ajqqaj wrote:Hello all - just wondered if anyone else out there has to juggle married/long term relationship life with secret extreme porn addiction? It's like living a double life at times and I have to make use of every moment I get to myself! Just wondered how others cope in the situation. Thanks!
You have to be open and honest, and marry a partner who shares your values.
I was very open after the first few dates about my sex life, porn, etc...yes you might get rebuffed by 7 out of 10 women...but by being honest. You are not messing about, and wasting time.
I am very thankful and grateful that my 2nd and 3rd wives enjoy watching porn with me.
However, I would like to state that my 1st wife could not, and was not into it at all.
Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2025 10:32 am