dap-addict wrote:For the last years I am more interested how these girls do it really, how they cope with the DAP I want from them. Also including what is a fair payment for them etc. It's a deeper look into affairs so to say.
Just very curious to see what it is that gets others going, and to see if it matches with my own perspective at all.dap720 wrote:Its definitely a mix of things I want to do or try in my own sex life but can't, and sexy women doing things that normal hot girls you see in person would never do themselves or let you see them do it.
bladblabla2019 wrote:dap720 wrote:Its definitely a mix of things I want to do or try in my own sex life but can't, and sexy women doing things that normal hot girls you see in person would never do themselves or let you see them do it.
I definitely get that. I love scenes with multiple guys fucking one girl, and I think I would love to DP a chick but then again I'm not sure I could work with other men, especially naked men with hard cocks, not just in the same room but in the same girl! I just know I love to see women getting pushed into ecstasy by one in her ass and one in her cunt.
bladblabla2019 wrote:I find running a train on the girl extremely hot. Something about them just putting themselves there for free use is incredible. And I get what you mean about ignoring her biggest weapon, her pussy, but I still think taking advantage of every hole is best. The fact she never knows where the cock is going next but just takes it. I have noticed that scenes where they switch between cunt and ass keeps the girl on her toes, she can't get too comfortable, and the reaction is intense.
I hope I get the chance to join in one day, but as you say it's next to impossible IRL.
xxxVIPERxxx wrote:Porn for me is about escapism from the harsh realities of real life.
Porn is also good, as it helps to stimulate and spice up your sex life with your partner.
Porn has also helped me to stay faithful to my partner, as any sexual fantasies can be watched and shared together whilst watching mutually liked scenes together.
Porn also helps with my mental and physical health, it can at times help me to "release", as it reduces the likelihood of prostate problems, and prostate cancer.
Watching porn, and releasing to it also reduces my stress, and most definitely increases the number of 'happy chemicals' floating in my brain.
Porn was also a huge motivator at various points in my life to try and get more in shape. Using the home gym, whilst having porn in the background was the only way to really PUSH myself to lift heavier weights, and increase my limited fitness levels etc.
There are more points I could include, but as you can see the list is already quite substantial about the benefits of porn, to me.

YuriyProneBone wrote:What makes anal porn beautiful is not the act itself, but the meaning behind it. It represents surrender in one of its most raw forms. The woman is not simply participating, she is yielding. She is giving up control and allowing herself to be taken, even when the intensity can look physically challenging.
That’s what makes it so psychologically charged. It’s a moment where pride, resistance, and self-protection drop away, and what replaces it is trust, submission, and acceptance. She is letting herself be overwhelmed.
And that’s where the beauty comes in. For her, it becomes psychologically satisfying because it activates a deep, almost primal dynamic of being fully claimed. It’s the feeling of being desired so strongly that she can stop holding back, stop managing, stop controlling. She becomes fully taken, fully possessed in the moment, and that experience makes her feel her womanhood in a sharper, more undeniable way. Watching that transformation is what makes it beautiful.
bladblabla2019 wrote:Is it also, paraphrasing Fight Club, seeing something beautiful destroyed? The submission you talk about can't happen without an act of dominance which is almost an aggression. With porn as well, the desire isn't romantic - for me it seems the desire is to completely break the girl's dignity, because the girl is reduced to her naked flesh and orifices, and because her sole purpose is serve the stud and the viewers. Of course, it's hot that the girl is aroused and getting her brains fucked out, but isn't it more about men using a woman as a sexual object?
YuriyProneBone wrote:bladblabla2019 wrote:Is it also, paraphrasing Fight Club, seeing something beautiful destroyed? The submission you talk about can't happen without an act of dominance which is almost an aggression. With porn as well, the desire isn't romantic - for me it seems the desire is to completely break the girl's dignity, because the girl is reduced to her naked flesh and orifices, and because her sole purpose is serve the stud and the viewers. Of course, it's hot that the girl is aroused and getting her brains fucked out, but isn't it more about men using a woman as a sexual object?
I don’t want to judge, but the way you describe it makes it sound like, for you, it’s an act of vengeance.
