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I don't think I would have had as much anal sex in my private life and definitely no ass licking if I hadn't been inspired by porn. I am married so it is easy to propose new things. What about you, do you propose anal on a first date? Have you done a DP in private? Or is porn just your fantasy never to be realised?

Yes definitely I’m pretty obsessed with anal. It’s at a point where it’s destroyed my life As I’ve pressured every girl in to doing it, gaped all of them, even The last girl I’ve been seeing refused to and now i’m not interested.

Yes, thanks to porn, my wife and I have added a lot of new things in our sex life.

Anal is regular part of our sex action, as well as ass licking and ass-to-mouth. I also enjoy when she is playing with my ass, too.
Pissing is also one of the sex games that we practice pretty often. Both of us love to give and receive each others piss, especially in mouth, including drinking. Not so often, but we are also playing with piss enemas or milk enemas.

Yes.

I dont have any :/

plajvaz wrote:Yes, thanks to porn, my wife and I have added a lot of new things in our sex life.

Anal is regular part of our sex action, as well as ass licking and ass-to-mouth. I also enjoy when she is playing with my ass, too.
Pissing is also one of the sex games that we practice pretty often. Both of us love to give and receive each others piss, especially in mouth, including drinking. Not so often, but we are also playing with piss enemas or milk enemas.

Nice!
I am pushing the pissing gradually. Last week we were doing standing anal doggy in the shower and I had her to piss at the same time. It was a great feeling pumping her ass while she was sending a stream of piss on the floor. I actually think the smell is arousing.

Jocke wrote:I don't think I would have had as much anal sex in my private life and definitely no ass licking if I hadn't been inspired by porn. I am married so it is easy to propose new things. What about you, do you propose anal on a first date? Have you done a DP in private? Or is porn just your fantasy never to be realised?

I don't think it's possible to isolate your sex-life from the rest of your life. Because people are indivisible, whole beings. When you have an affected part of your life, then it affects your whole being.

I think porn is a kind of sexual freedom culture in a sexually repressive society. So, you can find out a lot about just how sexually repressed your new girlfriend is by talking about porn and perhaps showing her some of the porn you watch. When the lady is negative about porn and has something uncomplimentary to say about porn-stars, then this is like a red flag for me. Because this means that she probably won't be good in bed, and she might reject any new sexual things you might want to try with her. Your sexual life with her will probably be so unsatisfying, that you will either break up or cheat in the end.

Porn-stars and porn-studs are like sexual athletes. They often prepare and train for what they do. So, they can do it much more and much better, than amateurs. It's true that some female porn-stars are quite young and inexperienced. But these young ladies take on very experienced porn-studs, who know what they are doing with their big dicks between the lady's ass-cheeks.

So, I don't expect to have porn-like sex in real life, unless the lady is experienced with many guys, the way many female porn-stars are. Somebody needs to be experienced and good, for porn-like sex to happen. It has to be either the guy, or the lady, or both.

But it's possible even for amateurs to become good at various sex-acts and techniques, when they are willing to experiment and try it long enough to become good at it. And that's where porn can be educational. It shows you what's possible, even though you probably won't be good at it at first.

Yes - I now only date girls who can do rectal prolapse, gape farts, double anal, lesbian shows, piss drinking, and shoot whipped cream out of their buttholes. Which is probably why I am single.

Porn showed me that there was more to sex than the standard things. I suppose it perverted me because I wanted to experience many of the things I saw before I "settled down". I was a good looking guy and in very good shape so from age 20-30ish I dated and had sex with lots of women. I had many great experiences in my promiscuous years but unfortunately most the women I had sex with were terrible at it and only a small handful were interested in exploring sex. It baffled me how few of the women I dated were interested in even the most vanilla of things like vibrator use or dildos. Sexual exploration / experimentation seemed "off limits" to the majority of the uptight prudes I met.
I quickly learned that the younger the girl was the more willing she was to try things so I gravitated to them. The older I got the women around my age didn't interest me in the slightest as they were "set in their ways" prudes with so much annoying baggage and it was growing more difficult to meet and have sex with teen to 20-somethings so I eventually gave up and I have been single a long time now.

