Now recently in a long porn talk with two seasoned actresses both independantly claimed asking for DAP early in forum would pressure girls not ready yet to do it and that may hurt them physically. I'm a very compassionate porn user and sure dont want these girls done any harm!

For me DAP since the early 2000s when I tried to co-finance 1st DAPs with some of my favorite girls was also a fee-based aknowlegement of a girls extra-mile and a possibility for her to earn really good money early in her career in order to motivate her to carry on instead of opting for less exposed and also well payed sex work.
That direct discussions went on a bit. I do listen ofc very much what porn girls tell me in direct talks, but one actress would also say that ofc before doing DAP every girl has to train and carefully prepare herself. Thus basically it comes down for me to that Russian talent scout telling me in 2006 that every of his girls would be offering DAP as long as I proposed a bit more money - and he'd then instruct her how to do it fine.
Now from a fans POV - but ideally a compassionate one - how long would you wanna your fave girls wait with DAP or DVPbreakin'?