I’m not here to judge because it’s understandable that some males fall into victimhood, and that can even feel more positive than giving up completely. But it’s also a place that can be dangerous if you stay there for too long.
The only way to get out is by front-facing all your fears, which are usually the truths about yourself that you don’t want to face. That is basically taking responsibility and accountability for everything that happens in your life. That’s a scary place, but it’s only temporary, and it’s the only way to escape blame and victimhood.
Once those feared realities become clear, it becomes about tapping into anger in a way that empowers you to move up. It’s different from blaming, because it’s not about saying you can’t. It’s about saying you will do something.
Then, if you find yourself at that level, the realization that you can do it gives you the courage to move toward your desires. Once those desires become solid, they give you the purpose to find that harmonious place where you don’t demand anything from the world, and you’re actually in a win-win situation with it.
That’s when you can appreciate porn for the pressure of both you and the woman.
And yes, women love to feel taken, fucked, and used, and even consensually abused, but that doesn’t take away their dignity or make them less. It doesn’t diminish their value next to men. It actually makes it equal, because just like she is serving the man’s desires, the man is also satisfying hers, the desires that make her feel like a woman.
In this way, dominance becomes a necessity, not an aggression. It becomes an expression of a collaborative frame.
bladblabla2019 wrote:(...) But she's loving it. If you watch the scene, she's smiling half the time, but she's also getting treated like fuckmeat. So it can't just be about enjoying female sexual liberation right? Part of it is surely male dominance over women, and the sexual objectification of women. Both can be true at the same time and that's fine, isn't it?

RobJung wrote:bladblabla2019 wrote:(...) But she's loving it. If you watch the scene, she's smiling half the time, but she's also getting treated like fuckmeat. So it can't just be about enjoying female sexual liberation right? Part of it is surely male dominance over women, and the sexual objectification of women. Both can be true at the same time and that's fine, isn't it?
Great thing about porn: You don't have to justify yourself for it.
Some of us prefer a model smiling and moaning, displaying her pleasure and consent, showing how much she loves it and enjoys it. And if that makes you feel good, that's totally fine! Others love to see a model struggling: her pain, the strain her body is subjected to during a rough, demanding scene. And that's also okay! It's just different tastes and triggers. (And different approaches and abilities of performers.) We shouldn't be so judmental but celebrate the vast supply of porn on offer for every taste and preference imaginable.
The same applies to 'objectification': When it comes to porn, there's nothing bad about it. It's just the essence of porn. When we jerk off to watching a hot girl getting fucked the way we like it, of course we objectify her. That's the whole point of the endeavour. We shouldn't feel bad or guilty about it. Objects can be prescious and be held in high regard. By the way, male performers are objectified too, probably even more than the girls. An object serves a purpose, and, again, that's just the essence of porn. It's about purposeful interactions. We should embrace it, celebrate it, and enjoy the whole menu.
misangrenegra2 wrote:What makes porn good and attractive for me is watch the woman performing the stuff that i like without prudishness or inhibitions.
Porn breaks the establishment and the common, showing women performing explicit sex acts and a lot of different fetishes without any kind of judgment or taboos, being something that, as a porn lover, i really appreciate.
Is uncommon find a woman, outside of porn, enough open minded to do that kind of stuff, mainly they use to feel being judge/not ready or not interested.
As a porn viewer i love, i love how shows and expose these women dressed in the most daring, attractive and irresisitible way. Also how porn demands to the pornstars to show an slutty attitude with a big sexual appetite and begging to perform hardcore sex without squeamishness.
Porn is very important for me and i'm so grateful to can see everything i desire in the way i love. For those thing i wrote, porn is a real bless for me.
bladblabla2019 wrote:We all obviously watch porn and even feel the need to discuss it at length and in detail, but what the hell is so good about it? It's not just getting to see naked women, surely. So what exactly is it about porn that has you so captivated? No doubt you have many reasons. Do tell:
bladblabla2019 wrote:That's cool. So what kind of costumes is the best for you? And when you say slutty attitude, what do you mean?
