Girls hating their porn job and looking down on users

[dap-addict]

This might be a controversial subject, but 2025 marks 25 years of direct contacts with porn girls for me. And it started with a girl I adored, Wanda Curtis from Hungary, than still porn capital of Europe.

Here she is:

La Contessa e l'Orfanella (FM, 2000)

I was still full of romanticism when I went into a conversation with Wanda Curtis. I confessed her how much I adored her, but you know what, she leashed out against me being no real man since I watched porn! She called me names and put me down for finding pleasure in watching her having sex.

Only a few weeks later I realized she hated her job and was compensating with putting porn fans like me down talking with them!

[dap-addict]

Funny thing is it happened to me once and that mail exchange actually started me talking to at least 50 porn girls before getting more involved into things.

I just wonder whether someone else from forum had similar bad experience with porn or other seemingly open-minded girls?

[ArcanaCaelestia]

2000s and prior years were simply different. Not a lot of avenues to make money and still lot of crime including human trafficking. And of course many cases of taking advantage of less fortunate. While some problems still persist, I don't think that there are so many girls being forced to do what they don't like anymore.

[isis666xxx]

I confessed her how much I adored her, but you know what, she leashed out against me being no real man since I watched porn! She called me names and put me down for finding pleasure in watching her having sex.

Only a few weeks later I realized she hated her job and was compensating with putting porn fans like me down talking with them!

lul

i think people react like this because of orgasms

society has always demonized sex so much because of orgasms

you can separate sex from orgasms

for example look at this girl saying she and her friends get post-orgasm blues

if most girls would do sex without orgasms then they would extremely love their porn job

[isis666xxx]

i bet stacy bloom gets post-orgasm blues

[isis666xxx]

btw that girl i think is kinda stupid because anal orgasms decrease the lust too i think

i dont believe she loses lust after vaginal & clitoral orgasms but dont loses lust after anal orgasms

unless they are semi-orgasms or something

but if she has a full orgasm from anal she must lose lust too

orgasms decrease the lust, as simple as that

orgasms are only fun while creating babies, otherwise they are pathetic, weakening and boring

sex without orgasms is much more fun

[xxxVIPERxxx]

To stick back on to the topic title...I do think porn girls, and sex workers usually look down on their customers/users...but as they are the ones that keep them in a job, and give them their income...they act and pretend to like/be good to them.

[misangrenegra2]

The particular case exposed by D-addict perhaps hides some information that we don't know. The
ArcanaCaelestia's post can be one of the reasons, maybe she was pushed to do porn, but who knows...

I don't have any bad experience with pornstars, i'm not into send private messages and that kind of things that some users do. I like to keep myself behind that line that a lot of people crossed about sending private messages in different plataforms even being annoying.

The few times have been in a public forum thread, except for one time that was a private message.

I buy the post of xxxViperxxx about that surely some girl, just by stats, do that about down on some users or pretending by nice to but i don't think that is the usual.

Porn has their rules and the girl knows that she is recorded having sex for money and the director hires her and some guys to shoot those vieos for sell it because there are a market of people who is willing to pay for watching them having sex.

Their commitment for this job is something that the users love and nowadays i thing that "feeling" arrives to them better than before.

For me is a very worthy job and i respect all the thing that involves porn, being i as a part of those who happily pay for it, i cannot be more satisfy and glad to see how many girls decides to do porn as a make-living. Is always amazing see each year newcommers performing and watching how the veteran girls are developing their porn careers.

[xxxVIPERxxx]

I would never send porn girls' private messages or spam them with unnecessary messages, their performances, and scenes speak enough for me.
You can also see from the scenes here, if the girls read or aware of what their fans want or have requested them to perform.

[jerrybb]

Most models I have chatted with just see us punters and see us for what they can get.
I kinds understand as if it came down to helping out our family or giving the cash to a model then I think most of us would go the family way.

[liko19]

Funny thing is it happened to me once and that mail exchange actually started me talking to at least 50 porn girls before getting more involved into things.

I just wonder whether someone else from forum had similar bad experience with porn or other seemingly open-minded girls?

Hi DAP-addict, my opinion is that the girls who shot in 2000 - + and were from the former Eastern Europe behind the iron curtain, suddenly discovered the big world and could not cope with the gained fame. They felt that they were special and that ordinary men did not even reach their ankles. I loved Barbara Summer, Monica Sweetheart and Julia Silver back then. But when I heard them speak at BTS, in the Czech language, they were extremely superficial. Their egos were sky high. On the other hand, American actresses like Jazmine Lynn and darling Trina Michaels (they were great in DAP and one of the pioneers of the practice) were totally open, kind and welcoming. But even here there were two exceptions, Melissa Black and DAP queen Vivienne LaRoche. These were absolutely wonderful women, modest and wonderful character.


