Women on the Forum

[dpdude69]

How many women use this forum, and what makes you visit here?

[IndyPleco]

Ambitious if you to think you'll get an answer to that. Any woman who watches LP avoids the forum like corona, and any woman who does profess to be a woman is usually not a woman.

[Iddaoeeok]

Ambitious if you to think you'll get an answer to that. Any woman who watches LP avoids the forum like corona, and any woman who does profess to be a woman is usually not a woman.

Yes, both true!

[CanadianCouple]

My wife browses the model forum to find scenes she wants to buy. But has no interest in posting here when she sees so many angry comments, fights, wanting the girls to bleed, hate for TS, etc. Its not really a womens place, women are far more pleasant , its pretty negative around here, let's be honest.

[xxxtentionn]

My wife browses the model forum to find scenes she wants to buy. But has no interest in posting here when she sees so many angry comments, fights, wanting the girls to bleed, hate for TS, etc. Its not really a womens place, women are far more pleasant , its pretty negative around here, let's be honest.

That's not a good thing.

[ringstinger]

Used to have a 'friends with benefits' thing going... introduced her to LegalPorno scenes that we used to watch together.. but she never contributed in the forums. Although makes me wonder if she is here now herself?

[101mike101]

How many women use this forum, and what makes you visit here?

The talk in this forum is almost all one-way. It's all about what guys like and what guys want. And few, if anyone, expresses any interest in pleasing women too.

Which I find a little puzzling. Because you can't have much of a relationship with a woman, if you think only about yourself and don't even try to figure out what she wants with you.

I suppose, you can't have much of a relationship with porn-films. Because porn-films are inanimate objects. It is a one-way relationship.

But for me, this kind of a relationship doesn't quite make sense. Because porn for me is just a medium through which I get to experience real women. I ignore the medium and think about the women as real women who have feelings and desires just like guys do. So, I'm interested in looking at it from the woman's point of view too. Which requires a lot of imagination. Because this isn't something film-makers try to portray at all, when guys are nailing the girl.

You can't have much of a two-way conversation, when you only talk about yourself and what you want, without any interest and concern about what the other wants.

[xxxtentionn]

How many women use this forum, and what makes you visit here?

But for me, this kind of a relationship doesn't quite make sense. Because porn for me is just a medium through which I get to experience real women. I ignore the medium and think about the women as real women who have feelings and desires just like guys do. So, I'm interested in looking at it from the woman's point of view too. Which requires a lot of imagination. Because this isn't something film-makers try to portray at all, when guys are nailing the girl.

This is how i feel too, and that is why I'm not really that impressed by the people who are running LP and also lot of people on these boards, if this was a company with good leadership they would clean this up.

[BlueShadow]

My wife browses the model forum to find scenes she wants to buy. But has no interest in posting here when she sees so many angry comments, fights, wanting the girls to bleed, hate for TS, etc. Its not really a womens place, women are far more pleasant , its pretty negative around here, let's be honest.

If you say...







...really pleasant.

All it's relative.

[101mike101]

My wife browses the model forum to find scenes she wants to buy. But has no interest in posting here when she sees so many angry comments, fights, wanting the girls to bleed, hate for TS, etc. Its not really a womens place, women are far more pleasant , its pretty negative around here, let's be honest.

If you say...

...

...really pleasant.

All it's relative.

Women have been traditionally denied their human and democratic rights for a long time, even in western societies. Women weren't allowed to vote or do many other things, until the early 20th century.

And even after the laws have been changed, men still continued to dominate the positions of authority in society and often used it for their own advantage. That's why in 1950s for example, it was common for employers to fire women from their jobs, as soon as they got married.

So, it's no surprise that women are still disadvantage in western societies, and some women are rightly unhappy about it.

This is similar to US black slaves winning their legal freedom, but then being denied their rights and abused in various racist ways anyway. Which led to angry protests in 1960s and their Civil Rights movement, that to some extent continues even today.

There is nothing wrong with protesting real injustice in society. All people of conscience should protest injustice, even if they aren't directly affected by it. Because this kind of thing should be a matter of principle, rather than some selfish interest.