Personally, I love the trashy streetwalker look that used to be popular: stockings, fishnets, stipper shoes, trashy jewellery, and trashy make up. I'm not a fan of the really loud slutty girls - lots of screaming and crazy talk turns me off, but I like eye contact with the camera (Ria Sunn is great for that) and a bit of dirty talk.
bladblabla2019 wrote:dap-addict wrote:For the last years I am more interested how these girls do it really, how they cope with the DAP I want from them. Also including what is a fair payment for them etc. It's a deeper look into affairs so to say.
Interesting. And what is it about the porn itself (the image, the vibe, the sucking, fucking and the rest of it) that keeps you coming back?
I swear I'm not trying to psychoanalyse anybody here!Just very curious to see what it is that gets others going, and to see if it matches with my own perspective at all.
dap-addict wrote:Finally what to do with porn girls having fake-rape fantasies? I've interviewed some of these girl, also talked to them in private and have tried to understand their psychological needs. It's a tabu of porn still. We dont get this produced. And I won't lobby for it. I just want to rise a flag indicating it's not all that black-white and what looks like demeaning women from outside might look different inside.
My own stance on stuff like this is certainly ambivalent, but moral ambivalence can be a huge turn-on, right? And it's definitely not only men who have explicit rape fantasies, that's for sure.dap-addict wrote:I do respect all porn actresses of all shapes, though.

You opened a very interesting thread here, bladblabla2019!
I'm very much US and Prague Golden Age 2000-5 defined in my porn preferences. An archetypical scene for me is Gauge's DAP in EA's Weapons of Ass Destruction1 (2002), ie. a really petite (150cm), skinny girl giving completely in but also enjoying it, or at least pretending she does. I refinded those aesthetics by Classical Italian porn with girls dressed more sexily and a more anal friendly approach going for 0% pussy.
Pussy fucking we can all get in our private life. Porn is pure fantasy for me, but it's done by real people feeling real joy and real pain etc, it has thus very well a reality connected.
I dont dig those fake underage pics you posted, I dont like these plays and also not the incest theme, but its tabus and fantasies to sell porn, so it be. I try not to judge what is produced or what others like to watch, but I lobby for what I want produced more. Because my forum experience is that users can change directors focus. I lobbied a lot for more DAP in other forums since about 2000 and was effective in the end.
RobJung wrote:dap-addict wrote:Finally what to do with porn girls having fake-rape fantasies? I've interviewed some of these girl, also talked to them in private and have tried to understand their psychological needs. It's a tabu of porn still. We dont get this produced. And I won't lobby for it. I just want to rise a flag indicating it's not all that black-white and what looks like demeaning women from outside might look different inside.
There are some BoundGangbangs scenes that are depicting very explicit rape scenarios. By including interviews with the female performers before and after, they make it unambiguously clear that these are fictional scenes that were produced with full consent, but the scenes themselves are pretty intense and immoral. Surely not every viewer will appreciate them and there is good reason for that. A few scenes that come to my mind right now are Jodi Taylor's christian girl scene and also her bar tender fantasy, Princess Donna's rooftop scene, or Chastity Lynn's car-breakdown fantasy. Gang rape fantasies that, for the better or the worse, I will certainly not forget.
Is it okay to be turned on by this? I guess so. It's fiction, and everybody has fantasies, but I may be a bit biased here...My own stance on stuff like this is certainly ambivalent, but moral ambivalence can be a huge turn-on, right? And it's definitely not only men who have explicit rape fantasies, that's for sure.
dap-addict wrote:I do respect all porn actresses of all shapes, though.
You're right, I should rephrase my former comment: I personally get not turned on by overweight performers. But of course there's different body types and different tastes out there, and that's totally okay. I respect every person who contributes to this business which is solely dedicated to our pleasure. They're doing god's work. I just happen to be picky...
bladblabla2019 wrote:You hit the nail on the head with Kink's scenes. The interview before and after makes it clear that it is consensual, and that the chick has chosen her scenario. At the end of the day, some women and some men enjoy the rape fantasy. I think those scenes are intense as fuck, but because they're so niche to the girl who came up with the idea, I don't always like them. The best for me was Skin Diamond's bound gangbang - her body looks so fucking good, and the studs fuck the shit out of her while being verbally dominant (something she obviously enjoys)
RobJung wrote:However, if I may ask, how do you deal with the moral ambivalence of scenarios like these?
dap-addict wrote:RobJung wrote:However, if I may ask, how do you deal with the moral ambivalence of scenarios like these?