davebowman wrote:Yes - I now only date girls who can do rectal prolapse, gape farts, double anal, lesbian shows, piss drinking, and shoot whipped cream out of their buttholes. Which is probably why I am single.

ultimo wrote:Porn showed me that there was more to sex than the standard things. I suppose it perverted me because I wanted to experience many of the things I saw before I "settled down". I was a good looking guy and in very good shape so from age 20-30ish I dated and had sex with lots of women. I had many great experiences in my promiscuous years but unfortunately most the women I had sex with were terrible at it and only a small handful were interested in exploring sex. It baffled me how few of the women I dated were interested in even the most vanilla of things like vibrator use or dildos. Sexual exploration / experimentation seemed "off limits" to the majority of the uptight prudes I met.
I quickly learned that the younger the girl was the more willing she was to try things so I gravitated to them. The older I got the women around my age didn't interest me in the slightest as they were "set in their ways" prudes with so much annoying baggage and it was growing more difficult to meet and have sex with teen to 20-somethings so I eventually gave up and I have been single a long time now.

I don't doubt your experience, but I think you just haven't met the right kind of older women.

Because if you look at porn-stars who have staid in the porn-business for a long time, then you can find many ladies who didn't spread their cheeks for anal dicks in their younger years, but now they do and enjoy it too. Some examples of such ladies are: Angela White, Cherie DeVille, and Riley Reid among others.

It's not the lady's age that makes the difference. It's her sexual practice and experience, or lack of it.

So, when an older woman has been fucking around with guys for a long time, then she is bound to be better at it, than younger and less experienced ladies. But if the lady has been a prude in her younger years, and she hasn't had much of a sex-life for long periods of time in between her relationships, then she will probably get worse over time, rather than better.

Sexual ability is a use it or lose it kind of thing for both women and guys. If you don't practice it much, then you lose this ability. But if you practice it a lot and regularly too, then you become better at it. And it's not just about having sex with partners. Watching porn and masturbating regularly is the equivalent of physical exercise to stay in shape an be able to perform well at a moment's notice. It's just that watching porn and masturbating keeps you in shape for having sex and being reasonably good at it too. This is one of the benefits of porn. It prevents you from losing your sexual ability, when for one reason or another you can't find a partner to have sex with.

I've met some older ladies in Thailand, who were a lot better at it with guys, than most younger ladies. Because these older ladies did it a lot with guys and learned from their experience too. These Thai ladies had as much experience and maybe even more than Cherie DeVille and Riley Reid. And some of them were just as good-looking too.

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I'm going against the grain here - No porn has not changed my sex life.

I have great, regular intimate sex and it is nothing like porn on this site

Porn is porn! CoD is nothing like warfare. Fighting in Hollywood movies is not like fighting in real life.

But I still love LP/AV

davebowman wrote:Yes - I now only date girls who can do rectal prolapse, gape farts, double anal, lesbian shows, piss drinking, and shoot whipped cream out of their buttholes. Which is probably why I am single.

HILARIOUS !

Its a great question. TBH, I'm not sure if I even watch much porn, I spend more time cataloguing models by era & nationality etc. And I guess I've done that since about 2008. But before that I idealized beautiful women I met, which put them off me, I put them on a pedastal & fell in love about 11 times in hopeless situations, causing me great trauma, often weight loss, a hopeless romantic. I was not bad looking guy, with charisma & threw away countless real opportunities. I hope that doesn't appear arrogant. With passing of time you can only be honest.

Since pornography & internet which came to me around 2008, I've never had this problem. Yeah its a time thief, but its led me to see all beautiful women the same way... that they're real human beings just like me, with warts & all. Theres none of the pain of unrequited love for angels who know no moral blemish. You could call it dodging the issue of living, but my life is so much more peaceful now.

So has porn changed your sex life?

netzerkaiser wrote:Its a great question. TBH, I'm not sure if I even watch much porn, I spend more time cataloguing models by era & nationality etc. And I guess I've done that since about 2008. But before that I idealized beautiful women I met, which put them off me, I put them on a pedastal & fell in love about 11 times in hopeless situations, causing me great trauma, often weight loss, a hopeless romantic. I was not bad looking guy, with charisma & threw away countless real opportunities. I hope that doesn't appear arrogant. With passing of time you can only be honest.

