Girl in the local supermarket

[netzerkaiser]

Any of you guys fantasy about girls who work in supermarket?.

Right. Shes there every day. Shes living at home with parents, shes a bit reserved with everyone, & shes 30 odd. She's got this FANTASTIC ass. Shes single. On the street she's jeans, which show her magestic ass - in work unform you don't see this at all. This is where porn inhibits because I just think that ass deserves porn star dick size. What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action - actually if she told you to fuck off then you might well have trouble with late night shopping again! I get nothing, she lives road to unfulfilled spinster. Kinda sad really?

I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

[ExtremePornFan]

I'm kinda goin' on here from the Wotan / DAPAddict contribution to the pauleyshore thread.

Right. Shes there every day. Shes living at home with parents in working class estate & I think has esteem problems relating to it. Shes 30 odd. She's got this FANTASTIC ass. Shes single. The ass is so fantastic I, because partially of porn, feels she deserves much more than regular joe i can give her. What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action - actually if she told you to fuck off then you might well have trouble with late night shopping again!

Just a thought from lad who's never lacked balls in that department.

My fantasy is, I get her home, & theres this fantastic ass, "I'm in love" with this ass.. I've seen it walk down street usually with her plain simple little mother to go shopping in cheaper shops than she works. On the street she's jeans, which show her magestic ass - in work unform you don't see this at all.

I can, I'm only 5"7" can give her 6"which is I guess cool, but porno dictates to me she deserves 9" Kid Jamaica so I do nothing.

I get nothing, she lives road to unfulfilled spinster. Kinda sad really?

I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

I think you should go for it. If she is into it great, if not you tried. If it goes horrible find a new place to shop. I was on a rampage for years in my 20's I would hit on any even 1/2 decent looking woman. I am sure I got shot down 1000 times but I can hardly remember. But the conquests, I remember many vividly. Men are way more hung up on penis size than women. I am sure you have seen some woman with EEE tits in porn, do you still want to fuck a pretty girl with an A B or C cup? I bet she is at home right now thinking "I wish he would take me out, I hope his cock is not too huge so I can take it in my perfect ass."

[netzerkaiser]

I think you should go for it. If she is into it great, if not you tried. If it goes horrible find a new place to shop. I was on a rampage for years in my 20's I would hit on any even 1/2 decent looking woman. I am sure I got shot down 1000 times but I can hardly remember. But the conquests, I remember many vividly. Men are way more hung up on penis size than women. I am sure you have seen some woman with EEE tits in porn, do you still want to fuck a pretty girl with an A B or C cup? I bet she is at home right now thinking "I wish he would take me out, I hope his cock is not too huge so I can take it in my perfect ass."[/quote]

Thanks for encouragement! You're probably right!

[Starrio]

I met a penthouse model at a supermarket once, we end up dating for many months, I end having threesomes with her and her friends who were also models like her, some were in hustler and some on the playboy's website, I even took her on a cruise, and I'm not rich or anything, so yeah, you are always one step away to living your wildest dreams. This was like 7 years ago, and I got in a lot of credit card debt after that, but it was worth it every penny.

[netzerkaiser]

I met a penthouse model at a supermarket once, we end up dating for many months, I end having threesomes with her and her friends who were also models like her, some were in hustler and some on the playboy's website, I even took her on a cruise, and I'm not rich or anything, so yeah, you are always one step away to living your wildest dreams. This was like 7 years ago, and I got in a lot of credit card debt after that, but it was worth it every penny.

Thank you for encouragement too.

[Starrio]

She was a shopper though. So I would advise that spontaneity is always the right action. Planning goes against everything that makes anything exciting.

[netzerkaiser]

I think you should go for it. If she is into it great, if not you tried. If it goes horrible find a new place to shop. I was on a rampage for years in my 20's I would hit on any even 1/2 decent looking woman. I am sure I got shot down 1000 times but I can hardly remember. But the conquests, I remember many vividly. Men are way more hung up on penis size than women. I am sure you have seen some woman with EEE tits in porn, do you still want to fuck a pretty girl with an A B or C cup? I bet she is at home right now thinking "I wish he would take me out, I hope his cock is not too huge so I can take it in my perfect ass."[/quote]

I think you & I are kind of alike... the adrenalin rush was always the thing, like we craved the danger. The result didn't matter (unless you'd developed feelings already, in which case you were fu*ked)

[netzerkaiser]

She was a shopper though. So I would advise that spontaneity is always the right action. Planning goes against everything that makes anything exciting.