I watched most boundgangbangs at the time, but with most I had aesthetic problems because I prefer the girls dressed up for sex - with maybe ending up naked. Kink didnt offer this notion. Also I'm not into BDSM, I can tolerate it though if content is right, ie. girl and sex acts. Sex acts were another problem with Kink for me, because I was hunting for DAP since 2000 and they stayed at DP level, typical later US porn. I did like their industrial, dirty looking sites, though.
Now about the moral ambivalence of fake-rape scenes: Their interviews were often not clear enough for me or at least they also could be staged, like the scene itself. Such scenes should have a clear studios stance at the start and the end that rape is the most hideous crime and needs severe punishment. Together with the addition that folks still have rape-fantasies and here all is faked and staged, because the girl wanted it. That all is controlled, that the girl has full control of what happens and can stop the action at every stage.
Anyway, it's a very thin line to walk. I've seen a few Italian fake-rape scenes around 2000 (without these pre- and post statements) and I was completely disgusted, it wasnt arousing at all. Just bad porn, too.
bladblabla2019 wrote:And here's what I'm not a fan of, even though you can see that Jessie does smile at one point

RobJung wrote:bladblabla2019 wrote:You hit the nail on the head with Kink's scenes. The interview before and after makes it clear that it is consensual, and that the chick has chosen her scenario. At the end of the day, some women and some men enjoy the rape fantasy. I think those scenes are intense as fuck, but because they're so niche to the girl who came up with the idea, I don't always like them. The best for me was Skin Diamond's bound gangbang - her body looks so fucking good, and the studs fuck the shit out of her while being verbally dominant (something she obviously enjoys)
Oh, thank you for reminding me of Skin's beautiful psych ward scene, this is an all-time classic for sure, mate!
My only problem with Kink studio is that I personally am not into extreme bondage or "tool box BDSM", or torture chambers. Elaborate, artistic knotting techniques rather turn me off, I'm afraid. But I certainly do enjoy some of these simple, dark rape fantasies quickly unfolding like a bad surprise in an everyday setting. Thankfully, Kink offer some scenes with only "mild", basic bondage which is okay for me if it is plausible and realistic within the respective scenario. But no kink shaming, this is just my personal taste.
However, if I may ask, how do you deal with the moral ambivalence of scenarios like these?
bladblabla2019 wrote:What do you think of Fucking Machines, which is also on Kink? Personally, I love the idea and the girls cum hard - there's no faking. That's especially hot when it's girls like Sasha Grey and Tori Black who were loudmouth sluts and overacted a bit much. But my alltime recommendation has to be Goldie Glock - she gets her brains fucked out relentlessy, with vibration and penetration, turns from a pretty young woman into a sweaty wreck, and leaves a little puddle of her cunt juice below her
dap-addict wrote:bladblabla2019 wrote:And here's what I'm not a fan of, even though you can see that Jessie does smile at one point
This kink gif shows it's clearly fake-violence. I forgot a bit about kink, but I see now where AGO got his 100% Hell inspiration from. Here I know already first hand from girls working for him that it's all just faked and actually quite gentle in AGO studio with very considerate studs.
It's not my aesthetics, but if I like the girl or there is enough of anal/DAP action I can enjoy these films. But only because I watch only the sex act footage I like, I never watch the whole film.
With Jessie Rogers I see they actually DAP-ed her in that 2013 released kink gangbang with fake-rape theme. I never watched this one. I bet the DAP is short and not worth it. Correct me please, if I'm wrong.
dap-addict wrote:This kink gif shows it's clearly fake-violence.
bladblabla2019 wrote:I agree that the studio could probably make it clearer that the 'rape' aspect is pure fiction and that rape is something that they don't endorse, even if it is implied and the scene is obviously a performance. It's for that reason that I can't stand 'Facial Abuse' or 'Broken Latina Whores' productions or Max Hardcore's scenes. I don't want to see the girl getting literally tortured for a wank - I've seen girls crying in those scenes and while it's probably faked in some cases, there have definitely been times when the girl is crying for real.
bladblabla2019 wrote:The DAP is only a small proportion of the fucking but still over a few minutes. I think you should check it out for yourself.
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