[Juliax69]

Using porno-graphical content for entertainment and having the same idea of sexuality in real life sexual relationship is two different thing as per my understanding,
The content of the website is sure entertaining in different ways of mind sets, but i am pretty sure majority like 98% of female never wanted to do this in a real life or to be treated the same way.
Enjoying a porno is a personal right i think, also participate or not in a such an act is also a right as is see. People like batman, but no one would dress up like a bat and hang out in dark alleyways, do they?
Female taste of porn could be different than male, but some women might have a different taste, i don't think it would be a problem until that taste stays within a legally boundary line.
I like to watch rough porn contents and recently i found out this website. The content in the videos are entertaining and they have done a good job when it comes to directing, camera, and acting. All are good. but only because i would enjoy a certain type of a rough video of a gang bang or blow bang, it doesn't mean i would enjoy it by doing it for real. The last thing i would do or want to happen is something like that. No one likes to be disrespected like those women in the videos in real, and to be treated the way they were treated and i haven't check the whole forum yet but with the small surf, and i see what kind of ideas men have on women in porno graphical perception. And I am not against that i understand this physiological entertainment, that's why i surf this website too, everyone here in this type of forum or website, comes to have some fun and entertain. so everyone is free and have the right to express them self as they wish. so because of this even if there are any women who enjoys this website and can't understand the this separation of enjoying a porn and having a real life sexual experience they won't come out and just say hi because they do see others as somewhat weird place and people and also you can't blame those women for keeping them self safe either.
it's like falling down. no one like to fell down, but it's always funny to see someone is falling down. that's the same idea of porn. no one wants to be in it. but like to see it

[101mike101]

....but only because i would enjoy a certain type of a rough video of a gang bang or blow bang, it doesn't mean i would enjoy it by doing it for real. The last thing i would do or want to happen is something like that. No one likes to be disrespected like those women in the videos in real...

.... it's like falling down. no one like to fell down, but it's always funny to see someone is falling down. that's the same idea of porn. no one wants to be in it. but like to see it

I think what you are describing is a kind of blind spot in personal morals and ethics. Because you enjoy watching others suffer from the kinds of things that you wouldn't want to be done to yourself.

It's actually hard to maintain such a blind spot in your thinking and your feeling. That's why you can only watch it from a distance over some medium. But if you were present in the room while it was happening, then it would get to your conscience. And you would start to feel really bad about it.

It's actually common for people to have such blind spots in their morals and ethics. Because a lot of people for example care about animals and treat their pets almost as if these animals are their children or friends. But at the same time they eat meat from other animals raised in cruel conditions, and don't think twice about it.

These people are able to do it, because they've never visited a farm where these animals were raised, and they've never seen these animals being killed an butchered in real life. This is something they probably wouldn't be able to tolerate, if they were actually present there in real life.

But I don't think it's good to have such blind spots in your morals and ethics. Because this kind of thing leads to subconscious feelings of guilt and self-hate. Which in turn can lead to self-destructive behavior in real life. This is probably one of the reasons why so many people become alcoholics, smokers, drug addicts, and why so many people lead unhealthy lifestyles in terms of food and exercise. It's like they are subconsciously punishing themselves for the things they feel guilty about.

I think the trick is to be honest with yourself and try to look at it from the other person's point of view, rather than just your own. Because if you see a person fall and hurt himself or herself, then it only seems funny if you don't look at it from the other person's point of view and don't imagine how they feel in this situation. As soon as you imagine the other person's hurt and feel some of it yourself, then it doesn't seem funny anymore. You empathize and sympathize with the other person instead.

It's the same thing in porn. Don't just look at it from your point of view. Try to imagine what it feels like for the woman. And if you do this successfully, then this will probably change your taste in porn. You'll probably start to enjoy watching women being pleased rather than hurt.

[Jocke]

I don't like degrading or abusive porn. I don't want to prohibit making such porn if the participants are consenting but I don't wish to view it.

However I don't think gangbangs or pissing is degrading. I don't mind my woman pissing on me at all and I don't feel degraded. She doesn't feel degraded when I come in her mouth.

Look at how Cherry Kiss and Vince enjoy mutual pissing.

In my opinion 90% of LP scenes are not degrading and the other 10% I just avoid, but I become depressed when I read some comments on the forum from people who not only want to see girls play a suffering role but suffer for real. Those guys should be locked up!

[dap-addict]

so everyone is free and have the right to express them self as they wish. so because of this even if there are any women who enjoys this website and can't understand the this separation of enjoying a porn and having a real life sexual experience they won't come out and just say hi because they do see others as somewhat weird place and people and also you can't blame those women for keeping them self safe either.

Very wise words!
Thanks for sharing them here, Julia!
I'm a man like 99% of visitors and talkers here iI believe, and still a lot of fellow forum talkers seem to assume daily I was doing DAP in real life as well just because I extremely enjoy to watch it in my porn. Or I was longing to have DAP in real life but I had no sex at all, or yet sth else far from norman hetero bf/gf relationship. Its really strange concept of sexuality many here have, not most I hope, though.