Wife gangbang

I've always had a fantasy to gangbang my wife with 10 guys, 11 including me. But I'm sure it would have a negative effect on our marriage. When it comes down to it, would you actually let your wife get gangbanged? I'm too afraid of the consequences so we just use a lot of different dildos and bad dragon cum lube instead. It's not the same but its messy and fun. What are your thoughts.