Any of you guys ever in real life had experiences with women 3 + inches (7.5 cm) taller?
Me I've had a few in my life & found them wonderful.
I'm only 5'7'', was 5'8'' (170-172 cm) in height (middle-age shrinks you a bit naturally), but I always had the healthy attitude that if she was noticeably taller & she sought you out then if you can't follow up on that, you've got problems you need to sort. Because clearly she wants you just as you are.
Weirdly, or maybe not weirdly, I always found the grey area where she was about an inch or 2.5 cm taller more intimidating, because your sense of being in control of physical situation was far more complex to your sense of masculinity... like she owned you even before she put on her heels, not at at all if she was lighter built than you, a waif... the Omar thing wins anytime. But if you're both same build then an issue, I found.
Two of the best situations I had were with a 180 cm lady which was cool in public. Even more intense still was with a 185 cm lady - but we kept that private... too many stares in public. Theres a difference between having a great relationship with someone in private & knowing you look the odd couple walking down the street.
I'm reminiscing... these situations were 10 -15 years ago, but the rolling years don't bring any new light on the issue.
But I sometimes both envy & don't envy tall men who never had to even think about these things.