Making porn scenes more memorable

[101mike101]

If you watch a scene and soon forget about it, then you probably won't rate it highly. The best scenes are those that you recall with pleasure and remember for a long time in a good way.

Because it's not much of an experience if you soon forget about it. The best experiences are those that you remember for a long time and repeatedly enjoy them by recalling them with pleasure.

Recent research has found the people's memories of their experiences naturally fade over time in a specific kind of way. People forget the visual and the miscellaneous details. But they remember the meaning of what happened. After a while, people only remember the meaning and not much else.

https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2021-05/uob-mdf052521.php

This means that a porn-scene which doesn't have much meaningful interaction is very forgettable over time. This scene might be hot to watch for the time that you are watching it. But you won't remember it much afterwards. And you won't rate it highly, when you look for another scene the next day or the next week. You'll be looking for something else and not a similar kind of scene.

So, how exactly can you add meaning to porn-action and make it memorable for a long time?

I think one way to do it is to provide some specific reason and motivation for why the cocky guy does it this way or that way with his lady.

You should be able to ask the question why the guy did this or that? And have an obvious answer that's specific for the scene and not just a general answer, such as "Because the lady is hot". If the answer is the same for every scene, then all of these scenes get mixed up in your memory and you don't remember much any of them.

A good example of a very memorable scene for me is from a 1980s film. It was an anal scene for a lady with a hot butt. She did it in doggy with the guy. He banged her nice ass long enough and hard enough to pull out and cum on her sexy bum. And as he was beating his cum-coated cock on her ass-cheeks, a female voice said loudly "Put it in!". It was a close-up shot, and it wasn't obvious who said it. But from the viewer's point of view, it looked like the anal lady was the one who said it. The cocky guy hesitated, as if he didn't know what to do. But the female voice once again said firmly, "Put it in!". And the guy at his point aimed his cock at the lady's semi-gaping asshole and plunged in his pole. And he didn't stop half-way. He kept going until he was all the way to his balls inside her nice ass. And the lady's response was a loud and long "Aaahhhhh!". Which expressed some some surprise, strain, and pleasure. The guy didn't exactly put it in. He plunged it in, perhaps in a way the lady didn't quite expect.

This interaction wasn't a story-line or even some kind of difficult acting. The lady's voice might've been added after the scene was made. Because you couldn't actually see her say it. It was a close-up shot, where you could only see the lady's ass, her pussy, and the guy's cock.

The guy and the lady had some sexual communication that led to her penetration. And that's what made the scene so meaningful and memorable.

I've remembered this scene for decades. And I enjoy recalling it every time. I think more scenes like this should be made. Because there is no comparison in the amount of enjoyment you get between a scene that you watch and forget and a scene that you remember for a long time and enjoy recalling it every time.

And it's not difficult to make scenes like this. Because you don't need to show the lady actually saying it. Some other lady can potentially say it and have her voice added to the film afterwards. But it will look to the viewer as if the lady in the scene said it, and the guy responded accordingly.

Verbal sex communication between the lady and the guys during their sex-action is what you need to make the scene more meaningful and more memorable. Because the thing that people remember, after they forget the details, is called 'semantic meaning'. And semantic meaning is expressed and remembered through language.

The lady and the guys need to verbalize their sex-action, while they are doing it in a corresponding kind of way, to make it memorable for the viewer.

[bustylady]

What did you do on 07/02/2020..? You think you remember everything, but you don't even remember your past actually...

And to make one particular porn video memorable... Show it your mom/dad/sister... You will never forget that video...

[101mike101]

What did you do on 07/02/2020..? You think you remember everything, but you don't even remember your past actually...

And to make one particular porn video memorable... Show it your mom/dad/sister... You will never forget that video...

The exact date is a superfluous detail that people naturally forget. Semantic meaning that people usually remember about their experience involves who said what and why and how they interacted with each other as a result of that.

It's the same thing with remembering a porn scene. I have no idea the exact year and the date when I've seen my memorable porn scene. But I remember vividly what the people said and how they reacted and interacted with each other as a result.

It's not a storyline in the conventional sense. But you can recall it like a story and tell it to someone else, the way I did in my previous post above. That's what semantic meaning is, and thats what makes a porn scene memorable.

And of course, semantic meaning can be either pleasant or unpleasant to recall. So, you if you want to enjoy a porn-scene and your memory of it for a long time, then you need to make it memorable in a pleasant and a sexual way. Or else, recalling it will make you cringe, rather than enjoy.

The point of porn is to enjoy it. And that's why you need to make porn scenes memorable in a good way, rather than in some unpleasant and a bad way.

[Caveman39]

If you watch a scene and soon forget about it, then you probably won't rate it highly. The best scenes are those that you recall with pleasure and remember for a long time in a good way.

Because it's not much of an experience if you soon forget about it. The best experiences are those that you remember for a long time and repeatedly enjoy them by recalling them with pleasure.

Recent research has found the people's memories of their experiences naturally fade over time in a specific kind of way. People forget the visual and the miscellaneous details. But they remember the meaning of what happened. After a while, people only remember the meaning and not much else.

https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2021-05/uob-mdf052521.php

This means that a porn-scene which doesn't have much meaningful interaction is very forgettable over time. This scene might be hot to watch for the time that you are watching it. But you won't remember it much afterwards. And you won't rate it highly, when you look for another scene the next day or the next week. You'll be looking for something else and not a similar kind of scene.

So, how exactly can you add meaning to porn-action and make it memorable for a long time?

I think one way to do it is to provide some specific reason and motivation for why the cocky guy does it this way or that way with his lady.

You should be able to ask the question why the guy did this or that? And have an obvious answer that's specific for the scene and not just a general answer, such as "Because the lady is hot". If the answer is the same for every scene, then all of these scenes get mixed up in your memory and you don't remember much any of them.

