laura. wrote:Having read those comments, they were harsh and unnecessary. People clearly don't realise that many models read forums and not everyone is confident enough to deal with some of the cheap comments people make. Its a shame, she was pretty damn gorgeous
you know those gameshows that end with the losers being shown what they could have won...? live it.
Arteya is seriously gorgeous. and when she appeared a year ago os so i was checking for updates for her everywhere and every day for ages. bitten and smitten at first sight. and when it became apparent she was up for everything, brutal invasion (dp/anal and manhandling), subspaceland (bdsm), etc, i thought then she would be the perfect catch (another irresistable russian) for the LP stable of star eurogirls that leave the us girls far behind. she should be here.
Laura has already said above everything i would have said (and have said elsewhere here) re making critical personal comments about girls appearances.
as our western culture stands, women live under overwhelming pressure to preserve and project an immaculate appearance at all times. increasingly men but generally less so. unbearable pressure coming from both men and fellow-women's impossible expectations. that toxicity of unrealistic expectations fostered by advertising a climate that thrives on undermining people's self-confidence about everything (from bad-breath to the type of mobile phone you use) and then offering to sell you back your peace of mind for the price of a product. the currency of advertising is insecurity.
young women especially (since they are relatively new to the world of being so oppressively judged as objects of desire) are hit with the full force of this judgemental poison hard and fast, and it takes some longer to find a way of dealing with that than others. that doesn't make them 'weak characters' or 'crybabies', it just means they are still trying to adjust to a new experience. respect their efforts and give them the space and time they need to do so. it's the humane thing to do.
it's a kind of tragedy, in porn terms anyway, if a beautiful and ambtious new star feels so overwhelmed by negtive personal criticism that she has to walk away from a career she had high hopes for, and that might have bought her happiness, fame and fortune, because some people can't keep it shut and show a little more respect and restraint on a public forum.
if Arteya wants to come back to porn ever, i would love to see her back. I would instant-buy anything she did here.
if she has found something better that makes her as happy outside porn, i really do wish her all the best with it.
but my lasting impression is that her uneccessary early departure from the business was a massive waste of a great opportunity for us, and very probably a great disappointment for Arteya, who deserved far better treatment.
come back Adorable Arteya ♥

