laura. wrote:analsexonly wrote:I agree, so long as one isn't in an exclusive relationship and breaking a pledge they made to someone, I see no reason why anyone should look down on a woman for how many men she sleeps with, even when getting very high up there in numbers. We shouldn't shame anyone for loving sex.
Exactly!
They shouldn't, but men are well known for being idiots.
If a guy puts it about, he thinks he's a stud and deserves respect. But if a girl puts it about, some think she's cheap and "easy" and deserves to be disperspected and mistreated.
So I think more important than "how many" for a girl, is how good a judge of men is she, for her own safety and self preservation.