Without sex and masturbation

[hardanalfan]

Hi LP fans. Can you be without sex and masturbation for a long time

[101mike101]

Hi LP fans. Can you be without sex and masturbation for a long time

It's possible, but doing this is self-harm.

Because people's need for sex is biologically built in, and trying to deny this need is bad for mental and emotional health.

[bake0213]

I'll go three days without masterbation before seeing my girlfriend, but that's about as long as I will hold back.

[davebowman]

I can be without sex for months, even years.
Masturbation - I can maybe last 2 days max without whipping it out.

[Pineapples Studio]

It's called NoFap & this is the last place anyone would be interested in talking about it.

[101mike101]

I'll go three days without masterbation before seeing my girlfriend, but that's about as long as I will hold back.

Abstinence for up to 7 days is what the World Health Organization recommends to improve the amount and the quality of your sperm, so that you can get your partner pregnant.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5845044/

If the two of you aren't yet married, then abstinence like this might not be a good idea. Because you might accidentally get your girlfriend pregnant. If you want to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, then you should masturbate a lot, before you go to see your girlfriend.

And if you are going to see your girlfriend, then you should fantasize and masturbate about your girlfriend, rather than about some ladies in porn. Because your fantasies and anticipation need to match the reality, when you are going to do it for real. Or else, there might be so much difference between your fantasies and reality, that you might have some trouble getting it up with your girlfriend.

I think masturbation is a kind of mental preparation. So, if you are going to do it for real with some lady, then you need to masturbate about her, before you go to see her. Or else, you won't be mentally and emotionally prepared to do it with her. Which might lead to performance problems.

[dap-addict]

So, if you are going to do it for real with some lady, then you need to masturbate about her, before you go to see her.

You can also masturbate to porn instead and even imagine you are fucking a porn girl you like when fucking her. Its emotionally not the same exactly, but it works pretty well. Abstinence for a few days is a good thing, though. But dont overdo it - 3-4 days is long noFap- & noFuck-time actually!

[netzerkaiser]

So, if you are going to do it for real with some lady, then you need to masturbate about her, before you go to see her.

You can also masturbate to porn instead and even imagine you are fucking a porn girl you like when fucking her. Its emotionally not the same exactly, but it works pretty well. Abstinence for a few days is a good thing, though. But dont overdo it - 3-4 days is long noFap- & noFuck-time actually!

If I have 6 12 hour shifts in a row & hour travel each way, the stress levels can be so great, you never even think about it. I wonder what it was like for front line war pilots or troops? Probably they could go a couple of weeks before a dull melancholy weight forced them to do something about it. High occupational stress - Its an interesting point.