Since pornography & internet which came to me around 2008, I've never had this problem. Yeah its a time thief, but its led me to see all beautiful women the same way... that they're real human beings just like me, with warts & all. Theres none of the pain of unrequited love for angels who know no moral blemish. You could call it dodging the issue of living, but my life is so much more peaceful now.

greenfunk727 wrote:So has porn changed your sex life?

netzerkaiser wrote:Its a great question. TBH, I'm not sure if I even watch much porn, I spend more time cataloguing models by era & nationality etc. And I guess I've done that since about 2008. But before that I idealized beautiful women I met, which put them off me, I put them on a pedastal & fell in love about 11 times in hopeless situations, causing me great trauma, often weight loss, a hopeless romantic. I was not bad looking guy, with charisma & threw away countless real opportunities. I hope that doesn't appear arrogant. With passing of time you can only be honest.

Since pornography & internet which came to me around 2008, I've never had this problem. Yeah its a time thief, but its led me to see all beautiful women the same way... that they're real human beings just like me, with warts & all. Theres none of the pain of unrequited love for angels who know no moral blemish. You could call it dodging the issue of living, but my life is so much more peaceful now.

To answer you in a different way, its changed my love life. Sex is just an act, a bodily need. It was Diogenes who said relating to the sexual act, ""I wish it were as easy to banish hunger by rubbing my belly." Love is different, it can tear you apart & make keeping your dignity your sole baseline in defeat.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6f593X6rv8

I guess yes. I used to be very active in my sex life. Now, I am not but I am much more active with my right hand and with porn!

I think both your answers over complicate a simple question.

Has porn made you fuck differently?

netzerkaiser wrote:

greenfunk727 wrote:So has porn changed your sex life?

netzerkaiser wrote:Its a great question. TBH, I'm not sure if I even watch much porn, I spend more time cataloguing models by era & nationality etc. And I guess I've done that since about 2008. But before that I idealized beautiful women I met, which put them off me, I put them on a pedastal & fell in love about 11 times in hopeless situations, causing me great trauma, often weight loss, a hopeless romantic. I was not bad looking guy, with charisma & threw away countless real opportunities. I hope that doesn't appear arrogant. With passing of time you can only be honest.

Since pornography & internet which came to me around 2008, I've never had this problem. Yeah its a time thief, but its led me to see all beautiful women the same way... that they're real human beings just like me, with warts & all. Theres none of the pain of unrequited love for angels who know no moral blemish. You could call it dodging the issue of living, but my life is so much more peaceful now.

To answer you in a different way, its changed my love life. Sex is just an act, a bodily need. It was Diogenes who said relating to the sexual act, ""I wish it were as easy to banish hunger by rubbing my belly." Love is different, it can tear you apart & make keeping your dignity your sole baseline in defeat.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6f593X6rv8

[quote="greenfunk727"]I think both your answers over complicate a simple question.

Has porn made you fuck differently?

Its certainly opened up the back door.

Nevermind

greenfunk727 wrote:I think both your answers over complicate a simple question.

Has porn made you fuck differently?

netzerkaiser wrote:

greenfunk727 wrote:So has porn changed your sex life?


To answer you in a different way, its changed my love life. Sex is just an act, a bodily need. It was Diogenes who said relating to the sexual act, ""I wish it were as easy to banish hunger by rubbing my belly." Love is different, it can tear you apart & make keeping your dignity your sole baseline in defeat.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6f593X6rv8

[quote="greenfunk727"]Nevermind

[quote="greenfunk727"]I think both your answers over complicate a simple question.

Has porn made you fuck differently?



[quote="netzerkaiser"][quote="greenfunk727"]So has porn changed your sex life?

ACK

It probably has. There are things I probably would had never tried without porn, like going on another foreign country I have never been before just to find good looking women, fucking over 30 different women within a couple months, things like that.