Today's porn actresses are different, they are friendly, they want to do this job with pleasure and are often willing to do a lot of hard work for their fans. I have escorted a number of porn actresses and if you let them know you are a big fan of their work and appreciate their work, they will do almost anything for you as an escort. In 2018, I traveled by train from Prague and Silvia and Eveline Dellai were sitting in my compartment in Bussines. They went to shoot in Hungary with Rocco Siffredi. They were incredibly accommodating, but Silvie is a class higher than Eveline. I had a three-hour conversation with Silvia about life, but mainly about porn, and I have never met such an amazing girl as she was. She's really settled in her head, even then she was more mature than Evelin. I later had the opportunity to pay them both for an escort, but at the time the amount seemed very high. But today I regret it very much, it would have been money spent for the most beautiful moments I could have experienced. Silvie has been my favorite actress ever since.

[latina-girls-yes]

This might be a controversial subject, but 2025 marks 25 years of direct contacts with porn girls for me. And it started with a girl I adored, Wanda Curtis from Hungary, than still porn capital of Europe.

Here she is:

La Contessa e l'Orfanella (FM, 2000)

I was still full of romanticism when I went into a conversation with Wanda Curtis. I confessed her how much I adored her, but you know what, she leashed out against me being no real man since I watched porn! She called me names and put me down for finding pleasure in watching her having sex.

Only a few weeks later I realized she hated her job and was compensating with putting porn fans like me down talking with them!

what do you mean when you say 'realized'?

'realized' as a consequence of discovering new information that disavowed you of an illusion, or 'realized' being a personal rationalisation based on your impressions

personally i think (beyond comments of approval, suggestions for future content and likes on social media) that fans trying to contact xxx models directly is a major *no-no*.

they already give fans so much of themselves (physical and emotional) in making the content they do, so i just think it's intrusive and bad manners to not observe a respectful (and admiring) distance and leave them alone to enjoy their personal lives and free time away from xxx production without interruption (family lives, children, partners etc)

the transaction between model and fan is the production and purchasing of the scene. they make the scene, the fan buys it. end of.
having an expections beyond that along the lines of 'i'm a fan and buy their content, so they owe me something (time and attention) is not fair. you have the scene the model worked hard to make for you

if models choose to respond to fans, that's nice but fans shouldn't see it as an invitation to start a friendship (or more). it's just good business to be courteous to customers.
fans should appreciate the gesture but should beware (head full of romantic illusions) thinking of the gesture as an open door to something more

i understand the temptation (we all have our xxx crushes), but if models change mood or even become insulting if fans persist in contacting them beyond mutual courtesies, then it's not the model to blame (or proof that they are terrible people) it's the fan who is at fault for not respecting the difference between the model's professional and private lives

my feeling about such behaviour. other's mileage my vary

[dap-addict]

what do you mean when you say 'realized'?

'realized' as a consequence of discovering new information that disavowed you of an illusion, or 'realized' being a personal rationalisation based on your impressions

personally i think (beyond comments of approval, suggestions for future content and likes on social media) that fans trying to contact xxx models directly is a major *no-no*.

Agree.
With realized I meant to say I understood - after thinking more about Wanda Curtis situation and the way she talked to me.
It's so long back I cant recall our conversation anymore in detail, but I sure contacted her in my first phase of DAP lobbying time trying to convince her to try it. I told her how much I adore her because I tried to convince only those I adored to DAP than and than asked whether she'd consider trying. I'd usually propose a supplement payment on top of the studios fee to make it more attractive for girls to try. Only in rare cases I tried to finance or financed the whole DAP shooting.
So it was not stealing her time but contacting her with a proposition to earn more.

[TomHardick]

To stick back on to the topic title...I do think porn girls, and sex workers usually look down on their customers/users...but as they are the ones that keep them in a job, and give them their income...they act and pretend to like/be good to them.

100% True. Maybe a few girls really care about fans, but let's be honest, porn is their job, and most of them are just pretending for money.

[fredflehoux]

The vast majority of girls, not only in the industry but also in the industry, hate all of you porn watchers. You basically are a sub class of humans to them.