A good example of a very memorable scene for me is from a 1980s film. It was an anal scene for a lady with a hot butt. She did it in doggy with the guy. He banged her nice ass long enough and hard enough to pull out and cum on her sexy bum. And as he was beating his cum-coated cock on her ass-cheeks, a female voice said loudly "Put it in!". It was a close-up shot, and it wasn't obvious who said it. But from the viewer's point of view, it looked like the anal lady was the one who said it. The cocky guy hesitated, as if he didn't know what to do. But the female voice once again said firmly, "Put it in!". And the guy at his point aimed his cock at the lady's semi-gaping asshole and plunged in his pole. And he didn't stop half-way. He kept going until he was all the way to his balls inside her nice ass. And the lady's response was a loud and long "Aaahhhhh!". Which expressed some some surprise, strain, and pleasure. The guy didn't exactly put it in. He plunged it in, perhaps in a way the lady didn't quite expect.

This interaction wasn't a story-line or even some kind of difficult acting. The lady's voice might've been added after the scene was made. Because you couldn't actually see her say it. It was a close-up shot, where you could only see the lady's ass, her pussy, and the guy's cock.

The guy and the lady had some sexual communication that led to her penetration. And that's what made the scene so meaningful and memorable.

I've remembered this scene for decades. And I enjoy recalling it every time. I think more scenes like this should be made. Because there is no comparison in the amount of enjoyment you get between a scene that you watch and forget and a scene that you remember for a long time and enjoy recalling it every time.

And it's not difficult to make scenes like this. Because you don't need to show the lady actually saying it. Some other lady can potentially say it and have her voice added to the film afterwards. But it will look to the viewer as if the lady in the scene said it, and the guy responded accordingly.

Verbal sex communication between the lady and the guys during their sex-action is what you need to make the scene more meaningful and more memorable. Because the thing that people remember, after they forget the details, is called 'semantic meaning'. And semantic meaning is expressed and remembered through language.

The lady and the guys need to verbalize their sex-action, while they are doing it in a corresponding kind of way, to make it memorable for the viewer.

You're overthinking. My two cents to your essay.
-When you're younger you tend to have better memory and recall things more vividly, especially when in this case, porn was still relatively new for you and you weren't overexposed and desensitized to it compared to the following decades.
-People recall different things. Remember the Indians who share stories around a camp fire? Or how in kindergarten you are sitting in a circle and the kids whisper the story in each other's ear? The original story has nothing to do with the story that the last person tells.
You remember what excites you. People are exited by different things. Some people like you like words or certain sentences and remember that (like you), others wouldn't care less and remember nothing about what was being said.

-Story line porn is probably the only objective thing directors can do that make people generally remember porno especially when it includes certain elements/fetishes/kinks/words/quotes/sentences etc that they find noteworthy and worth remembering. You remember what has a subjective impact on you. That's often the problem with LP. Nobody really will remember the 100th scene and beyond. Allmost have/had the four white walls LP is known for. I mean, if you've seen Veronica Leal's 10th scene or 25th or 75th or 101th scene, it doesn't do anything for those who don't care about latinas, ugly hair, non-dap, adhd etc.

In my book (aside from mother daughter scenes and anual Christmas scenes) story line porn (shot inside or preferably outside) in combination with LP manhandle style is the road to make scenes memorable.

Some examples which I think are memorable:
Grandi's 3 part Clockwork orange series with Belle Clair
https://www.analvids.com/watch/31726/a_ ... mad_gio256

Mary Jane and the girls as sheeplet:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/214724/e ... se_gio1702

Fuck, this ain't normal christmas #1 with Giada as the Grinch:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/214495/f ... ie_gio1671

Happy New Year's - First DAP (Double Anal, 0% pussy) with Baby Bamby in traditional Russian garments:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/214580/h ... mby_nrx062

And the recent Yummy scenes:
viewtopic.php?f=146&t=31753

Cris Bathory as psychiatric patient:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/216120/c ... tory_ye083

Yummy orgy with girls as cats:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/216467/y ... 4_dp_ye091

Halloween orgy by and with Natash Teen models:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/61665/ha ... _dp_sz2312

Etc.

To have some intros shot outside makes scenes stand out too.

For example:
https://www.analvids.com/watch/30389/sa ... cial_gl003

https://www.analvids.com/watch/29895/bl ... eep_gio040

Or other scenes where Grandi interacts. I think it could be a hit when he would start shooting porn and then gives the camera to anther director/camera man and starts fucking the girls himself as an actor. I think he should pick up fucking models again. But maybe wifey at home doesn't allow it

It's also worth to mention that the girls like themed porn/cosplay more too as it involves more than being used as fuck meat.

[brian6902]

This is such an elaborate way to say you like porn with talking.

[101mike101]

This is such an elaborate way to say you like porn with talking.

I think you are missing the point of what I've said above. It's not possible to like something that you don't remember.

So, remembering a porn-scene is a basic requirement for having any feelings about it, after you stop watching it. And when you remember a good porn-scene for a long time, then most of your enjoyment comes from your recollection of it. Because you recall and enjoy a porn-scene many more times and a lot longer, than the time you spend watching the scene.

People usually look for the kind of porn they've enjoyed in the past and still remember it well. So, it's not only about the past, but also about the present and the future.

This research article, that I've posted a link for above, suggests that people use language to remember and to recall their experiences. And that's why having some sex-communication before, during, and after penetration makes a porn scene a lot more memorable than a scene where people don't say anything at all.

Language is what people use to store and to recall their experiences, even when these experiences are mostly non-verbal. Because it's a kind of filing system that allows you to find specific memories among thousands and even millions of other memories. Without such a filing system, your memories would be useless. Because you won't find them, when you need them.