Ah, a shopper is different from someone you've said hello to daily for over 10 years! Stake much higher in my situation!

[netzerkaiser]

I met a penthouse model at a supermarket once, we end up dating for many months, I end having threesomes with her and her friends who were also models like her, some were in hustler and some on the playboy's website, I even took her on a cruise, and I'm not rich or anything, so yeah, you are always one step away to living your wildest dreams. This was like 7 years ago, and I got in a lot of credit card debt after that, but it was worth it every penny.

Cool story, you must be total Alpha male - good luck to you, you sound like a decent fellow.

[ExtremePornFan]

I think you & I are kind of alike... the adrenalin rush was always the thing, like we craved the danger. The result didn't matter (unless you'd developed feelings already, in which case you were fu*ked)

No doubt it's a rush. A cold pick up on a perfect 10 even if you lose you win. I think I might have to go on a mission

[netzerkaiser]

I think you & I are kind of alike... the adrenalin rush was always the thing, like we craved the danger. The result didn't matter (unless you'd developed feelings already, in which case you were fu*ked)

No doubt it's a rush. A cold pick up on a perfect 10 even if you lose you win. I think I might have to go on a mission

LOL! Yeah its like we were born to be Spitfire or Messerschmitt pilots, though the years surely catch up with us! Good luck on your run Brother!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eBIa0o36pPo

If you like to gamble, I tell you I'm your man
You win some, lose some, all the same to me
The pleasure is to play, makes no difference what you say
I don't share your greed, the only card I need is the Ace of Spades
The Ace of Spades
Playing for the high one, dancing with the devil
Going with the flow, it's all a game to me
Seven or eleven, snake eyes watching you
Double up or quit, double stake or split, the Ace of Spades
The Ace of Spades
You know I'm born to lose, and gambling's for fools
But that's the way I like it baby
I don't wanna live for ever
And don't forget the joker!
Pushing up the ante, I know you gotta see me
Read 'em and weep, the dead man's hand again
I see it in your eyes, take one look and die
The only thing you see, you know it's gonna be the Ace of Spades
The Ace of Spades

[Starrio]

Cool story, you must be total Alpha male - good luck to you, you sound like a decent fellow.

I honestly don't think Alpha or Beta matter that much, you need to have courage to go ahead with doing crazy shit, but you can still be undemanding, and just going with the flow, as opposed of trying to control anything.

Trying to control anything is a vibe killer. Many of these ideas you hear in bars that you need to be a certain way are often complete backwards. If anything I feel those girls were alpha themselves and I was just taken for the ride.

It has been 7 years and I haven't been able to replicate that kind of relationship, not once.

[netzerkaiser]

Cool story, you must be total Alpha male - good luck to you, you sound like a decent fellow.

I honestly don't think Alpha or Beta matter that much, you need to have courage to go ahead with doing crazy shit, but you can still be undemanding, and just going with the flow, as opposed of trying to control anything.

Trying to control anything is a vibe killer. Many of these ideas you hear in bars that you need to be a certain way are often complete backwards. If anything I feel those girls were alpha themselves and I was just taken for the ride.

It has been 7 years and I haven't been able to replicate that kind of relationship, not once.

Cool & honest. But the Alpha or Beta thing I interpret differently. Many, maybe most of us are neither. It depends on the woman,& thats the way it should be. To some I'd be Alpha, to some I' be Beta, but I'd like to think most of the time, 95% of the time its there in the middle. Some guys are Betas sadly, see below:
Eugene the librarian: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmd5GervHco

& of course some guys just have it all, Alpa all over, you can't help but like them!
Matt Dillon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkzaOwAmDmA

[netzerkaiser]

All the badness, the fights people have on here etc, I rang my mam this morning, she's 89.. I told her the snowdrops were coming up, she reminded / informed me they weren't wild but planted by my dear dad... maybe sometimes we gotta stop & say Thank God for all we have..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6-P3pFhmQI

[Starrio]

Cool & honest. But the Alpha or Beta thing I interpret differently. Many, maybe most of us are neither. It depends on the woman,& thats the way it should be. To some I'd be Alpha, to some I' be Beta, but I'd like to think most of the time, 95% of the time its there in the middle. Some guys are Betas sadly, see below:
Eugene the librarian: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmd5GervHco

& of course some guys just have it all, Alpa all over, you can't help but like them!
Matt Dillon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkzaOwAmDmA

I still don't think Alpha or Beta matters. Girls choose beta guys all the time.

