doraemon_washington wrote:i understand men dont like other men cuz they look gross
but if a hot girl says she doesnt find other hot girls 'hot' and she wouldnt have fun kissing them and doing sexual things with other hot girls, shes stupid & in denial
If you genuinely believe this and don't see the flaws in it then you need to sit down and have a real think about
why you believe what you do. Human sexuality is a deep, deep ocean and just like how there's room for people to be attracted to anything (toenails, family members, being ill, aeroplanes...) there's room for people to
not be attracted to things in the slightest.
My favourite example is foot fetishism. Having a foot fetish is so common it's basically an extra sexual orientation, and there are people out there who feel their knees get weak just seeing someone walk down the street in open toe heels. But for the majority of the population, feet do nothing for them or are even a turn-off. If someone with a foot fetish said "if someone doesn't find feet "hot" and wouldn't have fun kissing them and doing sexual things with feet, they're stupid & in denial" I hope you'd recognise that as being the result of a narrow-minded worldview, a person who can't understand that other people have completely different experiences to them.
You say yourself that men look gross and yet there are plenty of people who love men, who are deliriously horny for men of all shapes and hairiness and whatnot in exactly the same way you love hot women. Is it so hard to imagine that many* straight women have the same reaction to other women you have to other men?
*I say many because you're right about a couple of things: society is pretty repressed and there are a lot of people out there who don't realise or try to ignore that they aren't straight; and it is possible to enjoy loveless fornication with someone you're not attracted to. But that doesn't change the fact that straight women exist.