Vancouver wrote:I mean this in all seriousness.
If girls were experiencing DAP, Fisting, Pissing (or just adventurous open minded sexual acts in general) at age 18 and 19 on a widespread basis, they would grow into completely different and more liberated women. The world needs more of this. I have met and dated a lot of women in my time and the ones that had wild and experimental sex lives in their late teens to early 20s generally became more stable and stronger and self confident people as they got older. Women who are over 30 and have done nothing beyond basic vanilla sex are locked into that and highly insecure and volatile.
I am not a psychologist and this is only my experience, but I think many of you may have the same observations.
You smokin' crack, son?
Let's be absolutely real here. Your opinions on porn can be one way or the other - but typically - as many documentaries have shown - as tons of insider reports have shown - interviews - and, most damning of all, statistics - pornography, sex work, and compiling a long list of sexual partners does
a lot of psychological, emotional, and often times, physical damage to the girls who do it.
Now, there are some girls who are totally into it. Or they are completely alright with doing such things. But! That is a vast minority.
All of the girls I knew that got into sex work and pornography, well, all except for one, developed psychological side effects that were
not good, and which actively contributed into the destruction of pretty much every relationship they ever touched afterwards.
When you see them flying completely off the handle because the man came home fifteen minutes late - and "all men do that - and you know what that means" - I don't take it that their time in the field led to a lot of positive treatment or outcomes. Granted, they very well may have had psychological issues beforehand, but I can guarantee that their careers involving fucking random men who, often, believe that because they're paying the girl money they can do anything with them, did not contribute positively to the framework through which they see the world, their worth, or their place inside of it.
It is very often the women who have low body counts, and enjoy the sharing of their body with someone they actually love, and not treating sex like some kind of circus act, that are actually the most stable. Not girls who treat their body like it's a car wash and then start adopting cats once they hit forty.
You're not a psychologist - you said it yourself - but man, that has got to be the absolute dumbest shit take I've ever fucking read. Sit down and really think about what you're doing or your outlook on life.
Let me save you the trouble of your reply: but you're on a porn forum - obviously you enjoy porn!
Indeed! Guilty as charged. But likewise, it's one thing to enjoy a coke habit, it's another to turn around and tell somebody that it's the healthiest thing you can do.
Like, let's be real here.
By the by, my vote also goes to the Nikki Hill BBC DAP scenes. Absolutely the most legendary scenes ever shot in porn.
Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2022 9:36 am