Obviously you can't count guys in the spectrum, like that guy you showed is clearly in the spectrum.

I also don't think there is a particular personality that is better than another. As long as it is a healthy personality, and the guy doesn't pussy out, it's all good.

It's like looks for women. We all want to fuck the shit out of Kristy Black, Mina, Anna De Ville, Veronica Leal, Cindy Shine, Florane Russell, Emily Pink, Lady Dee, Sara Bell, Nicole Black, Kira Thorn, Natasha Teen, Timea Bella, Kate Rich, Lady Dee, Paola Hard, Cherry Kiss, Lina Arian, Helena Moeller, the Dellai twins, etc..

None of those women look remotely the same, they are all different, but they are still very attractive. Well, the same is with guys, girls like all kinds of guys.

If the guy has a healthy personality, and doesn't pussy out it is usually fine.

I do think that there are things that definitely play on your advantage like not caring what she thinks, and always putting yourself first, that obviously will give you the edge, but that can apply to all kinds of guys, and personalities.

Like some guys are always trying to say the right thing because they want to be liked, or they never have a direction of what they want to do because they think what she wants is more important, then yeah, that can definitely play against you, big time.

But other than that, most guys always have the right of way as long as they don't pussy out.

You see this when guys ask a girl out, usually they are so afraid to fuck up things that they go in already admitting defeat. They do ask, but in their minds they still hope to be rejected so they can just get it over with, so of course they get rejected. As soon as she gives them any excuse they give up as if that's what they were looking for.

You don't want to be a creep, like some guys try to demand shit, that obviously doesn't work either, you still need to offer a good vibe, and wait for her to vibe back, you want it to be reciprocal.

There is not a magic way, it's just common sense, like teasing the girl, making her laugh, all that stuff is just fun, and of course girls are going to like it, big time, but it has nothing to do with being Alpha, it is just what it is, basic human interaction.

[netzerkaiser]

You see this when guys ask a girl out, usually they are so afraid to fuck up things that they go in already admitting defeat. They do ask, but in their minds they still hope to be rejected so they can just get it over with, so of course they get rejected. As soon as she gives them any excuse they give up as if that's what they were looking for.

Quite profound stuff. Thanks.

[dap-addict]

What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action (...)
I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

Read this thread a few weeks ago, but didnt have time to answer then.
Yep, I know this situation, I think everybody knows. I know it also from supermarket, the cashier girl.
First of all, who say she needed no relationship?
2nd who says she needs a porn stud size of dick?
3rd doing nothing is always the least riskiest, but who says even if she's not interested in you that you can't go to that supermarket again. I mean we are adults, arnt we. Its clear A+B dont fit sometimes, but B can still feel pleased that A offered her sth or at least was interested.

Thus, at least if there was any other SOS shop option sort of nearby in case of worst case scenario, I would ask her out. Nothing to loose, only to gain.
And porn has nothing to do with it, almost nothing I'd say except that in porn film stud asks her out and 5min later they assfuck in the storage room. But thats only fantasy of course.

[netzerkaiser]

What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action (...)
I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

Read this thread a few weeks ago, but didnt have time to answer then.
Yep, I know this situation, I think everybody knows. I know it also from supermarket, the cashier girl.
First of all, who say she needed no relationship?
2nd who says she needs a porn stud size of dick?
3rd doing nothing is always the least riskiest, but who says even if she's not interested in you that you can't go to that supermarket again. I mean we are adults, arnt we. Its clear A+B dont fit sometimes, but B can still feel pleased that A offered her sth or at least was interested.

Thus, at least if there was any other SOS shop option sort of nearby in case of worst case scenario, I would ask her out. Nothing to loose, only to gain.
And porn has nothing to do with it, almost nothing I'd say except that in porn film stud asks her out and 5min later they assfuck in the storage room. But thats only fantasy of course.

To be absolutely honest with you, DAPAddict, I was thinking of this Tushy scene with Karla Kush as business executive coming home & ordering this seriously endowed guy, Alberto Blanco standing naked in her plush studio... & how can I say... after night shift, thoughts of it aided healthy sleep, yesterday morning after first night shift of sequence.

Except it was the girl in the supermarket & it was normal Joe me!

https://www.tushy.com/perfect-fit

But I got the 5 hours sleep, so hurrah I guess! It did the job.

[Destroyherass]

Sort of have.

[dap-addict]

Sort of have.