The whole industry is the most primal male sexual urges which include degrading women and making them swallow cock juices. They don't like it, they are often only there because they are pretty, not very smart and the industry pays very well. A small portion of these girls like Sara Bell are actual sluts who just do what they would be doing in the civilian life but while being paid and filmed. Some seem to genuinely have fun in the industry while not liking everything like Jolee Love

[kuaheyden513]

Wanda is right. We are not real men. We are addicted. We are coomers. We failed as men. But it´s ok. I can live doing that for the next 50 years(I hope).

[misangrenegra2]

what do you mean when you say 'realized'?

'realized' as a consequence of discovering new information that disavowed you of an illusion, or 'realized' being a personal rationalisation based on your impressions

personally i think (beyond comments of approval, suggestions for future content and likes on social media) that fans trying to contact xxx models directly is a major *no-no*.

they already give fans so much of themselves (physical and emotional) in making the content they do, so i just think it's intrusive and bad manners to not observe a respectful (and admiring) distance and leave them alone to enjoy their personal lives and free time away from xxx production without interruption (family lives, children, partners etc)

the transaction between model and fan is the production and purchasing of the scene. they make the scene, the fan buys it. end of.
having an expections beyond that along the lines of 'i'm a fan and buy their content, so they owe me something (time and attention) is not fair. you have the scene the model worked hard to make for you

if models choose to respond to fans, that's nice but fans shouldn't see it as an invitation to start a friendship (or more). it's just good business to be courteous to customers.
fans should appreciate the gesture but should beware (head full of romantic illusions) thinking of the gesture as an open door to something more

i understand the temptation (we all have our xxx crushes), but if models change mood or even become insulting if fans persist in contacting them beyond mutual courtesies, then it's not the model to blame (or proof that they are terrible people) it's the fan who is at fault for not respecting the difference between the model's professional and private lives

my feeling about such behaviour. other's mileage my vary

Your post is the most accurate with my own thoughts.

The pornstars really make happy to a lot of porn viewers with their incredible work, the most way to show them respect and admiration is paying legally for their passion, hard work and effort doing pornography.

I'm agree that the fact of cross the line to get approach or anything else can be annoying for them and considered too much, one thing is like here with some active models who each one can try to interactuate but going more further is a lot.

They have their private lifes outside of porn, and the best they can do is live it happy and without problems and when is work time, let them do their best to make great content.

I'm partially agree with that a lot of people has, by first instance, a very bad opinion for porn viewers, even worst for those who pay for it, even a bad opinion to for those who work in porn too.

Doesn't know if some current pornstars can have a bad opinion about what porn viewers are but both parts mutually needed to coexist.

I'm a proud porn viewer, a true appasionate of the adult entertainment industry who is fully aware of how much these ladies work to do what they do in the scenes. It's an honour to be part of those who legally pay to support the industry, any kind of bad opinion or bad thoughts will not change my admiration and respect for their proffesion.

[Arnold646]

The vast majority of girls, not only in the industry but also in the industry, hate all of you porn watchers. You basically are a sub class of humans to them.

I am not sure what "you porn watchers" means. Most men watch porn to some extent- at least where it is available- and half of humanity are men.
Does this mean girls hate all men ?
Also porn watchers come in all shapes and sizes and have different backgrounds, social status and tastes, including in porn itself.

Finally it seems strange to hate someone you do not even know
Does the striptease performer removing her clothes for the viewers in a club, hate the same viewers who are watching her remove her clothes ? It does not make much sense

[squirtjunkie]

This might be a controversial subject, but 2025 marks 25 years of direct contacts with porn girls for me. And it started with a girl I adored, Wanda Curtis from Hungary, than still porn capital of Europe.

Here she is:

La Contessa e l'Orfanella (FM, 2000)

I was still full of romanticism when I went into a conversation with Wanda Curtis. I confessed her how much I adored her, but you know what, she leashed out against me being no real man since I watched porn! She called me names and put me down for finding pleasure in watching her having sex.

Only a few weeks later I realized she hated her job and was compensating with putting porn fans like me down talking with them!

Wanda never was a cute honey bee, always more a hornet...
but that was her speciality and the onturn on her....

Think she kept playing her role by looking down on users...

Also i remember very well the rumor, she got badly injured in a rough anal scene , so she has to get a surgery in hospital....not the best way to get positiv feelings about her job in the industrie...perhaps imaginable she looks down on users as well...


BUT: she was without any doubt a hot girl well worth to watch