7 years ago I had a girlfriend that liked threesomes with other girls because she was bi. I probably wouldn't have been open to that if it wasn't for porn. I went to a Catholic school, a very strict one, so things like that were out of the question, but by the time I had the opportunity to experience those things I was open to do them.

Another big one is that I would never have been a photographer without porn. From an early age I was influenced by Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issues, but those are not fully nude, and my work is all about female nudity, I believe porn definitely had an influence on that, in finding those models to experience them wide open in front of me.

[quote="netzerkaiser"][quote="greenfunk727"]Nevermind

[quote="greenfunk727"]I think both your answers over complicate a simple question.

It is what it is. You can't be pressurised into giving an answer to a question you never asked. You can only give your own genuine perspective or interpretation. With no ill-will at all, I think thats to be respected.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6f593X ... kE&index=3

My goodness, she was beautiful, Annie Lennox, though my 13 year old self didn't appreciate it at the time. I would've been more attracted to the minor key melody & its resonances in my own troubled heart.

I tried to do a DP in real life and it was a bit of a weird feeling. You can really feel the other guy which is pretty awkward. I would've lost my wood if I wasn't on the pill, I couldn't imagine doing it in the same hole.

FitFilthyPervert wrote:I tried to do a DP in real life and it was a bit of a weird feeling. You can really feel the other guy which is pretty awkward. I would've lost my wood if I wasn't on the pill, I couldn't imagine doing it in the same hole.

I think the trick is not to focus on your dick. You need to focus on the chick in terms of debauching her well, well enough to impress her.

The turn-on of a porn-scene is in the lady getting debauched well. Because the camera and your attention is focused on the lady, rather than on the guys. And the guys aren't there to relax and enjoy themselves. They are there to debauch the lady well, well enough to impress the lady and the viewer.

And that's how it works in courtship too. The lady is supposed to look sexy and nice. And it's the guys who try to impress her and those around her with their prowess and ability.

Porn replicates this natural human behavior. And that's why it works in terms of hotness. The guys don't just relax and enjoy. They try to debauch the lady as much and as well as they can. Which is equivalent to them displaying their sexual prowess to impress the lady and the viewers.

And that's what you need to do in real life too. Instead of thinking about yourself and how you feel during the drill, you need to focus on the lady and on debauching her well, well enough to impress her. You team up with another guy to impress her and debauch her well, rather than just relax and enjoy.

Your attention should be focused on her, rather than on yourself or the other guy. Which is similar to the camera in a porn-scene. The camera in the porn-scene is focused on the lady and not on the guys.

In real life, your attention is the camera. And it should be focused on the lady, just like in a porn-scene. Or else it wouldn't work in real life, just like it wouldn't work in a porn movie.

Sex life...what sex life?

xxxVIPERxxx wrote:Sex life...what sex life?

Perhaps lack of a sex-life is the change caused by consumption of porn. Without porn, you would've had some kind of a sex-life. Your consumption of porn eliminates the need for it.

But watching porn is a kind of sex-life too. It's an imaginary kind of sex-life, where porn-stars are your imaginary sex-partners. It's like having an imaginary friend or two or more, in an adult kind of sense.

Yes definitely. I am very happily married to my left hand. Even more so when I see the unhappy lives my friends have with WAGS.

jerrybb wrote:Yes definitely. I am very happily married to my left hand. Even more so when I see the unhappy lives my friends have with WAGS.

In true happiness, people are happy in an absolute sense. They don't need to compare themselves to anybody else to know whether they are happy or not.

When you need to compare yourself to others, then this is a competition about who is more unhappy they or you. Neither one is truly happy. It's just a question of who is more unhappy.

Perhaps conventional marriage doesn't work well for many people. But this doesn't make masturbation better than sex with someone you like. Because marriage or long-term relationships isn't the only way to have sex. You can have sex outside of marriage and outside of long-term relationships. And the way people do it in porn is one example of this. Porn-stars and porn-studs aren't usually married to each other or involved in a long-term relationship with each other.

Not everybody can be a porn-stud or a porn-slut. But everybody can do more or less the same, without the camera and without the audience.