Would be nice if you could tell us more, if it worked for you, I mean.
I had the same but didnt take the step netzer should imho because I was in a relationship. But that shop assistant girl was really yummy, wonderful. I just didnt wanna destroy what I had than.

[netzerkaiser]

Sort of have.

Would be nice if you could tell us more, if it worked for you, I mean.
I had the same but didnt take the step netzer should imho because I was in a relationship. But that shop assistant girl was really yummy, wonderful. I just didnt wanna destroy what I had than.

I would, DAPAddict. I've never lacked courage. But when you're looking at someone with no spark in them, no flirt in them (with anyone), that maybe their self-esteem is so low or their life expectations, expressionless voice, or a disappointing experience as a teenager thats hung over them like a cloud for 15 years... sometimes its best to stay clear, sadly. And it is sad. But I think lady knows she can come onto me, that I like her, maybe thats enough.

[Starrio]

Those are horrible excuses. Don't ever try to understand, guess, assume, read, imagine, or determine who she is, or what she is thinking.

You can never know by looking at her mannerisms or gestures, or even hearing the things she says, most of the time it means nothing. It just works against you to even try.

Your only concern is to not quit or give up every time you get an opportunity to escape, and to stick around enough for her to know you are consistent in your intentions, that's it.

You should be the one with the plan, all she needs to do is enjoy the ride, leaving the ball on them is not an option because you are the guy, that's just how it works.

Also the plan is best when it is spontaneous, meaning it is an impulse of fun, not a schedule. Scheduling things don't work unless you guys have been hanging out for ages already.

On top of that you don't know someone until you sleep with them, and even then is unknown, so at least wait for that before coming into conclusions.

[netzerkaiser]

Those are horrible excuses. Don't ever try to understand, guess, assume, read, imagine, or determine who she is, or what she is thinking.

You can never know by looking at her mannerisms or gestures, or even hearing the things she says, most of the time it means nothing. It just works against you to even try.

Your only concern is to not quit or give up every time you get an opportunity to escape, and to stick around enough for her to know you are consistent in your intentions, that's it.

You should be the one with the plan, all she needs to do is enjoy the ride, leaving the ball on them is not an option because you are the guy, that's just how it works.

Also the plan is best when it is spontaneous, meaning it is an impulse of fun, not a schedule. Scheduling things don't work unless you guys have been hanging out for ages already.

On top of that you don't know someone until you sleep with them, and even then is unknown, so at least wait for that before coming into conclusions.

Thnks Brother.

[bdsmpretty]

Any of you guys fantasy about girls who work in supermarket?.

Right. Shes there every day. Shes living at home with parents, shes a bit reserved with everyone, & shes 30 odd. She's got this FANTASTIC ass. Shes single. On the street she's jeans, which show her magestic ass - in work unform you don't see this at all. This is where porn inhibits because I just think that ass deserves porn star dick size. What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action - actually if she told you to fuck off then you might well have trouble with late night shopping again! I get nothing, she lives road to unfulfilled spinster. Kinda sad really?

I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

I would recommend joining a dating site dedicated to 'hooks ups without commitment' rather than try to turn fantasies about random women you encounter in real life into reality.
The danger is you end up projecting your (unrealistic and improbable) fantasies onto them, then believing it may be reality, and acting upon it.

Women in supermarkets must get this all the time (and be sick of it) because their job description says they have to be nice and smiley to customers, and too often horny men get the wrong ideas and think these women are being nice to them not because it's their job, but because they fancy them.
The men then they start going in all the time, the women feel pressure to be nice to them each time because they worry that if they are not nice the men know where they work and what time the shop shuts. It just gets oppressive and ugly quickly.
Maybe that isn't a romantic take, but those sort of romantic encounters only 'work' in films. In real life they can often seem creepy as f.

You also need to ask, what is in it for her? You know what you want, but why do you imagine she feels the same?
Maybe she is happy single, maybe if she wants a relationship then it's for companionship with a potential future, not a one night stand? She probably wouldn't find out what your intentions were until you hooked up then you ignored her. Not great for her self-esteem of mental health.

My feeling is that fantasizing about sex is something everyone does, but mixing it with reality is asking for trouble. Every stalker started 'just fantasizing'... then tried too hard, in a messed up and dangerous way, to make it reality.

That's why I suggest a dating site where everyone is clear up front about what they want. They exist for a reason.

[netzerkaiser]

Any of you guys fantasy about girls who work in supermarket?.

