discouraged, there is someone out there for everyone, and I believe your day will come.

Re: Uncomfortable but real topic

Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2020 9:16 am

by dap-addict

+1
For above. Important. Can only say same from RL experience. And also as stated above from porn girls I talked with as well.

netzerkaiser wrote:Wasn't oversimplifying - thanks for compliment. Sometimes you have to take extreme measures for sake of sanity. It worked for me. She moved on too & has good husband & children, so winners all around.

Good to hear it worked out for your than love as well.
It shows that all needs time often and it comes well in the end. But of course it doenst happen just so, but ppl have to work on it. Same with the LP fave I mentioned and Nik. It took her 3-4 years to free herself I think. Not sure she's hoarily with sb new meanwhile, didnt fellow up here. But for sure being alone is already much better for her!