Right. Shes there every day. Shes living at home with parents, shes a bit reserved with everyone, & shes 30 odd. She's got this FANTASTIC ass. Shes single. On the street she's jeans, which show her magestic ass - in work unform you don't see this at all. This is where porn inhibits because I just think that ass deserves porn star dick size. What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action - actually if she told you to fuck off then you might well have trouble with late night shopping again! I get nothing, she lives road to unfulfilled spinster. Kinda sad really?

I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

I would recommend joining a dating site dedicated to 'hooks ups without commitment' rather than try to turn fantasies about random women you encounter in real life into reality.
The danger is you end up projecting your (unrealistic and improbable) fantasies onto them, then believing it may be reality, and acting upon it.

Women in supermarkets must get this all the time (and be sick of it) because their job description says they have to be nice and smiley to customers, and too often horny men get the wrong ideas and think these women are being nice to them not because it's their job, but because they fancy them.
The men then they start going in all the time, the women feel pressure to be nice to them each time because they worry that if they are not nice the men know where they work and what time the shop shuts. It just gets oppressive and ugly quickly.
Maybe that isn't a romantic take, but those sort of romantic encounters only 'work' in films. In real life they can often seem creepy as f.

You also need to ask, what is in it for her? You know what you want, but why do you imagine she feels the same?
Maybe she is happy single, maybe if she wants a relationship then it's for companionship with a potential future, not a one night stand? She probably wouldn't find out what your intentions were until you hooked up then you ignored her. Not great for her self-esteem of mental health.

My feeling is that fantasizing about sex is something everyone does, but mixing it with reality is asking for trouble. Every stalker started 'just fantasizing'... then tried too hard, in a messed up and dangerous way, to make it reality.

That's why I suggest a dating site where everyone is clear up front about what they want. They exist for a reason.

You're 100% right. Hence I did nothing. Wasn't issue of courage, just lust vs common sense. Thanks so much for your time & wisdom.

[bdsmpretty]

Any of you guys fantasy about girls who work in supermarket?.

Right. Shes there every day. Shes living at home with parents, shes a bit reserved with everyone, & shes 30 odd. She's got this FANTASTIC ass. Shes single. On the street she's jeans, which show her magestic ass - in work unform you don't see this at all. This is where porn inhibits because I just think that ass deserves porn star dick size. What does one do? Yet at same time, one doesn't need the relationship, hence no action - actually if she told you to fuck off then you might well have trouble with late night shopping again! I get nothing, she lives road to unfulfilled spinster. Kinda sad really?

I guess at least one of you guys have felt this before?

I would recommend joining a dating site dedicated to 'hooks ups without commitment' rather than try to turn fantasies about random women you encounter in real life into reality... (etc edited as full comment above)

You're 100% right. Hence I did nothing. Wasn't issue of courage, just lust vs common sense. Thanks so much for your time & wisdom.

You are welcome but no need for thanks as you knew it anyway. Lust is good, respecting others is good too, you seem mature enough to get it.
Unfortunately too much porn and too many youtube videos about 'alpha males' (& all that junk) is spinning a lot of young men's heads, so I felt the need to spell out the what & why of my reasoning in case that was how some saw this situation.

Get that ad in now 'Would Like To Meet... Hot Supermarket Girl... For Crazy Hookup Sex!' and good luck with it.

[Starrio]

The danger is you end up projecting your (unrealistic and improbable) fantasies onto them, then believing it may be reality, and acting upon it.

There is nothing wrong about him doing this, and a lot of women want to fulfill men's fantasies.

Acting upon it is the moral thing to do because this is his life what we are talking about.

Women have the right to decline just as much as men have the right to pursue.

It is only creepy if the guy tries to impose his will on her, but that's very different than giving her the option.

Giving her the option is the right thing to do, and women already have a lot of options, but no one can decide which options should be presented to her. As far as a single woman is concerned the more options the better.

And an option should be solid, not half ass attempts. If the intention is clear, and there is no pressure, acting upon it is always the only acceptable path in these situations.

That said, men should never fixate themselves on a single girl. There are unlimited options for men too, and they keep making them.

Keeping your options open is important because women aren't things you can posses, they come and go, so it is only natural to have a next in line in case one stops working out for done random reason.

At some point you want to commit for a family, and that's important too, so for your family sake it is much better to have the chosen one be selected among many because that makes her even more special in your life, and you can never know which one is the most appreciated until you try a big variety of them.